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Disastrous fingering
I have a friend, let's call her *Marie. Well Marie told me today that she got fingered by her cousin, who's sixteen. She said she didn't want to do it but he just kind of laid on top of her and did it. She was going to call for her other cousin who would've stopped it, but she said he wouldn't have come because he thought they were fooling around and didn't want to disturb them.
She just told him to quit and he wouldn't, so I'm guessing it's 'finger rape', if there is such a thing.
Well now she said she had dark stuff in her panties. I think she said black fuzzy stuff. Like discharge. She said she still hurts from the encounter and I don't know how long ago it was. She said she REALLY wants to go see a doctor but she doesn't know how to go about it. Her parents are the strict kind, so if you told them you even kissed somebody they would have a heart attack. I'm asking for her because I am very worried and I have no clue what could be going on with her.
Thanks for helping.
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I'd get her to a hospital and put her in the rape unit. She would get everything she needed to become healthy again.
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WAS MARIE A VIRGIN IT SOUNDS LIKE THAT TO ME I DOMT THINK THER IS SUCH A THING AS FINGER RAPE,PLEASE TELL MARIE TO BE REALLY CAREFULL WHO SHES ALONE WITH ,SHE HAS THE CORAGE OR THE STRENGHT TO SAY SAY NO, SO AS A GOOD FREIND BE WITH HER ALL THE TIME TILL SHE CAN DEAL WITH A SITUATION LIKE THAT AGAIN ON HER OWN AND I WOUILD ADVISE HER TO SEE A DR IF SHE IS SORE OR STARTED BLEEDING GOOD LUCK,I CAME BACK TO THIS QUESTION BECAUSE IT WAS BUGGING ME ,IVE CHECKED A FEW THINGS OUT I WOULD GO THE POLICE WITH YOUR FREIND ,WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO HER IS VIOLATION,SHE NEEDS TO REPORT IT STRAIGHT AWAY
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That is called "sexually battery" and is illegal. She was essentially raped, and there are far reaching effects to rape, psychologically and physically. She should definitely see a doctor. I guess she is going to have to tell her parents, or maybe just her mother, and explain that she was forced. It is a horrible situation to be in, especially when you think no one will believe you.
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YES SHE SHOULD GO TO THE DOCTOR'S AND SHE NEEDS TO TELL HER MOTHER WHAT HAPPEN BECAUSE THAT PERSON IS SICK IN THE HEAD AND HE NEEDS TO BE STOP IN HIS TRACKS NOW BEFORE HE DOES THAT SORT OF THING TO HIS LITTLE SISTER OR SOMEONE ELSE .BUT HE REALLY NEEDS HELP BECAUSE HE COULD HAVE BEEN MOLESTED HISSELF AT ONETIME BUT THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT RIGHT WHAT HE DID TO HER.TELL HER TO CALL THE RAPE CRISIS LINE IN YOUR HOMETOWN SO SHE CAN TALK TO SOMEONE IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO HER MOTHER AND THEY CAN TELL HER WHAT TO DO ABOUT TAKING LEGAL ACTION.
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She didn't do anything wrong. Please have her go the doctor immediately. She needs to tell her parents because this cousin could do worse things to her in the future.
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her parents need to know about this. have your parents take her to the doctors or something if you can but be sure they dont tell her parents yet. wait untill you find out what is wrong with her then she should tell her parents. if she cant tell them then maybe you should or your parents can. i hope this helps!
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That was wrong of him! He shouldnt have done that.
Take a hot bath it should help with the pain.
If she really wants to tell someone she should turn to someone she can trust.
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As said...it's rape.
She could have yells for help anyway. She should of...
But what is done is done. If she doesn't want to tell her parents first, she should tell a trusting older person...like, your parents. They should know what to do. Back her up when she tell her parents...and go from there. Or just "call the police."
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It's rape. Rape isn't necessarily forced intercourse, it's forced sexual activity of any kind.
If her parents flip out about this, that's bad. She didn't do anything wrong. Please make sure she knows she didn't do anything wrong.
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