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hello i know someone must be able to answer this the national guard wants my 16 yr old daughter to enlist and they will pay for her college i think it is a good idea for several reasons but my daughter is not in shape will that matter she is 5 ft 4 and 190 she is not athletic or anything is sorta of a girly girl i want to know the down side to the national guard she wants to be a school teacher but i want her to try the guard but i would like to know the down side to the guard thanks
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LET YOUR DAUGHTER MAKE UP HER OWN MIND ABOUT SHE WANTS TO DO WITH HER LIFE.JUST STAND BEHIND HER AND SUPPORT HER NO MATTER WHAT PATH SHE CHOOSES
TO GO DOWN.IF YOU TRY TO MAKE HER DO SOMETHING SHE
DOESN'T WANT TO DO SHE BECOME REBELIOUS AND ANGRY.
WE CAN'T PICK OUR CHILDREN'S LIFES FOR THEM WE CAN ONLY SUPPORT THEM IN IT NO MATTER HOW BAD WE WANT THEM TO DO WHAT WE WANT THEM TO BE.I AM SURE YOU DIDN'T DO WHAT YOUR MOTHER WANTED YOU TO BE AND I KNOW I AM NOT WHAT MY MOTHER WANTED ME TO BE.
DON'T FORCE JUST MAKE A SUGGESTION.STAY STRONG AND
BE INCOURGED.
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I have a 1990 300ZX and the check engine light came on today and I do not have a manual. What does this mean for this vehicle? (link)
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YOU NEED TO TAKE IT AND HAVE SOMEONE TO CHECK IT OUT BECAUSE THE LIGHT COULD ME SEVERAL DIFFERENT THINGS.BUT YOU SHOULDN'T WORK ON TI YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU CAN MESS ITB UP WORSE.
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I have this friend. Well, he's not exactly my friend, but we hang out at school and stuff. Awhile back, I used to like him and I told some people. One day, someone told him. Then he started avoiding me. Now he's talking to me, like all the time. He always wants my advice on something and always sticks up for me. Does anyone know why he's acting like this?
Thanks!
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MAYBE HE IS DEVELOPING A SPECIAL FRIENDSHIP BETWEEN YOU AND HIM AND MAYBE HE MAY LIKE YOU BACK
AND HE LIKES BEING AROUND.BECAUSE YOU MAYBE A NICE
PERSON AND HE IS GOING TO BE LOOKING OUT FOR.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND YOUR FRIEND BOTH AND I HOPE IT WORKS OUT.
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ive just started dating this guy. he says he loves me and i feel i love him. im not one to throw the word love around. ive only used it twise in my life.lately we've been thinking about sex. how long is appropriate to wait? (link)
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I THINK YOU SHOULD WAITE UNTIL YOU GET TO KNOW HIM A LITTLE BETTER.AND BE CAREFUL BECAUSE HE MIGHT JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU THEN HE'S GONE HE MIGHT BE JUST PLAYING THAT NICE GUY ROLE.
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Why is it that every time I talk to my mother on the phone she somehow steers the question towards the fact that I'm not married? I thought she was all proud of me for being a tough independent woman but that all flies out the window when the subject of love comes up. My boyfriend and I are in no hurry to get married, and this is like a personal insult to her or something. I don't get it. (link)
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YOUR MOTHER WANTS TO BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE.BUT YOU ARE NOT YOUR MOTHER AND YOU NEED TO TELL HER WHEN YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND ARE READY TO MAKE THAT STEP YOU WILL.WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT FOR BOTH OF YOU BOTH OF YOU WILL KNOW IT.NEVER BE IN A HURRY TO GET MARRIED BECAUSE THAT IS A BIG,BIG STEP AND YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO STAY WITH THAT PERSON TILL DEATH DO YOU PART.YOU MOTHER HAS
LIVED MOST OF HER LIFE OUT AND NOW SHE NEEDS TO ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YOU ARE A GROWN AND INTEELIGENT WOMAN AND YOU CAN MAKE YOUR OWN MIND UP ABOUT WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU.
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I have a friend, let's call her *Marie. Well Marie told me today that she got fingered by her cousin, who's sixteen. She said she didn't want to do it but he just kind of laid on top of her and did it. She was going to call for her other cousin who would've stopped it, but she said he wouldn't have come because he thought they were fooling around and didn't want to disturb them.
She just told him to quit and he wouldn't, so I'm guessing it's 'finger rape', if there is such a thing.
Well now she said she had dark stuff in her panties. I think she said black fuzzy stuff. Like discharge. She said she still hurts from the encounter and I don't know how long ago it was. She said she REALLY wants to go see a doctor but she doesn't know how to go about it. Her parents are the strict kind, so if you told them you even kissed somebody they would have a heart attack. I'm asking for her because I am very worried and I have no clue what could be going on with her.
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YES SHE SHOULD GO TO THE DOCTOR'S AND SHE NEEDS TO TELL HER MOTHER WHAT HAPPEN BECAUSE THAT PERSON IS SICK IN THE HEAD AND HE NEEDS TO BE STOP IN HIS TRACKS NOW BEFORE HE DOES THAT SORT OF THING TO HIS LITTLE SISTER OR SOMEONE ELSE .BUT HE REALLY NEEDS HELP BECAUSE HE COULD HAVE BEEN MOLESTED HISSELF AT ONETIME BUT THAT DOESN'T MAKE IT RIGHT WHAT HE DID TO HER.TELL HER TO CALL THE RAPE CRISIS LINE IN YOUR HOMETOWN SO SHE CAN TALK TO SOMEONE IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO HER MOTHER AND THEY CAN TELL HER WHAT TO DO ABOUT TAKING LEGAL ACTION.
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Thanks davette. theres only one problem. I have tried this already and when I do she tells me to F*** off. Anything I try to do she flips out and says that I don't love her and I don't care (link)
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WELL IF YOU HAVE TRIED THEN JUST PUT IN GOD'S HANDS AND YOU KNOW THAT GOD CAN WORK OUT THE ROUGHEST AND TOUGHEST THINGS IN OUR LIVES.JUST HAVE A LITTLE FAITH AND LET GOD DO THE REST.
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at a school dance, i was a little depressed because i had just broken up with some jerk. my friend set me to slow dance with another guy, but it doesn't feel right. what is wrong? (link)
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there is nothing wrong with being a little down you still have feelings for this person still and right now you are just not ready to be in the company of other men right now.you need a true friend that can help you through this tough time not be trying to set you up with someone right.keep your head up and keep the faith read your i bible and pray and ask GOD to bring you through this and send you a person who is going to love you and only you.GOOD LUCK AND MY GOD SHINE HIS LIGHT DOWN ON YOU.
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I need help. There is this guy that I have liked for the pass eleven months. We used to be friends and today I talked to him for the first time in a month and he told me to never call him again. he sounded like he was on drugs but one of my friends told me that he is not. If something doesn't happen soon, my best friend will kick his ass. He used to be really nice, but he is being a bitch to me. Ask me a question if you would like
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give him a chance to see why he told you that.he might have been in a bad mood that day and he probly didn't mean anything by it.or maybe someone might have told him that you said something about.ask him and see what he says.
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my most recent ex boyfriend broke up with me this saturday. which is also the day i was supposed to go over to his house and hang out with his sister. he told her he didnt have feelings for me anymore, but, he ketp smiling at me. and looking and starting at me when he thought i wasnt looking. his flirting and him just being himself are kinda the same. hes the pick on beat up kinda flirt and that way as himself so i cant tell if he likes me again. im to shy to just ask him. what should i do? his sister said to kiss him and see what his reaction is but im afraid he will pull back before i even get to his lips and then i will look like an idiot. by the way. i am 13 and a female. (link)
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you need to give yourself time after all you are
only thirteen and i have a daughter your age and i tell her never rush into anything she is not ready for.sometimes boy's may test a girl to see if she is fast and to see if she is lose.so be careful and always watch a boy's actions and expressions on their faces.and rember to conduct yourself as a nice young lady.and one day GOD will send you a good husband when you are older.
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I am a 25 year old female, and the other night my boyfriend accidentally (he says) called me his ex-girlfriends (mother of his childs) name, while giving me a compliment. Is this a big deal, I can't help but be bothered by it. He says it was an accident, and that it's me he loves, and he doesn't know why he said it. What should I do? (link)
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give him a chance maybe he really didn't mean to
say it,but at the same time be careful and don't never forget a man is going to be a man no matter
how good we are to them.
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Hello. This is the first time I have looked for help on this subject. Long story short: my mom met a guy, we moved in eith him, I was an asshole before this happened, I saw what he was like to her, we moved out, and I was the perfect son for three years, then something went wrong. This is what my mom said and I agree. We have fought constantly on and off since then. My mom has chronic headaches and a sleeping disease. I usually make light of the situation by making fun of the problem and I started making fun of my mom. She got pissed which I can understand but she knows how I deal with things. We have gotten into fights many times and she has packed up my stuff and taken me to my aunts, said she was going to leave, or said she was going to kill herself. I make fun of her for crying, and for her diseases because everyone else's life seems to be like the brady bunch. I understand I have been ignorant and I need to change. We just had a fight tonight because last friday I told her that the only person that sleeps more than her is a dead person. I guess that and all the names I have called her finally built up again. She has raised me well but insists that she is a bad mother and I deserve better. And that better is for her to leave and for me to live with my aunt and to never see her again. I told her that I don't need all of this confusion along with all of my school work. Then she atarted making fun of me for saying that. I told her that she isn't me, she isn't in my head, and doesn't know what is best for me(by her leaving)I actually think that she is going ot leave this time. Please write back at------slayer512@earthlink.net
I don't know what else to do please help I am a 17 year old guy (link)
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well for one thing you can make things better so your mother won't leave you.you have to be caring of your mother's feelings.and you have to understand that she has been a single parent and trying to do the best she can to make a life for you.but you have to give her some respect to.start by telling her that that you thank her for everything she has done for you and always being there when no one else was.tell you love her very much and that you are going to be better and more caring of her feelings.
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i dunno if this is the right subject 4 this but..im homeschooled and i wanna play sports cuz i wanna be able 2 beat my crush in sports and impress him. do u guys know any way i can get into a sport even though im homeschooled? (link)
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go to your local boys and girls club in your town
or your local ymca and they can tell you how you can go about getting started in some type of sports.even or you can find a in your local newspaper sometimes they have listings.or ask around town.GOOD LUCK....
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all my pets have died and my mom says i cant get anymore because she thinks i am not responsible. what do i do? (link)
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tell your mother to give you another chance to prove that you are in fact responsible enough to take care of a pet.tell her to give you a trail
period for thirty-days and if you don't follow through with it she can give the pet to someone who can take better care of it
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