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at a school dance, i was a little depressed because i had just broken up with some jerk. my friend set me to slow dance with another guy, but it doesn't feel right. what is wrong?
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do you really think that every slow dance you have is going to feel special? nothings wrong with you, it does take a while to get over your ex but if he's a jerk i dont no why you would be depressed. i wouldnt worry about it, it was one slow dance at one school dance. I say get out there and find a great guy and forget about it!
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there is nothing wrong with being a little down you still have feelings for this person still and right now you are just not ready to be in the company of other men right now.you need a true friend that can help you through this tough time not be trying to set you up with someone right.keep your head up and keep the faith read your i bible and pray and ask GOD to bring you through this and send you a person who is going to love you and only you.GOOD LUCK AND MY GOD SHINE HIS LIGHT DOWN ON YOU.
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it could just be that you're not over the other guy yet, these things take time. if you miss the other guy, no matter how much of a jerk he was to you you can't help but feel wierd dancing with someone else.
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You probably still like the guy you broke up with. Even if you were the one who broke it off, and you're certain you hate the jerk, believe me, your subconscious still has attachment issues. It happened to me. I broke up with this one idiot who was driving me crazy and wouldn't leave me alone, but couldn't find anyone else to get a crush on. I hated him, he drove me crazy, but I still sort of liked him. It sucks, doesn't it? Give it some time. Even if your conscious mind is over him, your subconscious will cling. It'll let go after awhile. =)
-Siren
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I wouldn't fret about it too much. I'd just wait a little while to let all your emotions settle down.
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You're not over the other guy yet, and you are feeling rushed about the situation. Give it time, because moving on takes time and patience. Big hearts and lots of chocolate. <3
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I like the way this little box says "Your brilliant answer". And it's true. I'm sorry if you feel I don't take your question seriously enough, but that was only two sentences. I only do this to make a little lighter you problem. It makes sense entirely. You may not be ready to move on after your breakup, even if the guy was a jerk. Don't feel bad because you need some time alone. It's not wrong at all. When the time comes, you'll find someone else. For now, you can tell your friends you just aren't ready. And to make one more little joke: might I have this jerk's address so that I may injure him in some way?
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well, you shouldn't feel depressed cuz if you don't like the jerk it's good.
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