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My friends don't care anymore!
Most my friends have seemed to not care about me anymore. They all just care about other friends now, and never have time to even just say "hello" to me, but they have time to spend time with other people for hours on end. I feel so betrayed, these people that i called friends just don't seem to care anymore, I hardly ever talk to them anymore, when when i attempt to, i get responses of "uhuh" or any other word related. What can i do to get them to actually notice me? =( please help!
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ok well what i do is start spending time with another group of people and then they will notice your not around. so then youll be noticed. but this is a tricky one to do bc if they don't notice it will be very hard to get back. I also invite a few of them over or see if they wanna go to the movies (or maybe 6 flags!)then we like bond or whatever and catch up and they don' forget about how much fun you had together!
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Aww hun, I know what this situation is like, i've been there and done it before. These people aren't worthy of your friendship. You could try striking up a conversation with someone in your classes, getting some new friends around you. If you really do want to get back in with these people, you need to ask one of the more sensitive people in the group what's going on, why the others are acting this way toward you. Hope it all works out for you.
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i know how you fell my mates done that to me the best thing to do is leave them to move on and get better friends do not worry about soon they will come and see you and it will be like the old times having a laugh it will be better if you do not see them all the time give them some time to think about it i did and i like it better now we have more fun together aand you get more friends.
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get new friends. they arent worth your time if they are gonna treat you like that.
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Well the real questions is do you want to spend the time and effort into trying to make them notice you or do you want to just drop them and find some new best buds? If you want some attention just outright ask them what is wrong with them. If they just keep ignoring you then you definetly need to just stop hanging with them because they aren't "friends".
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Why would you still want to be their friends when they "don't have time" or ignore you. That happens to me during the middle of school years...but someday, i won't be in a school. learn to make new friends...or, if you still want these "friends" of yours to go back to you, just go up to them, nod, and say few things (to them), be polite. then one day they might say "hey!!!!!!" well, i don't talk to my (ex?) friends at all. only when that have something to say to me. and sometimes, they say "hiya" to me the next day!
it's like...magic.
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I find it quite intersting you still want these people to be your friends. There exist 6 billion people on this planet, why do you seek out those who clearly don'y deserve your friendship? I can tell you how to get them to notice you and what you should really do at once. Yell at them. I'm fond of various curse words because I cannot see why they are shunned, but it isn't necessary. Revenge is too far, of course, but do something!
Of course, maybe they still are good people, the trick now is to be ectra nice to them. In this scenario you show them why they once were your friends. Often friendships are ruined when one's friends begin to be friends with another, but quite possibly they feel bad about it. Be as nice as possible, do the unnecessary helful things for them.
Me, I'd probably start with the nice, then if they truly don't care about me any more I show them my feelings for them. You can find new friends, good ones. Society is full of those uncarring self-centred people, I suggest not being a part of them. I do not say my advice is best, but give it some thought, at least. What you do is your own choice, don't let this incident manipulate and control your mind.
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