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stupid but i wanna know
i was wondering...i'm the ultimate good girl...i haven't done anything remotely sexual. i haven't even gotten kissed yet. but i'm curious...about fingering, blowjobs, handjobs. can someone please explain to me how to do those? hah. i know that's rather stupid and could leave u open to lots of answers...but i need answers. and also pubic hair...shave? trim? i'm lost..any help is appreciated. and when you stop laughing at me maybe u can gimme some advice. ;) hah.
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i used to be like you, don't think your the only one!
Fingering/Poking - when your guy inserts his fingers into your vagina, and 'pokes' you. There's no way to get STI's from this, or to get pregnant. It might sound grose, but it's kinda nice. Just make sure his nails aren't long, and that his hands are clean!
Blow job- when the girl puts the guys penis into her mouth. Licking, sucking, gentle scraping etc are all included. Massaging the 'balls' also helps. You can't get pregnant from this but if you swallow the guys 'cum' then i think you can get an STI.
Handjob -when a girl masturbates the guy instead of him doing it himself. Rubbing/stroking/chugging for him. The movement is all in the wrist! You can't get an STI or get pregnant.
Going down- When the guy puts his tongue in and around your vagina, kind of like fingering, but instead with his tongue. It is meant to stimulate. This is the only thing i haven't done apart from sex, but i'm kinda planning on it with my boyfriend.
Pubic hair - Trim for most people. A lot of people shave using an electric shaver. I find that hair removal creams work well. If your guy is going to 'go down' on you then a trim or a complete shave it better! Make sure your hair isn't spikey! Or that you don't have spiky stubble!
ONLY DO WHAT FEELS NATURAL!! good luck!
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Allow me to recommend a fantastic book to you! This book will answer all of your questions about sex, show you cool techniques, AND it's very amusing and fun to read! It's called "Guide to Getting It On" and the author is Paul Joannides. The book is published by Goofy Foot Press -- check out their website at www.goofyfootpress.com. I bought this book last year and I love it. If you are too embarrassed to buy it at the store, you can order it online from Amazon.com or Barnes & Noble or a similar site.
But if you don't have the money to spend on a book, try looking up some sex tips sites online. I would be careful about this if you share your computer with someone, however.
As far as tips I myself can give you, I can tell you about all kinds of techniques; however, every one is different and no one technique is going to work on every single person. Blowjobs and handjobs are things you learn and become good at as you go along. Ask your partner to show you what he likes. And when it comes to his pleasuring you, tell him what you would like him to do and help him do it correctly. If you have trouble with these things, you aren't ready to be doing them.
As for pubic hair, it's really up to you what you want to do with it, although it never hurts to ask your partner for advice. I like to keep mine shaved, but that's my own personal preference.
There's nothing wrong with asking questions like these, and no one should ever laugh at you for it ... sex is a wonderful thing, and learning about it is certainly very fun. Just remember that nobody ever starts out knowing how to do everything perfectly!
If you have any additional questions, feel free to ask me and I'll help you out as much as I can!
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Yes, i'm like that too...but DruidX seems to know all...i'll just ask her!
it's late...so...
pubic hair...shave? if you want to...i've heard it tickles or/and itches the first few times...but you'll get used to it.
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DruidX was pretty clear about what all those things are, but if you are wondering about what the right way to do these things is, the best thing to do is to communicate with your partner. Ask questions. That is how you learn what feels best for either of you. None of them are really difficult or complicated.
Also, I wouldn't rush into it unless your really care about and trust the person you are with.
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I can't explain any better than it has been already, but here's a good sex ed site:
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Probably not exactly what you are looking for, but (shrug)
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I wonder what exactly you want to know?
Fingering- is when the person you are with puts there fingers into your vagina in a pleaseing way. there is no way to get pregnant from this, but you should take care that your partners hands are in good shape and the fails are too long or jaggedy. That hurts. I personalyy don't really like this, its fun for a while, but then gets uncomfotable.
Blow job- when a bloke has his penis put into the moth of his partner and is pleasered oraly. Never done this, and farnkly the thought sickens me, so no advice on this one, other than you can't get pregnant this way either.
Handjob-when a bloke is masurebated for him [ie the partner does it] possiblity of preagnacy, depending on how close one is. Make sure you have a very strong wrist if you want to do this.
Pubic hair. Personaly i just trim. A lot of people shave with an electric shaver or bread trimmer. It really depends if your partner is going to 'go down' on you a lot. Having to fight to get to the vigaina probably worn't be nice for your partner. Also, when you have your period, if you don't wash very regulary the blood dries in the hair that is very long and can be painfull to get out.
Going down- the partner putting there toung inside you and doing pleaserable things to you oraly. Can't give advice on this much as i've never done it ;)
if you need more help, feel free to contact me.
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