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i need help please
ok well i seem to get into major fights with my brother which then leads to my parents! and the fights are usually me ending up really hurt! today was one of them! i got beat in the head by my 18 eyar old brother and my parents said i deserved it. and i had major panic attack because i was hit so hard! so my mom says she cares about me.. but then says she hates me and that i need to go to hell and blah blah blah! and my brother gets away with everything! he was told to leave the truck keys here, and he didnt and didnt get in trouble. and he steals a lot of stuff from me and my parents, and continues to get what he wants! i have told my mom several times what is happening and she does not believe anything i say and does not think i am right! and it always ends up with me hit some way some how! i am only 15. and my brother is on probation, but drinks underage and smokes pot alot. i dont know how to handle this anymore, and if i try to leave i will get the cops called on me by my parents! i am ONLY 15, getting literally emotionally and physically abused by my family! i have called the cops on my family but it seems to do no good, b/c they do not help me! please, if anyone is out there that is a mother or a father or someone that could help me! please.. i need something to help me deal with this situation! =( please, help me
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Ok, you seem like you have a lot of anger in you, and I can understand that. You sound like you're miserable on the inside. I think that you should contact social services if you want to leave. Take pictures of yourself after the beatings with witnesses to prove that it was actually you. (at least two) Maybe you could secretly tape record conversations that are going to be particularly bad, and then replay it to your parents after they and you have calmed down. (preferably in a calm time, like evening or morning) And no, you DO NOT deserve what is happening to you, call the police again when you have proof of your abuse. If they don't do anything, look into an lawyer. Also, you might want to see if you could live with a relative who lives away from your brother and parents, like aunts, uncles, and grandparents. I know how emotional abuse can be, I found that keeping a journal helped me reflect and clear my thoughts. Another thing that you could do is see a therapist or counselor at school to help you get the help you need. You can get a social worker through your school. Please don't let this go on any longer, you deserve way better. The key is getting it out there and proof. I'm praying for you, and I truly hope that you can get the help you need.
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THis is a major problem. If your parents aren't doing anything about your 18-year-old brother beating you and it's causing you to have a panic attack (which I know isn't fun) you need to tell a counselor at school or someone of authority there. If you are in danger of getting seriously hurt you need to go to someone and do that soon. You don't want to end up seriously hurt.
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sue the bastards. But before you do you need to tell the cops again (have evidence from the abusing and show it to them) get an itturney and well there you are in court, also tape record some conversations with you and your brother and let him fess up that he smokes pot, and hide a video camera in his room somewhere but let the lenses show, and take it out the next day. You also need to tell your closest friends, and ask them what you should do about it. THEY WILL CARE ABOUT YOU!!
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Well, since the cops aren't do anything, go to the Child Protective Services!!! They will for sure do something!!! And maybe take pictures of the pot that your brother is using and all the bruises from the abuse so you have proof!! I don't know if you can get Student Welfare, but try that though too... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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