ok to lay it out for you, im 15 and i got to hamilton high school, and from what people tell me, i can give pretty good advice. I love giving advice when it comes to family matters and friends, because i have had many experiences where my friends and family have been problems in my life. If anyone has a specific problem about either of those, feel free to send them to me and ill help as much as i can! :-D
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thank you. ur advice seriously changed me. be4 i was soo obbsessed with what i lo0ked like and what not. but after i read what you had to say, i think sumthin made my attitude towards the situation 100x better. you just kind of gave me that little bit of confidence bo0st i soo greatly needed. and you made me feel better about myself, when u dont even know me! nd thats awesome. its like u cud understand me, and u really helped me out... u may not know how much that ur advice means to me, b/c to you it was just advice, LoL, but to me its like words to live by. i wont let ne more stupid boys or anyone's remarks get to me. and im gonna see all of the good things about me.. opposed to the bad. thank you sooooo much. ur such a sweet, and awesome person! L0v3 *brittany* (link)
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YOU ARE SO WELCOME! lol.. if u ever have neother ?'s then come 2 me and ill be happy to help! :-D
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Well, i have this friend and i mean she is really really nice when it is jsut us two, but when we are with our other good friends or when we are with boys, she always has to be the center of attention. She knows she has the best body, so she always says something about being on a diet, so people tell her that she is perfect, and she knows she is like gorgeous and so she always talks about how she looks bad so everyone can reassure her some more. Me and my other bestfriend have been talking about it constantly and we love being with her alone, but it is really getting on our nerves, especially because it makes us feel worse about ourselves. Please help!!! (link)
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GIRL! u need to talk to this friend. If she talks about her self like this, then its not right, tell her that u dont like it when she says these things because she just does it to be the center of attention. Tell her (somewhat) wat u sayd on here. Tell her it makes you feel worse about yourself... YOU DONT NEED TO BRING YOURSELF DOWN BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO BE THE BEST! Tell her that you like how she acts when you two are alone. trust me i have a friend EXACTLY like that.. and i just told her flat out "do you say that so ppl will tell you that your skinny and beautiful?" and she stopped saying it .. just tlak 2 her about it.. if shes a friend she'll understand and stop! because the last thing a true friend wants to do is bring one of her friends down. talk to her calmly and dont blow up and if shes a true friend.. she will understand
.*. Sweetie .*.
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My friend's dad smokes. She is afraid he will die! She says that he has been coughing really bad latly. She says he is trying to stop smoking, but not really suceeding. She says that he is the one who brings all the money to the family, and shes just very afraid. She is afraid he will die from cancer or something. So basically, i need some advice in helping her through these hard times, and maybe if theres a good way to help her dad smoking. Thank you! (link)
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I have been through this same situation. My dad also smokes and has difficulty quitting. You jsut need to stick with her through this and ask her if there is anything you can do to make her feel better. Also tell her to talk to her dad about this, tell her to tell her dad that it is scaring her and that she just wants him to be alright because she loves him. Just tell her that you will be with her this whole time and that she can count on you. It seems as though she needs a friend right now
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okay.. a few years ago.. my sister died of luekemia.. n today..at the end of gym.. my close friend confessed to me that she has luekemia.. so that second she otld me i bursted out crying n then she started crying.. then the bell rang..n then i had math.. so i was crying wen i got in math n after the bell rang.. my teached pulled me out of the room n was like wuts wrong you need to tell me if sumones gonna get hrut u need to tell me.. n she kept like naggin.. so i was like yea mah friend.lets call her Sara.. so i told her sara has luekimia..cuz she has sara as a student in another period.. n so she was like omg im so sory n she was all hugin me n stuff. so she took me to the school sicotrist(sry spelling!)n i had already known the sicotrist...from past experiences n mah parents were close with her threw her daughter.. soo she was like yea jus calm down ur gotta be strogn lol stuff.. cuz a few periods later.. about 15 minutes b4 the end of the day.. she came into mah civics class n was like..i need to speak to Ali.. so i went n she was like guess wut.. sara doesnt have luekemia.. so i was like omg... but i know for a fact that sara wud never ever ever ever lie about sumthin like that... so i was like.. how do you know.. n she was like.. i talked to her sister in the highschool n she was baffled by the idea..so i was all like..rite.. so i went bac into mah class n at the end of it.. mah civics teacher(whjo is the most understanding teacher in the whole wide world) was like okay i heard n stuff n its gnna be okay she don have it or ne thin they called her parents nstuff... so who do i believe? i mean i know for a fact she wud never lie about sumthing like that
sry so long
ali (link)
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Well the thing is, if your so called friend "sara" is lieing then that is a really shady thing to do after she knows that your touch about that subject. What you need to do is confront her about htis issue and tell her that you need to know the truth.. and tell her that you talked to the phsycologist and she talked to your parents and they said that she doesn't have it. She might be mad because of the physcologist telling her parents but if she is a true friend she would tell you the truth. Maybe because of the situation with your sister she was just looking for a little attention because she felt she wasnt' getting enough attention.. all you need to do is calmly talk this over with her and tell her that it really hurt you when she said it and all you want is the truth
.*. sweetie .*.
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Should i ask out a girl everyone hates in school? (link)
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If you like this girl alot then it shouldn't matter what she looks like or if shes hated. It doesn't matter because all that matters is how you feel. The girl could be the ugliest girl in school, or the most hated, but if you like her than it certainly doesn't matter
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ok im 15 years old, and im bout 5'3 i weigh 100 pounds even, and im a size 0. but sumhow i always think im fat! my friends r like "your not fat, stop saying that" i mean yea im not the most self-confident person.. but i dont see why my weight bothers me so much. i dont have like rolls or ne thing. but im constantly talking about how i want to lose weight. yet i know im not fat... but at the same time i convince myself i am. i think it has to do with my x boyfriend, b/c he called me fat as a joke once, but since then.. ive been really concious about it. i dont know wut to do. or how i can stop being so obsessive about my weight and just my personality towards it in general....ne suggestions? thankx
L0v3 - brittany (link)
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Brittany,
You sound very sweet and your probly a skinny girl that just gets self conscience every once and a while, and it happens to everyone! dont worry and you kno what .. if your x-boyfriend wantz to make jokes like that then hes not worth time even as a friend because thatz how ppl get brought down and especially girls. I kno how you feel ive been that way sometimes, but when you feel that way you just have to think of all the great things about u! Never get down on yourself because that just gives other people reason to get down on you! and you dont want that... trust me your probly very pretty.. and you just have to stay positive and everything will get better dont worry!! :-D
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