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i dont know WHAT my deal is with weight!
ok im 15 years old, and im bout 5'3 i weigh 100 pounds even, and im a size 0. but sumhow i always think im fat! my friends r like "your not fat, stop saying that" i mean yea im not the most self-confident person.. but i dont see why my weight bothers me so much. i dont have like rolls or ne thing. but im constantly talking about how i want to lose weight. yet i know im not fat... but at the same time i convince myself i am. i think it has to do with my x boyfriend, b/c he called me fat as a joke once, but since then.. ive been really concious about it. i dont know wut to do. or how i can stop being so obsessive about my weight and just my personality towards it in general....ne suggestions? thankx
L0v3 - brittany
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I don't really know what to say, other than you're not fat! You are perfectly proportional for your height, sweetie! Try to think of the other qualities that make you, YOU! Like your beautiful eyes and hair! You're not fat =)
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When you live your whole life and never think you are fat, and then all of a sudden someone tells you that your fat, even if its a joke, it kind of sets your self esteem back a notch. When your ex joked about your weight it made you obviously think about it. The comment was something new to you. Have confidence in yourself and know that your not fat. Forget about what he said to you.
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you're not fat,don't let anyone ever say that you are. Billions of people out there can't even DREAM of having a figure like yours. You're to self cautious. Just breathe. Relax. Have a good time. Its not all always about whats on the outside, the inside counts too. I know you've been told that millions of times... but consider it. Instead of waisting all your precious moments trying to perfect yourslef, do something that makes you happy or something. Anything. Help some poor starving kids. You are who you are
-Sam
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Hun if your a size zero you are not fat so just chill. You probably look great. I am not even i size zero and im to skinny! Be happy with who you are
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if youre THAT insecure and by just ONE joke you start to flip out then you are really low on confidence. confidence is EVERYTHING. if you just dont want to get bigger then just keep eating the same amount of stuff and you wont gain weight. but if you lose more weight you'll look really digusting like some of those girls that are so skinny people make fun of just as much as fat girls. so think of it that way, its not like youre trying to trick yourself, because its so true. besides u shouldn't care about what ur ex says... who cares about him anyway
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Brittany,
You sound very sweet and your probly a skinny girl that just gets self conscience every once and a while, and it happens to everyone! dont worry and you kno what .. if your x-boyfriend wantz to make jokes like that then hes not worth time even as a friend because thatz how ppl get brought down and especially girls. I kno how you feel ive been that way sometimes, but when you feel that way you just have to think of all the great things about u! Never get down on yourself because that just gives other people reason to get down on you! and you dont want that... trust me your probly very pretty.. and you just have to stay positive and everything will get better dont worry!! :-D
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go to disney world. people there weigh three and a half times as much as you. and they're the average americans. darlin', i'm sure you're beautiful as is, heck, maybe you could stand to gain some weight. but please don't worry 100 pounds is plenty skinny. i'd worry about bone mass if i was that tiny... if you can't stop worrying, pleas seek real help!
best of luck
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You sound like you might have a slight bit of an eating disorder =/ your at a skinny yet healthy weight now and its a good weight to stay at. Anyone who wears 0 size pants is skinny ;) Dont concentrate on your weight so much. You might try exercising just to relieve stress. If you still feel fat see a therapist.
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aww c'mon, i kno a girl jus like u, i went out wit her 4 a while and guess wat, thats part of the reason i broke up wit her! ur not fat, and u shoudnt think u r! i bet a lot of guys like u but u need 2 carry urself better and get better self confidence! its all ok, jus realize UR NOT FAT!
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lose weight? u need to gain wait if ur 100 pounds and 15 yrs old. im 13 and i weigh 105 and im not rlly fat or anything. ~steph~
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awwww.... i am the EXACT same way! and u know what... no matter how anorexic looking u are... (not like i'm saying u are LoL) every girl thinks that they are fat. my friend who is 5'5 and 95 pounds always complains how fat she is! i mean lokk at people like mary-kate olsen and paula abdul.. both of them have had eating disorders and both thin as it was! and ur ex should know... never 2 joke about a girls weight! Ok... so ur a 0... thats a size away from little girls! ur tiny! believe me. but i toatlly know how u feel. dont let one freakish guy ruin ur self confidence. sounds like u got the bod... flaunt it! and u dont want 2 be sickly skinny.... guys are beginning 2 like curvier girls. so i Hope that u dont thnik ur fat and that i helped ya!
xOxO, aLeX
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Wow, you're exboyfriend is an asshole. You're not fat are you insane? When you find yourself thinking "OMG I'm fat.." Change it and be like, no I'm thin and I'm pretty, what he said was wrong. It sounds corny but it really works you have to keep saying it to yourself because when you say it you believe it but when other people say it, it's not as believable. I always used to think that I was ugly and my self confidence level was at 0. I kept saying to myself little by little, okay, I guess I am SORTA pretty, but then after a while I'd think... wow I am pretty. And then you'll feel so much better about yourself. Try doing that. I'm sure you're gorgeous and thin and should be a modle! Hope this helped.
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You are NOT fat! You just need to make sure you know that. There are a variety of reasons you could think your fat. Ranging from the media, to your ex. I think I'm fat, too. I know I'm not, and I'm biffer than you! Seriously though, I know by experience, that if a thin girl keeps complaining they're fat, people might get annoyed. No offence but you sound REALLY skinny. And if you say your fat, girls that are bigger than you might start thinking they're fat, even if they're not. Just be conscous of that. And learn to like yourself the way you are. Good luck. I hope you realize how pretty [I'm sure] you are.
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dont know how to help, but gain weight, thats pretty unhealty, i can tell you right now you wouldnt be over weight if you gained 10 pounds.
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