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Not really into me
I like my boyfriend, and i like to be around him. but im not sure if i really like/love him. Im 15/f. He says he likes me too, but we dont really have that much in common. I had my heart broken in the past and well i really dont want it to happen again so i was wondering if maybe thats why im not really into this guy. I want to be because he is awesome and one of the nicest guys i have ever met, but sometimes i think about things to much and then i start thinking he really isnt that interested in me. What would you do in this situation?
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Hey Hun,if you think you don't love him i would break up with him but say that you still want to be friends and how much you care for him. DOn't waste your time dating him because Mr.Right could be looking and maybe he wasnt it.So just keep on looking!!Hope I helped!!XoXO Nicole
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I think your right about haveing mixed feelings because of your first love. You should stay with him just to see what happens. Good luck
~Brina~
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Well stop thinking about it even thouhgt its probely going to be hard lol, i have that probelm 2, but i dont know.. hang out alil more andf see how things go and if there stillsint a conenction get rid of him! it might be hard but stay frinds maybe later you will start to feel something, then im sure you can give it another try but dont force something thats not there
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You need to relax and go with the flow. You are only 15 years old. No matter how hard you try to stop it.. your heart will be broken plenty of times. it happens to almost everyone. if this guy is as awesome and nice as you say he is then you have nothing to worry about. have fun with him and trust him. keep everything open and tell him how you are feeling so yea hoped i helped ya ~amanda
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You need to relax and go with the flow. You are only 15 years old. No matter how hard you try to stop it.. your heart will be broken plenty of times. it happens to almost everyone. if this guy is as awesome and nice as you say he is then you have nothing to worry about. have fun with him and trust him. keep everything open and tell him how you are feeling.
♥ Katie
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if i were u i'd five it somem time right now he may seem like a perfect guy but in time the real him will start to come out and youll see how he really is
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alright I can't tell you how you feel hun, but I can tell you I am going thru the same thing right now, except I am gonna be just friends with the guy right now cuz he is also the one that hurt me (mentally) I think maybe you should give the guy a little more of a chance because it's unfair to him he wasnt the one that hurt you, and if he hurts you, trust me life goes on and ya it's gonna hurt but only for a while. I'm here for you hun ... Email me whenever you need to -monkeygirl-
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If i were you I would give my self some time to mend.. if you had your heartbroken it is going to take a while for you to have REAL feelings with a guy.. but if you really dont wanna break it off with him, then get together and talk about what you are looking for out of the relationship.. I hope it works.. -Kaydee
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Talk to him about the way you're feeling. I know exactly how you've felt. I was afraid to let myself get attached to the guy I'm currently with, but one day I let "I love you" slip out, and I really fell for him. It was the smartest thing I've ever done. I've never been happier, and neither has he. My boy and I don't have that much in common either, but you don't really have to, for the relationship to work. Tell him what's going through your head. Maybe he'll be able to console you and make you feel better. Let him know you sometimes think he isn't interested in you, and you worry about getting your heart broken. It's really surprising how good boyfriends are at making you feel better. Give him a chance to show you how good he is at it. I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Well never be afraid of dating a new guy because you think hes going to break your heart..you got a move on even thought it kills i know how it feels but anyway if your questioning your relationship I dont think you really like him i think you like him as more of a friend so I'd nicely break up with him and be really good friends and when you hang out more you might grow closer and get lots more feeings for him..good luck though
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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