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last year one of my best friends went out with this guy for about a month. they broke up because he never really liked her. this year the 3 of us have a class together so im with him alot. he told my best friend (his ex) that he kinda likes me and i started having feelings for him to. but my friend just told me that she really likes him and hasnt gotten over him since last year. i dont know if i should tell her i like him to or just ignore it. she wants to go out with him now because shes not going to the same school as us next year. should i say something to her or just wait to see if we still like each other next year when she doesnt go to the same school?
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don't go behind your friends back! tell her! if she's your friend she'll understand. she had her chance with the guy and it just didn't work out. things like that happen. he likes you, and you like him..right? well what a PERFECT match! it's not often that happens hun, your friend should understand your feelings and get it through her head that it is OVER between her and this guy and that he like you. You should get a chance with him too, your friend is being greedy and i think she's a little jealous and trying to get him back so you can't have him. that's not fair to you OR him, don't stoop to her level, don't go behind her back, just tell her how you feel and if she's really your friend she'll see that you should be with him. i hope i helped a little so you can see what i see. hope it all works out. bye
-ally
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Well, to tell the truth, I think you should wait, because if she's a good friend, then you don't wanna jeporadize that over a boy. Don't mean to sound rude, but that's how it is sometimes. So i think maybe you should wait. :)
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It's really rubbish when this happens, but you have to first of all let your friend know that this guy just isn't iterested in her at all and will probably just end up hurting her. However, I wouldn't tell your friend that you like him just yet because she may think you have made him not liking her up so that you stand more of a chance with him and may then fall out with you, plus you may hurt her by telling her. Hopefully she will take your advice and not go out with him. Then in a couple of months when the dust has settled and she has had the chance to move on, tell her how you feel and ask her if it would be okay if you asked him out. Friends are much more important than boyfriends and seeking her advice before you go any further will help your friendship survive if you do end up going out with this guy.
Good luck.
Claire xx
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o dear. i hate it when that happens. tell your friend that you really like this guy and he really likes you back! she shoul understand. she should also know that the guy doesnt liked your friend but likes YOU. good luck!
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