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love triangle, help!
Ok, there's this kid at my school, Drew. We sorta like each other, so on Sat. we had like, this 5 hour long convo, and we just decided to go to the Snowball together. (it's a dance). So anyway, today at school, I was telling my friends Jenny and Nicole (Nicole likes Drew) about it. Jenny was real happy for me, but I noticed Nicole just looked mad. So I just online a little bit ago, and my one friend was talking to her, and IMing me their convo, and turns out, she's real pissed about me going to the dance with Drew and just liking him in the first place, but I can't help it. I heard from Drew that he doesn't even like Nicole the way she does. So I IMed her saying I was sorry if I made her mad, but we both decided to go to the dance together. I told her to stop bein so weird about it cuz it has nothing to do with her. And then she signed off. Idk, I just want your opinion about this. Who's right and wrong here? And I want to go to the dance w/ Drew, but I don't want to upset Nicole either. What should I do?
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Friends don't go out with friends crushes. But, if you had no idea that she liked Drew, it's not your fault. If you knew she liked Drew, you shouldn't have said yes. But, from the looks of what you said, I don't think you knew she liked him. So, it's not your fault at all. You like the guy and he likes you. He doesn't like Nicole the same way she likes him. I'm sure she'll get over it when she finds a new guy to crush on. Go to the dance with Drew and have fun, but keep telling Nicole your sorry and that you didn't know she liked him.
♥ Krissy
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This is kinda whats goin on with my friends.Only i like the guy and my friends are flirting with him.It kinda hurts to see ur own friends liking the guy you like and seeing them accually making moves and stuff.So i see your friends point.But i also see your point(iv been in that situation to)You cant really do much,but talk to your friend and try to work somthing out.It worked with my friends.Good Luck with yours. :) ~jen~
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See now, I've heard people say all of my life, that you shouldn't go out with the people your friends like. But I don't agree. If you were to hold back on all the guys your friends liked, you would be boyfriendless for life. :-p I say, go for Drew, you two seem like you have alot in common and if she's going to be upset because you're with someone that doesn't have feelings for her anyway, then she's wack to miss out on such an awesome friendship you two would have. Go for the guy.. good luck.
♥ Ashleigh
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well, if she is your friend then she should understand.. plus she probably blocked you, well anways yeah talk to her and make her know that you like him and that not to be mean but it's kind of first come first serve.. and that you aren't liking him just because you want to be better than her or anything just try and make her understand your feelings about him
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Not to be offensive but its very rude to go out even to a dance with a boy your best friend likes or is into because its just not right. In this situation im not sure cuz i dont do that to my friends because theres something called "trusta nd friendship" but if you work things out dont brag it into her face or she'll be really upset.
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i think your both wrong. not to like be rud e or anything but nicole shouldnt be mad at you for liking a guy, it just happens.and you shouldnt act like you dont care that shes upset that her crush like her best friend. something exactly like this happened to me. it wasnt fun. my crush kept giving my friend dhugs and stuff. i got soooooooo pissed. try to feel what shes feeling.hope i helped!
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It Sounds like Nicole is very jealous of you. I think you should Just talk to her about it.. You should go with Drew but mabe let Nicole dance with him like once or twice.♥ Michelle
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Well she'll get over it. And if she's jealous then that's her problem. So trust your gut, not your heart, because your gut is a gift from God!
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Hmm.. Nicole will probably get over it. Be sensitive about it and don't say ANYTHING about drew while your around her. I advise that maybe you should spend some time with her, like bonding time, because this seems like the right time for you to build on your friendship.
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Shes jealous but she ll get over it i mean i mean i no shes your really good friend but if she freaks out because you go then shes not a true friend this drew guy seems awesome dont let him down go and have an awesome time!!
good luck
((xO-Kalene-Ox))
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hmm.. lol it sounds like Nicole got bit in the ass by the jealousy bug. dont worry about it. if she is truly your friend then yeah she might get a little mad but nothing to like loose your friendship over. trust me on this one. and if she gives you the cold shoulder it might be temporary. just try to talk to her *not in a mean way* and ask her why shes mad in the first place. man i hope i helped a little. good luck.
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sam
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If you knew Nicole liked Drew before you shouldn't have said yes. But if you didn't know then she has no right to be mad at. If shes a good friend, then you should always choose a friend over some guy. Friends are always there for guys aren't. I would talk to your friend face to face and tell her how you feel about him. If she really likes him and you knew. You can't go with him!
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