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b-day problem
Ok, I'm having my b-day party this fri. and I invited a whole bunch of people and everything, but my one guyfriend, Matt found out that my friend Crystal is going (they're like fighting and everything) and now he doesn't want to go. I really want him to, cuz he's like my older brother. Crystal's definitely going and doesn't care about whether Matt's going or not, she just wouldn't talk to him if he did. She told me to tell Matt not to ruin my party and just go and stay away from here. Well, I did, and he still won't go. He said he loved me (as a friend) and he'd do anything for me, but he just can't go to my party. I think he's bein real immature about it. During 1st period today, Crystal told me he wrote he a real nasty letter about her, but then at lunch, he let me read it and it wasn't bad at all, he was actually just trying to make peace and all. So I'm really confused. I really really want him to go. What can I do?
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Tell Matt that he can stay as far away from Crystal as he wants, and if he respects you and loves you like he says he does than it shouldn't matter if she's there. It sounds like you need to tell you friends to grow up because childish games arn't gonna get them anywhere. I hope it works out for you, and Happy Birthday.
*Rachael*
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OK, get out of their business. Crystal and Matt have issues between THEM.. You can't make him go to the party, and you can't make Crystal leave. If Matt has the balls to come then he will, regardless of another person that is there which is completely immature in my opinion. But, the thing is that if he is going to be moping about, and having a bad time.. he shouldn't come anyway.. it would probably ruin your party if they got into a huge fight half way through. I hope I helped a little.. sorry if I was harshfully truthful.
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ugh. wow. looks like your friends are really being immature about this. do you think Matt would go if you tell him that he doesnt have to look at her, talk to her, or be anywhere near her? hmm... and like how about you tell Crystal that she cant get anywhere near Matt or else you will get seriously peeved off. man i hoped i helped a little bit becuase if it were me.. man i would like freak out or something. have an awesome party!!!!!
xoxoxox
sam
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