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Last Update: October 22, 2006
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so my boyfriend and i had sex earlier, were both 14. but anyways, he like got off of me and it felt pretty wet down there so i felt my..yeah..and there was blood. it bled for a couple minutes and it was sorrrrt of a lot. it wasnt like dripping out or whatever, it would come out if i wiped it with the towel i had, or if i stuck my fingers in and pulled them back out. why do you think i bled? im also having cramps right now from it, but i usually always have cramps after sex. (link)
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no but the thing is, it wasnt my first time. we've been having sex for about 3 months now or something.
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This question is very weird, but..
The innerlips on my vulva happen to be bigger than the outer lips. They hang a bit and cover my clitoris and vagina, and sometimes sort of stick together. I know this is completely normal, because everybody's vagina is different, but I'm scared that if I get close with somebody, they're going to be freaked out. My vagina is quite different from other peoples because of this and I'm scared that the other person is going to be turned off by it. I sort of think it's ugly, so I'm self-conscious about it. Any helpful advice on what to do? (link)
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Hey, it really is normal! Mine is completely the same way, so dont worry about it. I am also self-conscious about it and I'm scared for this one guy to see it because he really wants to eat me out, and I want him to, except just this dumb problem! lol :p Theres really nothing you can do about it and if you find the right guy, he wont care about what it looks like :) Hope I helped! I have a question for you, since like both of ours look the same, but I dont want to put it here. Please send me a message or whatever so I can ask you! Thanx!
*bRi
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wuts the average size of a- well u know i think mine is small its only six inches (link)
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Your fine! Most guys I know theirs are 7, so your right around them. And 6 isnt small!
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im 14and 2 months old and im a guy but i still havent had puberty is that ok or should i be worried i really need help and if someone would no what would be the normal penis size for a 14 year old that hasnt had puberty and does your penis get bigger during puberty (link)
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Yeah its normal. And well, I dont know the size of one that hasnt hit puberty yet, but most guys I know theirs are 7 in. Maybe that could help some how? lol I dont know. But I hope I helped you!
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Ookay.. Well my mom won't let me wear thongs.. and like I just turned 13. And I don't get it.. She wears them so why can't i?? It's not fair.. All my friends have them except for one..And it's so stupid. I mean all i went them for is so you can't see my underwear line thats it..Someone help (link)
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I never even asked my mom. My friend and I were at the mall one day, and thought it would be funny to get one. So, we bought one and when I got home I took it out of the bag and said hey mom! Look what I got! She laughed and didnt care. Now when we go shopping I check them out with my mom and sister and get some. Its no big deal. She wouldnt know if you were wearing them anyways. But I suggest that you do what I did, I think it would be better than her finding out when she does laundry. I doubt she will care :p I'm 13 too by the way. Well, I hope I helped! Good luck! :o) bRi*
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does anyone know any downloading softwears that are free sorry about the spelling (link)
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Hey,
I am a 5'(foot) 3''(inch) 13 year old Female and I weigh 123pds. Is this over weight?
♥ Meg ♥ (link)
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I'm the same height, age, and sex as you and I weigh 118. I would like to lose weight, but I dont neeeeed to. We are not fat :o)
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hey i want to pierce my belly button by myself and i want to no where u could by a clamp and how to do it i cant go to a professional because my mom doesnt want it done thanx (link)
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Do NOT pierce it yourself! Why dont you just go with a friend to get it done? You know, say its alright with your mom, and say you would rather do it with Rachel (a made up name for one of your friends) instead of by myself. Just an idea. Hope I helped! bRi*
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Am I going about this in the right way? I am 19 and my ex is 18. We were together for almost 3 years and this is what happened:
Ok. I know that I have not wrote in here in a little while, but my heart has not been in the right place to do so. Two days ago (actually less than 48 hours) I found out something about my boyfriend that changed my life forever. I found out that he has been cheating on me for the past four months of our relationship with a girl named Allyson who lives in California and who is 17. They have never met, but I found out that they have been talking on the phone for 4-10 hours a day and sometimes all night long and this has been happening since January. This was the hardest news that I had ever had to hear. Even worse than hearing about 9/11 when it happened, in my opinion. I love Cory with all of my heart and I would have given him everything. I will forever love him and he always said the same. He told me that he loved me and only me. But, now he says that he no longer loves me and that he loves her more than anything he has ever known (including me). He even says that he no longer loves me. How can this be? Does love die this quickly? To know that everything that I ever though was special between us like our future plans, him saying that he loved me more than anything, and all of his promises to never leave me or hurt me in any way has all been said to her now. To me, this makes his words meaningless and therefore our relationship meaningless. I never thought that I could be as hurt as I am now. Yesterday, I went to class and when I got to the steps of the doorway I sat down to talk to my mom and I ended up not attending class and I just sat there and cried my heart out. If he ever loved me, how can this be what he wants and yet not have it bother him. Does this make him a bad person? I will never love someone as pure and as deep as I loved him. The entire world that I knew is now taken from me. So, you ask, what now? Well, currently, they are no longer going to be together and neither are he and I. Allyson and I have been talking and we both decided that this is what is best for him. He don't deserve either one of us and neither one of us is willing to take the blame for this. I Refuse! He blames me, but how can he? Did I do this? Did I ever cheat? Was I deceitful and dishonest? NO! I was never that disrespectful to him to be anything of these things and yet he did this to me. That makes it his fault and not mine or Allyson. Just to clerify, she did know of me, but she was told that he left me four months ago. How is this supposed to make me feel? It is like a slap in the face! I mean nothing to him anymore at all and this all came crashing down on me within a short time. I woke up one morning and didn't even know of Allyson and by 5pm that afternoon, she had entered into MY perfect world and taken it from me. How does someone get over something like this? Right now, she and I have both decided to just walk away. He was even going to lie to me (and did) and say that he was seeing a friend in California named Mike this summer and he was really going to see her. HE WASN'T GOING TO TELL ME! This is the worst part of it all. It is the worst because I realize that everything that I ever loved about him (his morals, his pure heart, his lving words) were all meaningless and untrue if he had the heart to do this. My perfect world is now destroyed and my world came crashing down on me (almost literally). I am so hurt that I am sure that you cannot fully understand this and there are a lot more specifics to it, but it is hard ot talk about. This is the hardest thing that I have ever had to go through. I gave him a decision today (same as Allyson's decision) that was the hardest thing I have ever had to decide to do and then follow up on. She and I have decided to let go. We are walking away from him and let letting him be. I think this is for the best. Well, I think that I have said pretty much all I can. This is why I have not posted in the past few days and I am sorry. I hope you understand. My heart is shaddered into a million and one pieces. Have a great day everyone! I am trying to do the same. I am feeling better now that I have had time to myself to cry and to get to the point of letting go. I think I can only become a stronger person after this and I intend to be. I am now going home for the rest of the summer which means that I am not doing my seocnd summer session. I am not in the state of mind to do so. If you ever want to talk, IM me. I am always here, forever crushed and forever hurt and forever in love with the same person that now stands for everything that I hate in life: lying. Hope you understand!
Am I wrong to feel this way? Does this make me pathetic to be left for someone online? Am I doing something wrong? Am I right to feel this way? I am really confused. Thanks so much! (link)
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No, you are not wrong to feel that way. I would like to IM you, but I dont know your sn :p I'm so sorry :o( Guys can be such jerks! I dont think you should go back to him. If he had enough "guts" to cheat, he sure will do it again. Have you ever snuck out? Lets say you got away with it, so I'm sure you did it again. Dumb example..but oh well! :p Send me a message if you want! bRi*
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ok i am 15/f pleez help event tho this is going to be a long one! and my stupid sister is so different from me...personality wise...she is so mean to everyone that she knows...im not, she doesnt care about peoples feelings or how they feel...i do, she has no feelings whatsoever like whenever i go to school i say "bye i love you," and she doesnt say anything back! i mean my mom is a single parent and she raised us both the same way...so how did i turn out to be so nice and have her be so evil? well anyway, yesterday i was online and my sister was just on for like 2.5 hours and i got up to try on some new makeup that i found online, then i saw her on the computer and i told her that she better not get on because i wasnt done yet. so she said,"i just wanna put these pics on here" so i let her and when i wanted to go back on she had like 3 websites up and a crapload of people on that she was talking to. so i told her to get off and that she was just on for hours. and she said ok but kept on with what she was doing. so i screamed"GET OFF!" and she jumped. so i left because i was so mad and by the time i got back, i could read her IM to her friend and it went like this: sister:im scared, her friend:well give her a twinkie and tell her to be good...well i am the kind of person that really is not happy with their weight and for them to be so mean like that really hurt my feelings so i yelled at her started busting out crying and SHE DIDNT EVEN FEEL BAD!!! she just told me that i think im so important that i think everyone talks about me. i was like whatever. so my question is(sorry for being so long) why r we so different and ive also been having some thoughts about crash dieting bc nothing else works? should i i only weigh around 135 and im 5foot 7inches and im 15. (link)
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Maybe shes depressed and stressed out. I'm the same way and I'm really mean to my parents and sister. I know you said not to tell you to sit her down, but you need to. If anybody in my family actually sat me down to talk, I might say what is bothering me. I hold it in everytime I really want to say it. I am depressed, so I get mad and yell at my family a lot. I dont really mean to, it just happens. Insulting you or whatever relaxes her and makes her feel better. I'm sure she wishes she wasnt like that, atleast I do. Its nothing your mom or you did wrong, it could be her friends, or anybody. For me, its myself. lol it sounds funny, but really, it is. I make myself stay home, not answer the phone, dont go out and see friends, I basically hide. Its because I think I'm overweight, ugly, everything bad you can think of. But, when I do go out, I get compliments saying how pretty my eyes are. Its my brain that tells me all this stuff and gets me depressed :/ When my sister cries, I go to see whats wrong, but I dont hug her. I just dont feel comfortable doing that and I would think she would think I'm weird. I'm sure she cares, she just doesnt show it. And maybe she isnt loved enough. My parents are always gone, so yeah. Just try to give her a hug and see what happens. If she pulls away, dont think she doesnt care...she just doesnt want to "show" "love" or whatever you want to say. Shes afraid. lol she sounds just like me :p Well, I hope I helped. Send me a message if you need anything and I'll be happy to answer! :o) bRi*
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Last night I felt a small, solid lump under my skin just behind my left ear, it only hurts slightly when I press it. I showed it to my Mum and she said it was nothing to worry about and that if it was still there by Monday then she would take me to the doctors. I am slightly worried about it as I have also been having headaches a lot in the past five days. I have also been feeling slightly nauseous. Could these be linked? What is wrong? (link)
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its probably just a pimple from grease from your hair or something..it could easily develop there from having your hair behind your ears a lot. you should probably still go to the doctor though. who knows...it could be cancer? i doubt it..but you never know :p hope i helped! :o)
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Does anyone know any websites that would have music you can listen to - without downloading? Thanks a bunch! (link)
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purevolume.com is a good site. its rock though, so i hope you like rock :p
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Hi. I am 13 years old and I am on the computer a loottttt. All of a sudden things started blanking out when I was on the computer. You know how if you stare straight you can still see things on the right and left of you? Well on my left eye, I cant really see anything to my left when I'm looking straight. Its like blurry. And if I focus on something for example this word....dog.... if I focus on the g the d a o dissapear and then theres only a g with a white backround there. Basically when I focus on anything everything around disappears. And when I stare straight I cant see my arm. Its just not there. But it really is I just cant see it. So, I cant really see anything unless I focus on one thing. And if I watch tv and for instance if I see a face, I cant see their body. Its really weird, and Its hard to explain. Do you think I'm going blind? If I went to an eye doctor what would they do? This is VERY scary and its really freaking me out! Help me please!!! This has never happend before. (link)
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Hey scribble guess what? I have a headache now. Its not a migraine though, and I have never had one before. My head feels weird and I feel kind of dizzy but it feels more like my head is moving back and forth but its not. I have eaten so thats not the problem. Is it just some normal headache? Or did something cause it? Do you think being on the computer too long has caused it? I am not in any sports so thats not the reason. My eyes hurt too. Oh and do you think I should take some advil to help my headache and maybe if it would work on my eyes?
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Ok first of all...this is really long but please read it because i really want some help. My dad has seemed to be a lot more meaner all of a sudden. Well hes always been mean sometimes but I mean hes just started to become physicaly mean. I was downstairs before because I was checking his email because a friend of mines mom was emailing him. So, I kept going down there to check it. (while he was on the phone down there) He started to get really annoyed and started yelling (like almost silently so of course the person on the phone couldnt hear him) and he just freaked out. He got off the phone with the person..and I walked passed him because I was going to go upstairs. He grabbed my arm and goes Whats your problem? And I said you! And hes like why? And I said nothing and attempted to go back upstairs. But he gripped me harder and it hurt because it was like squeezing my skin together and burning. Then he like grabbed my whole body and was pulling me towards him saying come onnn give me a hugg..Aliciaaa what is wrong. And he just wouldnt let me go upstairs. I was like uhh what the heck..whats so bad of me wanting to go upstairs? But yeah he just kept gripping onto me. And yeah I was of course trying to fight back and was quietly screaming. When I went upstairs my mom goes..what was going on down there? And I said dad wouldnt let me go..and he wouldnt let me go upstairs. She goes pff yeah right uh huh. And I was like he did!! didnt you hear me yelling?? He was gripping onto my arms. And she just kept saying riight im sure. And just now we were eating dinner in the living room and his business phone rang. He went and picked it up and goes..blah blah blah..then goes to go turn down the volume on the tv. And I go ooohh my goooshh..now we cant even eat dinner without you having to be involved with your business? (he is wayyy overly obsessed and its all he cares about..and no matter where we are he will always talk about it) He didnt answer me and gave the phone to my mom. Then he came over to me and did his little silent yelling thing and goes..you shut the h*ll up! And I go oh my gosh im just trying to eat dinner. And he just kept telling me to shut up. Then for some STUPID reason he grabbed my plate and took it out to the kitchen. I go oh my gosh what are you doing?? Now I cant even eat?!? He came back out to me and grabbed my arm tightly and it burned again and he pulled me out to the kitchen. He goes you eat this out here. Then I tried to leave the kitchen because I was going to go up to my room..but he wouldnt let me and just kept pushing me back. Then I finally went up to my room and slammed the door and locked it. He came up and got it unlocked and came in and goes..what the h*ll do you think your doing? Shes trying to talk on the phone and all your doing is yelling. I was like oh my gosh you were the one who was yelling and who started it. you didnt havvve to answer the phone..and even when were eating dinner! and hes like bulls**t blah blah blah. Then I kept saying..get out of my room! And I pushed him out. Now he keeps coming back up here and asking..did I leave the remote in here? and I go no...and he just stood there and then left. Then he came back up and was like it has to be in here...and then he searched all over. It was stupid because we both know he didnt bring it up here..and I was just like uhh what the heck?? He just seems to like to start fights and likes to keep bringing it back up. My mom doesnt believe what I say..mostly because I think she would be too scared to say anything to him. So, she just pretends to not believe it and doesnt do anything about it. He is not a alcoholic. He just gets mad easy and for stupid things. Do you think hes becoming abusive? What should I do?? (link)
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why do all of you have to be so rude? why do you waste your time insulting people..seriously..get a life. and why did you even bother to answer when what you said was pointless? "i said oh my gosh to many times so im not going to answer you" why even reply? dont read it then if you get annoyed. like people say..if you dont have anything nice to say..DONT SAY IT AT ALL!! some of you people on here are so rude. thank you to the rest of you who answered me and gave me wonderful advice. i appreciate it.
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Im really sorry, this is really gross but i need advice..
Alright.. for three days in a row i have had extremely bad diarreah. I litterally cant leave the bathroom. I woke up this morning at 6am having to go #2(diareah) and it is now 10pm. During this whole day I have gone diarreah 28 times. It is liquidey and it slides out like seriously, WATER !! its yellow too!! and i have extremely severe stomach pains also. i mean severe, this morning at 6am when i ran into the bathroom i sat on the toilet and i started litterally SOBBING in pain, i cried from 6am to 8am this morning because it hurt so much. i really dont know whats wrong with me, i really need help!! i havent gone to my parents bc theyr always at work and im always home alone. im too embarassed to go to a parent or DR. please help me i dont know if im sick or what?!
im really sorry that it is so gross, i hope y'all will understand! (link)
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Hey, you should go to the doctor. There is something you can get called salmonilla and its mostly from meat. You can get it from fast food or restaurants or really anything in your home. It does give you cramps and bad diarrea. They had something about it on tv too, it can make you vomit I think..but it was mostly diarrea. Really, tell your parents next time you see them and go see the doctor soon!! It's from the place not being clean or cross-contamination when they touch meat and go touch something else without washing their hands, and then they give you the food, you eat it, and get sick. Everybody..remember to wash your hands after handling meat before touching another kind of food. Hope I helped! :o)
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
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I think you should talk to him a little more. And yes definitly I think he still likes you. And I also think you should ask him yourself whether he still likes you or not..and if he says yes..you should ask him if he maybe wanted to go out again. If he says no..I think you should go for Murphy! :o) hope I helped!
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ok so i am going to breed gerbils. I was wondering is there any good websites with pics. and info on gerbils!i rate high!
thanx! (link)
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That might not be such a good idea. They kill eachother..and if they have babies sometimes the mom will eat them. The dad might end up killing the mom then too. You could maybe separate them after she gets pregnant..and then the babies after their born. Just watch closely so nobody gets eatin or killed. My cousin bought a hamster when it was pregnant..and she ate the babies. It's pretty weird..I dont know why they do that.
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I have darkish olive tan skin and really...I mean REALLY dark dark brown hair. But I want to change the color. I was thinking along the lines of WHITE blonde...I am dessparate for help! I rate! Thankx! (link)
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I'm not sure if it would work..i mean the part of going dark to light..I died my hair brown to get rid of my blonde highlights but the blonde started to show back up..but you can try it if you would like too just make sure you dont mess up..i would recommend not doing it yourself though :p *good luck!* :o)
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does anybody know where i can get music for free.. i really want to hear this song from like.. a year ago.. but i dont know where to find it?! i will rate 5s:) (link)
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I have bearshare :p :o)
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I haven't been myself lately. And I don't know why. Ugh, I just feel like.. I'm not here, or something.. you know? My friends have noticed, my family... even this lady I take karate with asked me today if I was okay. I can't figure this out. Could I be depressed? I mean, I'm happy about a lot of things. But my life just seems so empty. Like it's missing something.. I donno. Maybe I'm just always tired. I DO need more sleep. And more exercise. Maybe that's why I haven't been myself... I donno.. What do u all think?? Help!! (link)
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I feel the SAME way..except I do know what I'm missing. But its weird though. I dont get much sleep either that could be a reason and maybe we should just get out and have some fun and get are minds on something. I'm sorry I dont know what to tell you but I hope you come back to your normal self soon. *good luck*
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