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This question is very weird, but..
The innerlips on my vulva happen to be bigger than the outer lips. They hang a bit and cover my clitoris and vagina, and sometimes sort of stick together. I know this is completely normal, because everybody's vagina is different, but I'm scared that if I get close with somebody, they're going to be freaked out. My vagina is quite different from other peoples because of this and I'm scared that the other person is going to be turned off by it. I sort of think it's ugly, so I'm self-conscious about it. Any helpful advice on what to do?
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okay its normal .. theres a lot of people with the same exact problem! just try to except it and if someones turned off by it.. fuck them!! (pardon my language :D )
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If you 'get close' with somebody, and they DON'T accept every part of your body the way it is, then you aren't that close with them. Also, just because it's differnet doesn't mean its bad. Most vaginas aren't that pretty....but it doesn't mean that yours is going to gross anyone out when they see it. When you accept the way your body looks, espically your sexual parts, then the person you have become close with will start to accept them too. However, when you are self-conscious about them, you may have a tendency to bring out the bad points about your so-called 'ugly vagina' (or any other body part for that matter), and that person will start to notice them too.
So try to accept your body and the way that it has grown, and rather than focusing on the bad parts, or the ones you dont like that much....try focusing on the good parts of your body and flaunting those.
Good luck :)
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I know exactly how you feel because I'm like that to, but I don't think you should be worried about a guy being turned off by that.I mean that's just like a guy worrying about the size of his penis or something. You don't need to feel self-concious about that because honestly the way I see it is,do you really think a guy isn't going to have sex with you just because your inner lips are bigger than your outer lips because sexually that isn't going to make a difference.
P.S. If u wanna talk more my IM is shellypoppins123
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Hey, it really is normal! Mine is completely the same way, so dont worry about it. I am also self-conscious about it and I'm scared for this one guy to see it because he really wants to eat me out, and I want him to, except just this dumb problem! lol :p Theres really nothing you can do about it and if you find the right guy, he wont care about what it looks like :) Hope I helped! I have a question for you, since like both of ours look the same, but I dont want to put it here. Please send me a message or whatever so I can ask you! Thanx!
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oh my gosh..i've never heard of this!! maybe go to a doctor or something and see what you can do about it, im not tryin to be mean but..u make it sound freaky!!
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the best advice i can give you is to wait
wait for the person who wont care
wait for the person who likes you so much they wont care about that
everyone else who would be grossed out and stuff about it shouldnt be that intimate with you anyway...so waiting for someone who reeally likes U is the best answer i can give you
i hope i helped
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