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should i?
Ive been with my boyfriend for along time and he wants to have sex and i dont no i love him soo much and he loves me i no he does and everytime we r together its soo perfect and he said hes not guna force me but he thinks this will lock r relationship and then we ll be together forever and ii rele think hes telin the truth...should i do it?
Sexually confused..
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Follow your heart , but make sure he's not lying because what if he's just saying this to have sex with you .. hope i helped ♥Vic !
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well its really your choce noone can tell u to co it or not
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you should only have sex if your ready.. and if u r use a condom or the pill or something.. you dont want to be unsafe. if you really love him and you know he loves you and your ready then you should *jiLl and raCh
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to your question, i can only ask another one: HOW OLD ARE YOU? email me and tell me this, and i'll give you a nice long answer. my addy's on my advice column. hope i can help, i want to.
Kat
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hey there. Well, hmmm ............ lol. Okay, the key word in your problem, is that you THINK he is telling the truth. If you have any doubt, then don't do it.
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Hey sexually confused.. i wouldnt do it if i were you it sounds like a old line that if you have sex that will only make the relationship stronger.. its true.. but not always what you could do is go to this site.. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) and see if you are readi for sex-trix (plz rate) happy new year
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Ok this is a very esay one, No you shouldn't have sex with him. You are unsure about which means you are not ready to do it. Sex is not something that will lock your realtionship. You need to wait until you do not have any doubts and feel comfotable enough to have sex with him, if that time ever comes.
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The only way you can decide is by asking yourself one question.......Are you married?
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I dont think you should have sex with your boyfriend. if he really does love you then he wont force you to do something you dont want to do.Plus if you do have sex and then break up in a bad way he might tell everyone your a slut or something like that and that would most likely make you regret sleeping with him.Trust your instinks. there usually the most help.
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No, sadly there is no code that says "if you have sex, then we'll be together forever" If that were so, there would never be any divorces or break ups. You can love someone and still wait to have sex. Sex doesnt necassarily secure relationships..ive read about people who have had sex and their relationship slowly went downhill. I really dont think your ready because you sound so unsure. Dont do it until your ready..until your so ready that you wont have to ask anyone about their opinion.
-melissa
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Two simple facts:
1. Many, MANY people think that if they have sex with someone, it's a guarantee they'll be togther forever.
2. Most relationships are not 'forever' relationships, particularly ones early in life.
I'm not trying to be negative, just realistic. If you decide to have sex, it shouldn't be because you want to cement your relationship. If anything, sex adds in tremendous pressures - fears of pregnancy, disease, intense emotional messiness, etc. Sex can make relationships stronger OR weaker.
You should have sex only when you feel 1342% ready, when you are capable of protecting yourself and your partner, when both of you decide mutually that it's time to move forward. But sex, like everything in life, comes with no guarantees. The only way to make sure it's the right thing is to wait until you KNOW it is right.
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If you love him and really trust him, then you should go for it. Don't do it if you feel forced or anything, as long as you're comfortable. Use protection and be careful. Hope I helped, -Angel
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I personally think you should wait, because even if yo do think that you love this guy..sex might make things akward annd at some point there is always that possiblity of you both breaking up, and then it wouldn't have helped the relationship. I think your best bet is to not do it..but do whatever you feel comfortable with.
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First of all, the fact that you are questioning it shows that you aren't ready for it. When you are ready you will know. So just wait it out!
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Thats a load of bull...lol He just wants to get in your pants..seriously..sorry to break it to you..your love will be lcoked? haha..funny...look hes a guy, hes horny! have sex with him if you want but dont believe the locking relationship/forever thing.
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