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what shall i do?
i am going out with this lad, but i am in love with his best mate. what shalli do?
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well you should talk to him best mate and see if he actually likes you. and if he does and u like him more go with him. But if he doesnt love you id stay with your lad! *jiLl and raCh
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You have to do what you think is best. Does your boyfriend's friend show any clues that he likes you?...
You cannot lead your boyfriend on if you don't have feelings for him anymore. But, you also want to be careful because if you end up telling your boyfriend's BEST FRIEND that you like him, it could cause many comflicts between the two. Maybe if you feel you REALLY like this boy...you break up with your boyfriend, and give a letter to his best friend. Make sure your boyfriend doesn't see. DO NOT DO ANYTHING WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND'S BEST FRIEND WHILE YOU ARE STILL WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. Do not send him a letter until you two break up...that would cause even MORE conflicts and you wouldn't feel good about cheating on him. (Not that you would or anything, but I'm just making that clear).
If you really have NO FEELINGS left for your boyfriend, then what you have to do is just break it off with him gently and then give it a little time before you write his best friend a letter.
I know it's hard...and I know you can't control these feelings...but whatever happens has to come from yoru heart and nobody else can tell you what to do.
Good Luck!
~Gessyka~
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Thats kinda bad.. i dont know if you should tell him but its always best that you should that way you dont seriously really hurt the guy further down the road... call you and yours "lads" relationship off for now and see what happans.-trix
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Break up with him. Don't listen to these people who say it's wrong to go for your bf's best friend. If you really like this guy, then go for it, don't worry about what's wrong or whats right. The right thing to do is to go for what you really want. If it doesn't work out, then thats that, but just don't keep going out with this lad if your not truly in love with him.
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If you love someone more than the person you're dating, then you probably should break up with him. Dating his best friend might cause them to fight, and he may not want to date you because of this. It could end in a big mess, so decide if he's worth it. If he is, tell him how you feel.
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Oh, matey. This is a problem. Well, let the boy down easily. After a week or four see if his firstmate actully likes you and go in for the treasure. Aye!
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Tell this guy how you feel. If your guy likes you enough, he'll let you go. If not, then he's being selfish. Hope everything goes your way.
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Well tell the lad how you feel. Then tell his best mate how you feel.
Bianca
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wow thats a hard 1. its completley not okay to go out w/ your bfs friend. so either stay with him or forget em both. sorry hun. but it is basically a rule of like, all feminism not to go out with your bfs best friend. once again, sorry, but you shouldve recongnized your feelings for him before you started going out with your bf.
~*A*~
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Break up with him. It's not fair to your boyfriend to be going out with you when you love someone else. Wait a while, and then if his friend seems interested, go out with him.
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