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I fucking HATE her.
I did gymnastics at one gym for 4 years. Then I switched to another gym because I didn't like the gym I was at. So then I go to one practice at this gym, only me and my friend from school showed up. I liked it then. Then the other night I went for the second practice. I didn't like it. There was a bunch of people and I like smaller groups and I could just hear them whispering about me and I wasn't comfortable with that. So now that I told my mom I just wanted to quit and then she says I need to go to the mental hospital because I can't make up my mind and that I need to go see a therapist and that I am not going on our school trip to Canada in May BECAUSE I WANT TO QUIT! Why spend money on gymnastics if I am not having fun there?! I really want to go to Canada with my school but she won't let me now! And I have to go to a mental hospital cuz I can't make up my mind?!! WTF. Seriously. I wish she would just go fucking live somewhere else FAR away so I never have to see her EVER again. She makes my life fucking MISERABLE. Now I have to go see a therapist, again! I want to die, or I want her to die. ITS NO FAIR. Wtf do I do?
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well it seems like your mom has something wrong with her. you dont. you should go to the theripest and tell them that and tell them your mom needs help not you. *jiLl and raCh
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Let me get this straight, your mom is sending you to a mental hospital because you want to stop doing something? That is absurd. Instead of saying all of that and overreacting, you should sit your mom down and tell her EXACTLY how you feel. Tell her to not say a word until you are done explaining yourself. Tell her exactly why you want to quit gymnastics and what is bothering you. Whatever you do, DO NOT start yelling at her and telling her that you hate her and some more things that you will regret. If she starts to yell at you, look away, take a deep breath, and ask her in a nice way, "Why are you yelling at me?" That should make her feel bad for yelling at you and she should stop. The only thing I could think for you to do is like I said, sit down with your mom ALONE and talk to her. It should at least make things better a little bit. Tell her why you think you seeing a therapist is a no no and why her sending you to a mental hospital is absurd. By you talking to her, it might help her realize that you are a mature, young adult and that many of the choices that you make are yours. Hope this helps. :)
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ya know what your mom is a retard. she wants you to move out!?omg i say just refuse to do what she says or dont say a word to the therapist. ignore him. act like he or your mom isnt there. i really hop i helped!dont kill yourself!please!
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hey...do you love gymnastics? if you like it then dont give up or quit just because these people are talkin about you...you should be more confident at yourself that you have the moves down when you are at practice. if it's a ppl watching thing then just stay with it because when you compete it's gonna be only eyes on you...believe me i understand...my skating competitions was just the same way wen i practiced i hated when ppl with stare at you and talk because your in a lower level but that didnt stop me it make me think that yeah they notice noe i'm going to get all my moves down and move to the next level! forget them bitches and you go out there and tumble! the worst thing about this situtation is that you are choosing to quit instead of just letting them say whatever. i went through the same and look at me now...FS4n5 baby! and about your mom if you think what i said is right then let her know you are not going to quit and you just said it because you are mad. i'm sure she will understand be let you go on the trip because nothing is more painful then to hear that her child is quitting on something she loves to do and something she soo good at. i hope i helped! take care! x3 SweetStar.
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I understand your stress, I hate when I'm told I can't do something, especially something fun, for something minor. I don't think that she needed to go as far as to say that you needed to go to a mental institute. Do you often feel like people are talking about you? Sometimes thats just feeling self conscious, but if it's repetitive, you may have a phobia of sorts. Nothing that you would need to go to a hospital for though. I think that you should sit your mom down at a calm time, and tell her how you feel, about everything. Avoid yelling, don't blame her, even if it's her fault. Instead of saying, "You hate me! You don't under stand!" Say something like, "I feel like you don't love me, and don't care about my feelings." See, if you say 'I' instead of 'you' she'll be more willing to listen to what you have to say, and will probably take what you've said more seriously. If you don't want to go to the gym, you shouldn't have to though. I also understand wanting your mom to just leave, but on the inside, you probably really want a good relationship with her. I wish you luck, and happiness.
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parents are always annoying. they can sometimes not understand our feelings of things. if you dont like gymnastics try something else and tell her about it she might be interested
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