i've always wanted to be an advice giver like you.........but never knew how to start! Will you please teach me how to become like you?
wow thanks its nice to know someone wants to belike me in something!:)
anyways......the first thing you should do is get you own advicenators account if you don't already have one. i really dont think im that great of an advice giver......but what i always do is use experiences that i've had to put myself in the askers position. i think a little about what exactly i would do in the situation, and elaborate apon that.
sometimes it gets really hard to find a good answer to some things, but i always try myt best.
the important thing is to always be trutrhful, and always try your best to help.
~~~tiara~~~
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Hi I am 14 and I really hate it when your freinds are attention seekers and always distort storys. I was just wondering what would you do in this situation if you were getting really annoyed with them. thanks
i completely know what you're talking about. i know some people like that and you're right--they can get VERY annoying. it's important to tell them how you feel, but in a nonthreatening way. Next time you hear them distorting a story say something like "i don't think thats exactly what happend. wasn't it..........?" if you don't know exactly what happend, question them, like "are you sure?" only if it really pushes you to the edge should you bring up their attention-seeking qualities. putting up with a few annoying things is better that breaking a friendship.
i really hope this was helpfull!!!!
if you have any more questions or want to reply, you know where to find me!!!!
~~~tiara~~~
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Hi I really hope you can help me here. I'm 14 and have been going out with my 16 year old boyfriend for 4 months and hes a sweetheart but all the sudden hes into drugs and two nights ago he forced me to have sex with him after he got really high. He also let slip after he raped me that he has herpes! I know you are probably going to tell me to tell a "trusted adult" but I have problems trusting people and I'm really not comfortable telling anyone but I'm also worried about my health now. Do you have any other suggestions? Thanks much.
first, yo need to DUMP HIM. rape is a serious crime. if i were you, i would go to the police before anything. No matter how much of a sweetheart he was, he chose drugs over you. you CANNOT put up with the physical abuse.
as for health, you could try finding a free clinic somewhere in you area. most can keep things entirely anonymous and still treat you for what needs to be treated.
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hello im a 15 year old gurl and 3 years ago i recived aids from my boy friend bc we had sex and over the years ive had sex with 10 difernt ppl and they all have gotten the disses but none of them have blamed me yet sooo should i confess or jus keep doing wat i have been doing ? should i become a lesbian?
aids is a serious disease, as you probably already know. you really cant keep doing what you doing. its wrong. if fact, it can even be deadly. becoming a lesbian is not the answer. however, using a condom, or if at all possible, obstaining from sex in general can be possible solutions.
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ok....there is this guy that i really really really like! and well he told me that he just wants to be friends and i dont want that i want to be more then friends....its not fair he made me think that he liked me and then he goes and tells me he just wants to be friends...what should i do...except the fact that he just wants to be friends or tell him how i feel and hope he changes his mind?
Help....
first off, i think i know who this is. if this is who i think it is, no matter how much it hurts you need to accept the fact that friends is all you're gonna be for th time being. ive had to compromise my feelings before to. i know what its like. its terrible. more than terrible, in fact. but it gets better. trust me. after a while they pain willl fade away, usually quicker tan you think.
if this isnt who i think it is, you can use the above advice to. try it ou. who knows, you may just learn to like being friends better.
i hope ive helped :)
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um. i dont know where to start. omG. its sooooooooo freeeeeeeeekyyyyy. a random rabid dog bit me. my mom doesn't know yet. ooooooooooooops. what should I do????? please help. my arm is dangling.(practically)
i know im answering this really late im soooooo sorry but if i had answered this ontime you ABSOLUTELY MUST have told someone RIGHT AWAY ESPECIALLY your mom!!!!!! rabid dog bites call for rabies shots, otherwise, you could become rabid to!!!
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I really like this guy and we kissed and stuff and we talk amost everyday and i feel real close to him and my parents dont except of him and hes likeperfect to me we both no how to have a good time and my parents like him and everything is they just think we are gonna get in some sort of trouble bacause i guess you can say a lil trouble here n there we get into to and i really like him and i cry over this alot and now its like my parents and his dont want us to call anymore im so confusses whta shoudl i do!!
your parents love you and want what's best for you, even if what's best isn't always what you want. However, in this cas, i think you are right. (that is depening on how serious the "trouble" is) talk to your parents. let them know how you feel. if they stillrefuse, ask for a trial run. maybe having him over for dinner at your house. (i know, its like the most embarassing thing possible, but hey, it might be the only way) in the mean time, try to stay out of trouble, at least when their around. earn their trust, and they'll give it to you.
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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!
its very possible that your mother didnt see the condom at all. there's no need to panic. just ignore it for now, and if your parents ask you about it its important that you TELL THE TRUTH. their your parents. they love you. they'll understand. just be prepared for them to confront you. in the meantime, stay calm and focus on something else
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I'm a 13 grl and I'm really self concious about my body. I always think I'm fat but my friends say I'm not.. But I think they r just being nice.. I've thought about becoming anerexic. I know how it hurts ur body and stuff but I dont care. I've eaten less in tha last few days. Am i becoming anerexic? How do you know if you are?
I know exactly how you feel. I'm a 14 year old girl, and ive had those exact same thoughts. my friends tell me im not fat whenever i suggest it, and i still find it hard to belive them sometimes, but im working on it. anorexia is NEVER the answer. it can take years, even decades off your life. do you want that? to die at 40 because you were anorexic as a teen?
i had i friend who was anorexic. it started out as just a diet. she seemed to be doing alright. i never suspected it. She was thin, tall, gorgeous and healthy-looking. it was impossible to believe that in her mind, she thought she was fat. I never knew that my friend, one of the best i ever had, would loose her life from anorexia.
anorexia is SERIOUS MENTAL ILLNESS.
now, if you still feel that you need to loose weight, eat healthy and get some excercise. join a sports team, if you havent already. youll be amazed at how much better you feel about yourself.
next time you look in the mirror, remember this: anorexia is NEVER a solution. eating less is proven not to work. its EATING RIGHT that counts.
now, back to your last two questions. no, i dont think you're become anorexic, yet. However, you sounds like you could. DONT!!!!!!!! please NEVER surrender to anorexia. theres really no way to know for sure if your become anorexic, other than thinking you very fat when people say your not at continuosly eating very little or not eating at all.
i really hope this has helped. If you have any more questions, need any more advice, or just want to reply, send another question to ask_anything718
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