anyways......the first thing you should do is get you own advicenators account if you don't already have one. i really dont think im that great of an advice giver......but what i always do is use experiences that i've had to put myself in the askers position. i think a little about what exactly i would do in the situation, and elaborate apon that.
sometimes it gets really hard to find a good answer to some things, but i always try myt best.
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