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should i flirt with him
ok so i like this guy jake and he liked my friend Ashley. I would talk to him and tell him what she said about him and all. And basically Ashley hates Jake now because he lied to her about not going out with this other girl Brittney. I know that Ashley doesn't hate but she does really dislike him. but see i like Jake. And i really want to go out with him and flirt with him too. but if i go out with Jake then ashley is going to get mad and tell other people. That would ruin my rep. and maybe our friendship. I really like him but should i go out with him and continue to flirt with him?
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Well if you really like him then go for it. Don't worry about your rep. Once you get older you'll start to loose it anyway. But if you really really like Jake then flirt with him and w.e. Dont worry about it so much.
H.I.H.
simone
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Yes, flirt as much as you want. Obviously if she "dislikes him a lot" then he is not off limits to you. I would understand if she liked him, but since she doesn't, he's all yours. A true friend would understand, how much you like Jake and let you be with him....-S*tina
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Reps don't matter in the real world.
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Talk to Ashley. Ask her if it would bother her and make sure she's telling the truth. I know you don't want to, but if he does ask you out you need to know you're not going to lose a friend over a guy.
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Hey girlie,
That is a BIG problem that almost everyone deals with. Friendship or Love? I think that you should talk to Ashley and make sure its okay with her...even to flirt with him. If shes not okay with it, I'd back off on Jake for little while. If you decide to go and flirt with him and Ashley gets mad, she could be jealous instead of mad. Just be there for your friend, because guys come and go but a friendship is forever. Plus you have PLENTY of time to think about boys, hun. :)
Hope I helped
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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