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being harrassed


Question Posted Friday December 17 2004, 7:23 pm

'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do.

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Additional info, added Friday December 17 2004, 8:00 pm:
wrost part is his friends say i like it when he does these things to me. i think he might turn into a rappest..

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aimeeluvzya answered Sunday January 23 2005, 1:50 am:
okay well...thats totally wrong and gross! tell him to back off! if he still doesnt... tell a teacher or get someone to kick his ass! lol thats totally wrong of him 2 do! k well bye! ~Aimee

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xO_Brok3n_x21 answered Thursday January 13 2005, 4:09 pm:
i know how it feels to be sexually harrassed, not at school though. and in my opinion if this kid is bothering you and other people in your class, then i'd deffinately tell someone if it was getting out of hand. i wouldn't just let him keep doing it because if you don't try to stop him then he might do something even more to someone else, talking to him might help but if it doesn't you should really tell someone or talk to someone about his unwanted actions. xOx KT

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x0xTinax0x answered Sunday January 2 2005, 9:03 pm:
I suggest all of you go down to the principal's office and report that because if you don't, it will never stop. The principal will do something about it. And they'll make sure he doesn't come near you.

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Tina

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loochalo answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 6:31 pm:
you really need to tell someone! either a teacher or a parent! this is getting way out of hand! you need to tell someone before he takes away your self-confidence and dignety! i watched this happen to someone before, your never really the same once he makes you scared of him and thinks that he has concord you! you need to stand up for yourself! if its either yelling at him so everyone can hear or hiting him back! but whats most important to do is make him know that you are not scared of him!, that he can not treat you like one of his toys!, and that know one messes with you!
i really hope that i help! remember that what he is doing is wrong and you need to stand up for yourself!and tell someone!
happy holidays!

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greekouzo4me123 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 2:50 am:
TELL SOMEONE!!!!! u cant solve this all by urself thiz happened 2 me and wen i told mi teacher she told the principle n he stoped so tell someone!!!!!!!!

hope i helped

xoxo

peace

Greek Ouzo

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Sagittarius128 answered Monday December 20 2004, 9:35 pm:
You need to tell your parents and principal about this. IF it goes any further it could turn into rape or something and i wouldn't want that to happen to you. So please tell someone...it's for your own good..best wishes S*Tina

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chrirett answered Monday December 20 2004, 11:30 am:
Report him to someone cos sexual harrassment is a crime. Or slap him hard in the face an tell him hes ugly.

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lollypopgurl769 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 10:41 pm:
what a horny little bastard! =] ... wow, i was in a situation like that before. thank God, he moved! *hehe* but just one day snap on him really loud and be like 'ok im serious get off me you creep or i'm gonna get you in some serious trouble' lol something along those lines. that'll be his last warning. then if he continues, then just tell your principle or something. that could easily get him suspended for like a week + ... maybe more, depending on how your school takes it and depends on your schools policy on 'sexual harrasment' what he is doing is wrong. whenever my guy friends slap my ass or touch me, i turn around and kick him in the nuts or bitch slap-him, its fun trust me! well hope i hoped ya somewhat at least. good luck! tell me how it goes, i wanna know what happends so that asshole! =) if you need more help feel free to drop one in my inbox girl! * xox-angie *

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BleedingRomance88 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:52 pm:
if he does it again tell a teacher or beat the shit out of him

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LiLHoOtYCuTii4U answered Saturday December 18 2004, 7:11 pm:
Wow! SCURRY! I would tell my princible and or a teacher/ur parents! I would do that and if u dont want to do that then tell him to stop or u will turn him in! Hope I Helped!!!
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XSugarPieX77 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 12:08 pm:
You have to talk to your parents about this and or a guidence counselor or even a school teacher.Let your teacher know what he's doing so YOU dont get in trouble! He has no right to touch you in any way you feel uncomfortable.
~Brina~

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truadvice answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:55 am:
what you need to do is go to your guidence counsler and that person about it and have the person get the guy and talk to him about what he's doing . you shouldnt need to feel afraid around him . you might even want to go to the police because what he is doing is illigal.

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xObritterzOx answered Saturday December 18 2004, 10:52 am:
ok well if he is doing these things to you i would tell someone maybe a guidence councliar or just to tell him to stop all What he is doing is wrong and you shouldn't keep something like that to yourselves! Don't consider him as a friend cause friends don't do that to one another!!! Stay away from him when u guys are alone cause he might try something new! if you need any more help please ask! hope i helped

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brokenxtears answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:59 am:
Talk to someone you trust, like councilor, teacher, parent, etc. Just tell them that you feel uncomfortable. What this guy is doing is bad and it can get much worse if you don't do anything about it. So I would advise you to stay away from him, that would help and also talk to somebody __((~*JULiA*~))

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 2:13 am:
report it!

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AsIaNsKoOGiRlY answered Saturday December 18 2004, 1:44 am:
Wells you can always talk to a conseler or welps...ask your parents...or get a guy friend to tALk to him one on one or something! hoped I helped ~Kelly
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southernchick answered Saturday December 18 2004, 12:26 am:
you NEED to tell a teacher or principal! tell SOMEONE this guy could get in serious trouble! u need to tell someone soon before things get worse

xoXo*-Katie

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xluvinux answered Friday December 17 2004, 11:19 pm:
Don't let him do that to you or any of your class mates anymore. Tell an adult you trust right away like a teacher or parent. When he tries to touch you, push him away. Don't be afraid to be aggresive because what he is doing is gross and like really inappropriate. I'm sure the person you tell will agree, so go let them know. =)
~laura

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Advicegurly109 answered Friday December 17 2004, 9:20 pm:
Tell a teacher or someone you trust such as a parent or a school counselor. If it gets to serious tell the police. Remember.... telling someone is the most important thing for you to do as soon as possible.

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NikNik answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:50 pm:
tell your parents or someone who is over the school! dont let it keep happening or else you might end up being raped or killed so tell someone.

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Berri answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:48 pm:
Why don't you tell a teacher?????????????????? Ask to be moved to a different seat.

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Solaris answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:36 pm:
This has been said and Ill say it too. YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE. Protect yourself (most important) and stop him from turning into something more. Something needs to be done and its up to you to take charge. Tell the principle or teacher or parents anyone! Dont go to friends or him...theyll tell you the same thing I am, and he just wont listen.

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gUeSsHoO278 answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:25 pm:
omg thats crazy, doesnt matter if hes your firend/boyfriend or whatever he is, GO TELL SOMEONE...go tell your principal, your teacher, your mom, your neighbor, your counselor...ANYONE...that is really wrong whats he's doing to you and the other girls, and its definately not normal! Hurry and go tell someone!

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GreEneYedGodEss answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:25 pm:
I think you should tell your teacher about him...maybe the principle or somebody at your school. I hate guys like that, think they can just use girls like that...BOY is he wrong!!! Try your hardest to stay away from him and make sure no other girls are alone with him...he needs some help with his problem.

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CMONEY08 answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:11 pm:
You definitly need to stop hanging around him. Stay as far away from him as u possibly can. And NEVER walk alone! Always walk with one of your guy friends or close gurl friends. Guys like this are really dangerous and you need to let your parents or another adult know that he's doing this. It's wrong and a felony. If he does it again, get help as soon as you can!!! Let some one know that he might be a rappist so that he can be stopped immediatley!

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bordomtakezova answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:07 pm:
tell like the counselor or your parents or the principal. thats wrong what he is doing. show him that he can't do that any more

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Shortie8959 answered Friday December 17 2004, 7:50 pm:
It's good that he stopped doing those things, but I think you should tell someone, especially if he starts doing it again. No one should have to go through something like that. Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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frenchfries21 answered Friday December 17 2004, 7:45 pm:
you gotta tell a teacher or someone because other people are in danger of him doing these things to them later on, he needs to be taken care of now, you need to tell someone, and really quick.
~stef~

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MyPainIsReal answered Friday December 17 2004, 7:32 pm:
You need to inform someone. Rather it be your parents, or people at school or the police (police would really get him in trouble though). That isn't right at all. Huge invasion of your personal space and really disrespectful towards females. For your sake and all of these other girls, you should probably tell someone of high power. Especially if this is making you so uncomfortable. That'd be best or else I don't think he's going to stop especially if you've told him so. If you don't want to get him in trouble then I don't know what to tell you. Because I don't know what you think on that standard. Something needs to be done though or nothing will happen to change this. I'd tell someone at school so all that happens is they talk to him and perhaps suspend him or something and put him on some sort of probation so he'll stop. And if after that he doesn't, perhaps you should consider reporting him to the police. That's a sexual offense... I wouldn't try and hit him or anything to make him stop. That would in a way make you seem as ignorant as him... Anywho, good luck. xo


Edit***Tell the police then sweetie. It'd be best really. They can def* do something about it if your teachers are too stupid to realize how wrong this is. :)

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pinayprodigy answered Friday December 17 2004, 7:31 pm:
tell your teacher or the local police it's wrong for him yo do that.i'm serious if he's doin things like that then always be with someone, bring pepper spray, and take up track so when you spray him you can run as quick as possible. if none of this helps talk to me again cuz it's all wrong.Happy holidays and have a great winter break!!!!!!!!!!!!


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