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Ok..this may be long..I go to school (I'm in 8th grade) like everyone else and I hang out w/ my little group consisting of 6 people including myself. Well, one of the girls is completley attatched to me even though she is annoying and I don't want to be her friend. Well she invites herself over and does w/e she pleases and my mom does not like her or her family at all! Well how do I turn her down in a nice way and move away slowly? (that's just my first problem) Then there is another girl that I absolutley adore! We are just getting close b/c my first friend talks bad about her constanly I never wanted to be friends with her...well anyway I want to be her friend and be close with her but not the immature childish one...any suggestions on how to solve this? Thanks alot! (link)
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YoO can tell the one yoO dont lyke that you just don't want to be as close as she thinks yoO are. And when she invites herself over tell her your mom said yoO cant have ne friends over then. Hope I helped
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So this guy that i've been off and on with for about a year just told me recently that it was over for good and i don't know why! He won't talk to me or look at me or anything! but thats not even the bad part! I really like him! I can't stop thinking about him or being with him! I don't know what to do! Should i just leave it alone? (link)
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Try finding some1 new! If this guy says its over, its over! Don't be annoying to him by asking him things lyke... "why" constantly. Or he will just be more and more annoyed. So keep yours eyes open fer some1 new! Hope I Helped
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I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do? (link)
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You could try sleeping with the lights on! Or listen to music or watch t.v while trying to go asleep. That would probably get your mind off whatever your thinking about that makes you scared! Hope I helped...
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hello. i am a girl and 14 years old. i have a boyfriend. he is the sweetest most wonderful person you can ever meet. there is this other boy in school and he told me he liked me. yesterday, i was in school and i said "im bored, i want to makeout" my cousin went over to the boy and told him to go to the restroom when i went. i went to the restroom and he was there. i like him too. so then we kissed. i feel bad about this. i kissed another boy when im going out with another one. i feel so guilty and i dont think it meant anything to him. But i feel like i did something really really bad. i dont know what do to. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend in any way. what should i do? (link)
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Definently tell your boyfriend! Better he finds out from you, then from one of his friends! Hopefully he wont be to mad!
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2day my family and i(14) found out that my older sister (27) has a tumour down there, and is supposed to be haveing surgery in a week. after that they will be putting her on keimotherapy(sp?) and well if none of those cure her, she will then only have 1 more year to live..im so scared of loosing her! (link)
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Don't be scared! Im almost sure that everything will go fine! Just make sure to spend some extra time with your sister! And have faith!
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ok i know this isn't exactly sex related, but it's close enough. today i was putting on deodorant, and accidently got some on my chest. as i was going to rub it off, i notice that my right nipple was a different texture than my left-it felt like, rougher. also, the area surrounding it felt almost numb. is this normal?? i've never noticed anything like this before, but then again i don't often feel my chest that often, so i don't know if it's normal or not. any help would be greatly appreciated!! thanks so much (link)
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Im not a docter so I really dont know what to tell yoO! Try asking your mom or Aunt or another female relative. If they are totally clueless.... ask a docter!
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my mom is sick with breast cancer and bone cancer and 3 brain tumors.....i kno thats bad but shes in remission now and doing really well...but for some reason no matta how much i spend time with her she keeps telling me to stay with her.....no i can see when she was really sick and wantin to spend time wit me but she betta now....and this is cutting into my skool work and social life...i told her i cant spend every second wit her but the she told me that i dont respect her and that i hurt her feelings....now everytime i go to my friends house i feel bad....what do i do to tell her i need my space (i've tried sendin her flowers,and cards)--(doesnt work) help me out !PLEASE! (link)
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Spend as much time as you can with her! I dont mean to make you sad, but her conditions dont sound to good. And if its really cutting into important things in your life you could try making kind of a schedule with your mom. Picking certain days and times to see her making sure they dont cut into your time! But dont skip seeing her just to go to the mall, hanging with friends, etc. I hope I helped! Something else that mite work is if yoO tell your teacher about your mom and they mite cut you some slack with your school work!
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cheese? (link)
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I dont know who sent me this but ok.....
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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do. (link)
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Tell a teacher or someone you trust such as a parent or a school counselor. If it gets to serious tell the police. Remember.... telling someone is the most important thing for you to do as soon as possible.
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Ok...Me and Caitlan are best friends, but we always get in little arguments about the stupidest things, and she gets mad at me sometimes for little things and it causes us to be mad at each other for a while. And everytime i start to like a guy, she hates him and she constantly says mean things about him. Like my ex-boyfriend Jeffrey, she doesnt know him, she's never talked to him and i havent even talked to him for 4 months and she's always like "brittani you still love jeffrey" and alot of crap and it pisses me off! and she gets mad if i get mad at her for that stuff. Then, now i like sean and she gets mad at me all the time for talking to him and it pisses me off! it seems like she's jealous! what should i do?! HELP!! (link)
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TALK TO HER ABOUT IT! Tell her how you feel about what she says about the guys you like. If the comments get worse and worse then I dont think she's such a great friend. So talk to her and find out if she is really worth getting mad over.
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