So this guy that i've been off and on with for about a year just told me recently that it was over for good and i don't know why! He won't talk to me or look at me or anything! but thats not even the bad part! I really like him! I can't stop thinking about him or being with him! I don't know what to do! Should i just leave it alone?
dancindanger answered Sunday December 19 2004, 3:47 pm: Talk to his friends, ask them if anything is wrong with him. Otherwise, it sounds like there is nothing you can do, if he's just avoiding you. Sorry, but you might want to just move on. Hope I helped. [ dancindanger's advice column | Ask dancindanger A Question ]
XxRockon answered Sunday December 19 2004, 1:57 pm: eww thats mean of him! Anway...i think that you should give him a few days and then confront him and maybe ask him casually if ther was any reason why he just decided to dump you after a year and with out a reason too. If he still acts the same way, there really isn't much you can do. You could ask one of his friends but, you don't wanna seem too obessive because that mite turn him off to you more. He may have heard a rumor about you or something or something happened in his life that made him decide to dumop ou..there are many reasons if he just did it abruptly. TRy and find out..hope this helps :-) [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
Advicegurly109 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 1:46 pm: Try finding some1 new! If this guy says its over, its over! Don't be annoying to him by asking him things lyke... "why" constantly. Or he will just be more and more annoyed. So keep yours eyes open fer some1 new! Hope I Helped <3 [ Advicegurly109's advice column | Ask Advicegurly109 A Question ]
wakegurl21 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 11:40 am: If he doesnt want to talk to you about it then yes leave him alone. It will only make the feelings strongier if you chase him. Let him cool down for awhile and in a couple of weeks try to talk to him again. [ wakegurl21's advice column | Ask wakegurl21 A Question ]
justblaze717 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 10:32 am: well.. if he doesnt like you back, he doesnt like you. talk to him and see if you's can work things out as friends. if not, then let him go, its not worth it. [ justblaze717's advice column | Ask justblaze717 A Question ]
Ask_Miss_Audrey answered Sunday December 19 2004, 10:22 am: Hi,
The same exact thing is happening to me right now. Hes not telling me why or anything, he wont go NEAR me. Just try to forget about him....pick a new guy and you should forget. Maybe later in the year he will realise what a big mistake he made!! You never know....but Dont talk to him, jsut leave it alone, dont act liek you need him or miss him....you'll just make a fool of yourself. If you really cant stop thinking about him....ask one of his friends? Hope I helped.......Post me Anytime!!! [ Ask_Miss_Audrey's advice column | Ask Ask_Miss_Audrey A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 6:44 am: Yes you should just leave him alone. Don't humilate yourself by crying in front of him or begging for him back. I know its hard but you have to be strong. And maybe if he sees that you are going on without him, he may want you back. People always want someone back once they realize they lost them. But if he doesn't come back then oh well, his lost. You don't need a man to be happy. You're not desperate. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
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