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Cant get enough time with her! HELP!!!!
m/16 Hi, ive been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and a few weeks and her parents are, sorry to say, PISSING ME THE **** OFF. They wont EVER let her see me but maybe 1 every two weeks or so, and it kills me cause i never get ANY alone time with her, and the time we do get to spend together is with friends cause her parents wont let her over to my house alone. Anyone know of anything I can do to get their parents to let her do somthing, or anything i can tell my girl to say? help please!
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Hmm...kinda reminds me of the problem my bf and I have with my parents...But, get her parents to trust you. If they already do, maybe they're thinking about the mistakes they made when her age and are trying to protect her from them. Personally, parents need to back off and let us make our own mistakes, but they don't feel that way sadly. Show her parents that you take good care of their daughter and that she'll be perfectly safe with you. Sometimes parents, especially mothers, are afraid to see their daughters growing up and just want to protect them for as long as they can. It's a tough situation, but maybe over time they'll losen up. Hope I helped,
JyNxiE
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talk to your girlfriend and see if there's anything she can do. if this girl is reallly worth it; wait it out. that's all you can do.
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let her it will always be that way
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Talk to ur girlfriend bc she might be feeling the same way, or she might like the situation..which would be wierd but she might. If she doesn't like the way it's going then ask her if you two can talk to her parents. But if they won't budge and if she's 'worth it' then stick it out.
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Talk to your gf about the situation. See if she feels the same way. The only way a relationship works out is if you two communicate. Prove to her parents that you aren't going to do anything that they wouldn't approve of if they're alone. Don't sneak away together, because that could result in not seeing her at all. It wouldn't be worth it. Talk it over with you gf and her parents, arrange times that you can see her alone. Hope I helped.
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Well, you HAVE 2 talk it out and explain what you feel no matter what and if they say, 'sorry no time' then you have to say, 'it's an emergency! listen to me now'
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What you need to do, is earn her parents trust. Get them something for Christmas, that would be really nice. Show them that you're good to their daughter, and they'll eventually start to trust you, and let you see your gf. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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hey wut u can do it earn her parents trust in you. once you got their trust and know you better then i'm sure they will let you guys hang out more and spend more time together. its easier said then done but it also takes time but just be patients with that. hope everything goes well.hope this helps. take care. x3 SweetStar.
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The best way to solve this would be to get to know her parents, and have them get to know you. Have your girlfriend ask her parents if you could have dinner at their house, where you can talk to them and get to know them. Let them know who you are so they learn to trust you!
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5 months is a pretty long time without going out on a normal non group date but respect the parents descisions even tho it seems stupid. Maybe instead of her going over to your house ask her parents if you can come over and hang out with her @ her house...theyll prob think its a good compromise...theyll get to know you and trust you so you can go on a normal date with your gf...hope this helps xoxox
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just try to get her parents to like you. dont make it too obvious what your doing but just be extremely polite. ask your gf ways for her parents to like you better and if that all works out theyll trust you more n let her see you more! hope i helped! ~jj~
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hey dude. I know what you mean. {just trust me} but what you need to do is show her parents that you can take care of her{!}, protect her, and that she is very safe in your arms. See If You And her Can Just Hang out her house, watch a movie, play a game, or/and talk with her parents. I know It Might Be Werid but Trust me in due time you too love birds will be together as long as you want. P.s.~ introduce your parents to hers. bonuse points!
good luck dude! ~Taylor
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talk to her parents one on one. see why they feel she shouldnt be at your house alone. if its a good explination, then let it be, but if its not, then keep tryin to persuade them into lettin you 2 get some alone time.
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Get her to try and explain to her parents that she is 16 and she is not stupid. She knows right from wrong and isn't gonna do anything she doesn't want to or let anyone make her for that matter. Plus, you are not that type of guy anyway, you have respect for her. She has to let them know that she is growing up to become a smart independant woman, but its hard to do that if they won't let her do things on her own and make her own decisions. Parents are tough, but sometimes all they need is an intelligent conversation to show them that their kid is maturing and can handle and needs space. If her parents are still being uncooperative, then I hate to say it, but just have her lie and say she is with a friend when she wants some alone time with you. Her parents may get pissed if they find out, but hey, they did it to themselves vy not giving her space to grow up.
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