Q: i have pretty skinny calves and i want to shape them up a bit... does anyone know any good excercises(sp?) that would do that for me? thnks! i rate 5s (generally)

Q: Ok, my best friend is a guy. I heard from my friend that he has a girlfriend, but he told me he doesn't. I don't know who to believe, and I really wanna believe the guy because I really like him. Let's call him...*Jake* and let's call the girl...*Mary*. So Mary, Jake, and I are all best friends. Mary has been lying to me a lot lately. She's also been trying to steal my guys. Jake and I hang out all the time, and he and I always tell each other "I love you Jake!" and "I love you...*Anne*!" but we both know we're joking. And we're like "wow, you're so hot tonight" and all these random things as if we were going out, but we're not. He and I constantly flirt. When my friends ask him why they won't ask me out (i don't ask them to do this!!) he says he and I are just like the bestbestbestbestbestbest friends in the universe. I know that's true, (the best... friends part) but I don't know how to get it out of him whether he really does like me or not. What should I do? We have all these inside jokes about "loving each other" and "last night was great" (like i said...inside joke...i've never done it or anything) and all these other things. We always give each other hugs and sit on each others laps and I really want to be an item. We will go to the same school next year, but we don't now. WHAT SHOULD I DO????? Please help I rate! And sorry about the length.

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confused best friend!!

Q: this guy and i are in all of the same classes and everyone says that we flirt and that we need to go out! lately he has always been hanging around me a lot! like there was a chair near some girl but i was sitting somewhere else so he was lying down on the table that was next to me! what should i do? and i was wondering how can i get him to give me a hug?

Q: When I was 8, my grandfather died of cancer. It is now 6 years later and I still am extreamly upset about it. I was very close to my grandpa, I always remember him joking around with me. He'd always tap me on the head when I wasn't looking and then I'd turn around and he'd be looking around pretty much making it obvious that he did it. He'd always give me money even if I didn't ask for it and he was just a very happy grandpa. The night I found out he died, I was devistated. I was in my room listening to music and I heard the phone ring but didn't think much of it. My mom called me and my brother into her room and she told us to sit down. She looked a bit shakey but I still didn't think much of it. She held my hand and looked at me and said Papa (that's what we called him) just passed a way. And I looked at her in disbelief. I was in too much shock to even cry. Once I started crying I coudln't stop. I fell asleep crying, I woke up crying and I cried for the next 4 days straight. This happened six years ago and I'm still upset about it. Everytime I go to my grandma's house and I see his pictures I cry. Can anyone help me? It's been 6 years and I'm still not over his death. Please help.

Q: when i finish blow drying my hair straight, i do my make up. After I do my powder for some reason my hair gets really staticky. Is there a way to keep it from getting that way?

Q: I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!

Q: Ok so I'm Sarah, 13 and I have this friend and we've been friends since kindergarden right but lately she's just boring I dont want to be mean but like there isnt anything in common between us really...And now she like ask's me everyday to hang out or go to the movies or w/e and I dont really want to...I dont want to be mean...How am I suppose to send her a vibe that I dont want to hang out with her quite as much as she wants? Of course w/o being a bitch about it lol

Q: ok well i have this guy friend who ive kinda been liking for awhile.I tell him everything and he tells me just about everything. Well my ex bf raped me couple weeks ago and now my friend is all like mad at him and cussed him out the other day acting like all over-protective like he likes me or something. He also gets kind of mad when i talk about a guy i like i do that because i cant tell him i like him ya know? so i guess what i really want to know is do you think my friend likes me?its kinda confusing me because he likes to joke around alot n ask me out and stuff but hes only joking and he gives me like really wierd nicknames but its always " my something" for example says ur my babygurl n stuff. so do you think he does? sry if its long ill rate high

Q: does anybody know where i can find codes to put in my live journal? like ...

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Q: my best friend and i have been like really close since freshmen year and now like everytime we want to do sumthing she always has to bring someone else along i mean sometimes i just want to hang with her like we used to because its no fun when the people she brings im not friends with and i end up getting ditched...i dont like it what should i do??????????

Q: Hey everybody! I am kinda deppressed. I cant figure out what i'm good at. I used to skateboard and that was my life. It is what made me happy. But i got really bad at it and only get mad when i do it now. So i cant do that anymore. I like to make rap lyrics but also suck at that. Those were the only two things that made me truely happy, and i cant do either one of them. So i realized that there is nothing i am good at. And if thats the case, what is my point in living? And how can i figure out what i'm good at? Ive tried so many things like different sports, activities, just all sorts of things and i cant seem to be good at anything. Please help. Thank you all.

Q: well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do

Q: This is really long, but I need help! Last year I befriended three girls in my class. They became my really good friends, but one of them was my best friend. One of the other girls isn't very nice to me this year, since her and my best friend used to be best friends. I think that she's jealous. So my best friend and I haven't been hanging around the other two that much just because they're not very nice to us and some other incidents have happened. We've started to hang out with another group. They seemed really mean last year, but this one girl left and now they're all nice. So all of us are really good friends and we all get along great. We've all become closer through church, sports, and school, so I see them all the time. She my best friend and I just leave our two 'ex' best friends alone? They seem to be happy, but I do feel sort of bad. I'd rather hang out with my newer friends though. Help!!

Q: I have three really close friends, Taylor, Sarah, and Alyssa. We're all completely different but we get along really well.

So now here's my question, Alyssa's going out with this guy, Micheal. And Taylor and I don't like him at all, infact we hate him. He lives in a differnt city now, but when he did live out here he went out with two of my other friends... and cheated on both of them. Alyssa looks past this because she's been in love with him for almost a year. He never really showed interest in her until a month ago when he was horny and she was willing.

Then Julia his latest ex and Alyssa's good friend found out and got mad at both of them. Because Alyssa didn't ask if it was ok to be with him, even though he and Alyssa didn't actually go out just do... stuff... Then after all the fights, Micheal has the nerve to actually ask her out. And Julia get's pissed again because she warned Aly about him.

But then the cherry on top was that Alyssa bring's him to Sarah's birthday, uninivted, of course Taylor and I make him feel so akward he leaves. Then Alyssa lies and leaves halfway through the party saying she has to go home. To hang out with him, and when we find out and call her, she lies about where she is and who she's with saying she's christmas shopping.

What should I do she doesn't listen and he's an ass. Who's already cheated on her once and they've only been going out for about two weeks.
And she's a virgin and he's reeeeeally horny!!!!!

Q: m/16 Hi, ive been dating my girlfriend for 5 months and a few weeks and her parents are, sorry to say, PISSING ME THE **** OFF. They wont EVER let her see me but maybe 1 every two weeks or so, and it kills me cause i never get ANY alone time with her, and the time we do get to spend together is with friends cause her parents wont let her over to my house alone. Anyone know of anything I can do to get their parents to let her do somthing, or anything i can tell my girl to say? help please!

Q: I have liked this guy for a LONG time now but not too much has happened between us. I want to be with him romantically and we've fooled around a few times but we act like it never happened the next time we're together. He does things that make me believe he likes me back but I can never be sure. What should I do? I really want to be with him.

16 years old
Female

Q: my friend has had this off and on relationship with this guy.hes fingered her and made out alot and stuff but he goes off and does stuff like that with other people.shes like my best friend EVER and she calls me crying sayin hes makin out with some girl.it breaks my heart and i think she should leave him.all he does is break her hearrt.she deserves so much better but she claims she loves him so much.other times she hates him.can someone help me?im afraid im in the middle.
Signed,
Concerned Friend

Q: Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..

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