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Friendship situation... we've all changed
This is really long, but I need help! Last year I befriended three girls in my class. They became my really good friends, but one of them was my best friend. One of the other girls isn't very nice to me this year, since her and my best friend used to be best friends. I think that she's jealous. So my best friend and I haven't been hanging around the other two that much just because they're not very nice to us and some other incidents have happened. We've started to hang out with another group. They seemed really mean last year, but this one girl left and now they're all nice. So all of us are really good friends and we all get along great. We've all become closer through church, sports, and school, so I see them all the time. She my best friend and I just leave our two 'ex' best friends alone? They seem to be happy, but I do feel sort of bad. I'd rather hang out with my newer friends though. Help!!
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I think you should just leave them alone. Actually, that's happened to me before. I had a best friend, and then some girl took her away. And then they were best friends. This was like, 3 years ago, and they're still best friends. I was upset for awhile, but I got over it, and now I have better friends. So I guess we just weren't meant to be friends. Sometimes that's the way it is. So my answer to you is just let them go, and have fun with your friends. (that sort of sounded wrong, but you know what I mean, lol) Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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If they don't seem to mind, then don't worry about it. If all of you are happier without each other, then it works out. Don't completely cut them out of your life and don't ignore them, but don't feel like you HAVE to hang out with them all the time and be like you were last year. People change and things happen. It's all a part of life.
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Don't feel bad I am sure they have found some new friends too. They were probably not your "real" friends anyways because those types of friends never get into fights. So i think your better off with you new friends in a new direction. XoJacXo
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Girl! Don't Feel Bad!You've All Changed.. Moved On With Your life... Meet New {or Not} People! It's Fine ! There Fine! Your Fine! Don't Worry Enjoy being happy!This Is all about growing up!
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It sounds like your 'ex' best friends are fine. You don't need to be hanging around with people that are gonna be mean. You have good friends now so dont ruin that. You can still be nice to your ex best friends and still stay somewat friends juss dont leave the group you are in now to go bak to them. Chances are they will treat you nasty again. Don't worry bout feeling bad...if they really wanted to be good friends with you again they would treat you right. It's their loss
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well if i were you.i would try to hangout with both friends. and if they have issues sit them down and talk. and your true friends will stay true to you.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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