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confused about everything


Question Posted Monday December 20 2004, 3:38 pm

ok well i have this guy friend who ive kinda been liking for awhile.I tell him everything and he tells me just about everything. Well my ex bf raped me couple weeks ago and now my friend is all like mad at him and cussed him out the other day acting like all over-protective like he likes me or something. He also gets kind of mad when i talk about a guy i like i do that because i cant tell him i like him ya know? so i guess what i really want to know is do you think my friend likes me?its kinda confusing me because he likes to joke around alot n ask me out and stuff but hes only joking and he gives me like really wierd nicknames but its always " my something" for example says ur my babygurl n stuff. so do you think he does? sry if its long ill rate high

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Additional info, added Monday December 20 2004, 4:09 pm:
hes not my close friend i jus met him in like september but hes a friend.

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tweety answered Monday December 20 2004, 5:04 pm:
he definetly likes you and you should ask him out!

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AsKmE135 answered Monday December 20 2004, 4:44 pm:
Yea it sounds like he likes you. If he is trying to protect you, that means he really cares about you. And he gets jealous when he thinks you like someone else. And by joking around with you, like by asking you out and stuff, he is probably doing that because he really wants to ask you out for real but is too afraid of rejection. So yea, I think he likes you. Maybe you could ask him out b/c it seems like he's shy, or you could atleast give him signals that you like him so that he won't be so nervous about asking you out.

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AsKmEsOmEtHiNg answered Monday December 20 2004, 4:09 pm:
yea i think he liks u but might be too shy to ask u out or doesnt want to ruin the friendship. try asking him out. good luck~becca~

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PinkLady4863 answered Monday December 20 2004, 4:03 pm:
well, first of all, if your he is your close friend it is a natural feeling for him to be angry when someone hurts you (or rapes you). I don't even know you and i want to kick ur ex's ass. But anyway, i would have to say yes, he likies you. Because remember this... 70% of what people say while they are joking around, they really mean. Joking was just a way to get their feelings out without bein vonerable or rude. So make the moves, let him know you like him and if he wants to make his move he better do it now... good luck hunnie!

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chrirett answered Monday December 20 2004, 3:56 pm:
I think you shud ask him out and then u will find out. If e ses no say ur only jokin or dat it was a dare.

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Cath answered Monday December 20 2004, 3:54 pm:
Hi Sweetie,
If your ex raped you... of corse this gu has every reason to be protective. He defenetly likes you a lot as a friend. ...Maybe he likes yoou as something more... but he is too afraid of the circumstances and stuff. It doesn't matter right now just HOW much he likes you because he DOES LIKE YOU A LOT... as a friend. If he liked you as a girlfriend... it wouldn't matter. This guy seems like he wants to give you time and he cares too much about you.
Take good care! ~Blessed Be...

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dancinqueen08 answered Monday December 20 2004, 3:53 pm:
He probably does like you, but he could just be a flirty friend. Any friend would be protecting their friend from someone that raped them, so that isn't a big sign. I guess you just have to wait it out and see what comes of it. Don't tell him you like someone else if you don't because that doesn't give him the opportunity to ask you out. By the way, he might think you should wait before you have a relationship with anyone considering the circumstances with your last boyfriend (which he might be right about).

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iTS_jUST_mE answered Monday December 20 2004, 3:47 pm:
Well for terribly sorry that you got taken advatage of.. but I don't know if likes you but you NEED to talk to him though. it sounds like it but he just might be a really good friend.. you never know un-less you as/talk to him. GOOD LUCK! <3 Taylor

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