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Question Posted Monday December 20 2004, 3:51 pm

Okay... Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months... it will be 3 months on the 6th of january..! Well see my friend and her boyfriend have been going out for not even 1 month and they have already kissed (tongue) and held hands and more! Me and my boyfriend have kissed but it seems that we are never alone because of this girl that likes him... she is always there, she won't just leave me and him alone for just a little bit! What should i do? it is bothering me so much that my friends are afraid of me breaking up with my boyfriend over this girl always being there!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 5:36 pm:
Just tell her because she needs to get the picture! I mean hello! You and him are a item! Not him and her! Not Him her and you! Its just him and you. But you know just take you time you dont have to follow through on your friend and her boyfriend. I say it took me and my bf awhile to kiss to! So just give it time!

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Jess5764 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 2:10 pm:
don't invite her to come along? or just make plans w/him w/o her knowing about it

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dancindanger answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 1:57 am:
Maybe you could talk to the girl, and ask why you can't have come alone time with him. Don't be mean though, because that will probably come off the wrong way. Try to hang out with him outside of places that you always see her. For instance, if you always see her at Safeway (just an example!), maybe you should hang out at Albertsons. Just go to a place where you don't think you would see her. Also, maybe you too could hang out in the house, not just in public places. Hope I helped!

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Shortie8959 answered Monday December 20 2004, 7:48 pm:
She might be there to make sure you guys don't do anything. Try telling her that you want some alone time with your guy. And it's ok that you're taking things slow, you don't need to be frenching yet! Lol. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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xShOrTiEx answered Monday December 20 2004, 7:12 pm:
tell her to go away. and he needs to tell her that he has a gf and he doesnt like her!

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XoPinkFashunXo answered Monday December 20 2004, 6:42 pm:
Hey gurl! ok...you have a problem. You should just like talk to ur bf and tell him to talk to her and tell her how like he doesnt like her. I think she'll understand or she HAS to understand. Anyways, if he talks to her and she doesnt go away then your gonna have to say something so she will understand. Cause she has to understand somehow. Hope i helped. luv ya bye

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ixjacquixi answered Monday December 20 2004, 5:38 pm:
Tell her that she should back off and that your his girlfriend and you deserve some alone time with him. Go over his house or have him come over your to watch a movie with some popcorn. Or go out to dinner or a movie theater one night when she doesn't know you are going out together. About your friend, she is different that you and she has different morals. Maybe her and her boyfriend have a more deeper relationship than you and your boyfriend. Good luck hope everything works out

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iggyl27 answered Monday December 20 2004, 5:07 pm:
well first how old are u guys?? and if you want some alone time have him come over to your house to watch a movie so mayb then you guys will makeout or even just talk over other stuff. hoped i helped

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DrummeR4LifE answered Monday December 20 2004, 4:46 pm:
Tell her to buzz off or just go to eachothers houses... and if shes there well then thats just plain freaky!

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AsKmE135 answered Monday December 20 2004, 4:41 pm:
Ask your bf to hang out outside of school, like at the movies or something, so that the girl won't be able to find out where you are and follow you around

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PinkLady4863 answered Monday December 20 2004, 4:28 pm:
tell that girl she needs to give you guys space, she is not dating him you are. And never comnpare relationships, maybe you guys are not ready and maybe you have more then sex to keep you together. Just because one couple decides to do the deed never means yopu have to! you may regret it later.
lotz o' luv,
PinkLady4863

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advicemaster answered Monday December 20 2004, 4:21 pm:
Talk too the girl or wrote he a note asking why your doing this or ask your frineds to talk to her or better yet as your BF too and tell him to say he dose not like her but can still be friends.

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zapreth answered Monday December 20 2004, 4:18 pm:
If you want to kiss him, kiss him. The little interloper may finally get the hint and leave the two of you alone. And tell your boyfriend to get some balls and send her away. This isn't just your problem. He needs to take a hand in the solution as well. Luck and Love!

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