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He's a charming bastard, she's innocent and in love
I have three really close friends, Taylor, Sarah, and Alyssa. We're all completely different but we get along really well.
So now here's my question, Alyssa's going out with this guy, Micheal. And Taylor and I don't like him at all, infact we hate him. He lives in a differnt city now, but when he did live out here he went out with two of my other friends... and cheated on both of them. Alyssa looks past this because she's been in love with him for almost a year. He never really showed interest in her until a month ago when he was horny and she was willing.
Then Julia his latest ex and Alyssa's good friend found out and got mad at both of them. Because Alyssa didn't ask if it was ok to be with him, even though he and Alyssa didn't actually go out just do... stuff... Then after all the fights, Micheal has the nerve to actually ask her out. And Julia get's pissed again because she warned Aly about him.
But then the cherry on top was that Alyssa bring's him to Sarah's birthday, uninivted, of course Taylor and I make him feel so akward he leaves. Then Alyssa lies and leaves halfway through the party saying she has to go home. To hang out with him, and when we find out and call her, she lies about where she is and who she's with saying she's christmas shopping.
What should I do she doesn't listen and he's an ass. Who's already cheated on her once and they've only been going out for about two weeks.
And she's a virgin and he's reeeeeally horny!!!!!
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Explain your thoughts to her, and if she doesn't listen there isn't much you can do. The hardest thing about being a friend is letting others make their own mistakes, but we have to. Maybe your first impression wasn't right, you should try to be friends with her boyfriend.
-Farren
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Hey Try Your Best to Snap Her Outta It Is All I Can say.. But Don't Leave Her In The Dark. If/when She Does Get Her She Is Gonna Need A Shoulder To Cry On. ~ A Concerned {another} Taylor
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Shes just going to have to find out herself what a jerk he is. Its great that you are looking out for her. If she doesnt listen to you its her fault, hopefully she will soon find out that hes a jerk and break up with him before she looses her virginity to him.
~ Brina~
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Well you cant change the way she feels, but you can sure try, one day she is gonna get her heart broken, but that might be what it takes for her to relize what a great friend she has~love~
The Deep Seeker
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Wow, well first off if she doesn't know about him cheating on her find a way to help her find out. That might change her mind real fast. I really don't know what else to tell ya, jsut give her some space for awhile, I'm sure the time will come when he will dump her or she will find out about him cheating on her...agian.
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