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my best friend and i have been like really close since freshmen year and now like everytime we want to do sumthing she always has to bring someone else along i mean sometimes i just want to hang with her like we used to because its no fun when the people she brings im not friends with and i end up getting ditched...i dont like it what should i do??????????
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OK, you have prolly heard this before, but you should talk to her, let her know you and her need to spend some time togother like "old times" and let her know that you kinda just wanna it to be you and her, try to find a nice way to put it so that she doesnt feel hurt though, and then maybe when yuo guys are hanging out you cna tell her whats on your mind!
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Well, talk to her! She might get mad at you though. Or, invite one of YOUR other friends. Maybe she'll understand how you feel. Hope I helped!:) Speedy Turtle!
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First of all if you feel comfortable you should talk to her about it. Tell her you have no problem with her bringing other friends you'd just appreciate it if she asked you first. this way you could say no if you didnt' want someone there. maybe just say hey you wanna go see a movie just you and me? or something like that. Im sure she'll understand, just make sure you say just you and me. Also don't be too controlling. I know i've had friends who wouldn't let me have any other friends and that really upset me. Just hang out wiht just her soemthing and then hang out with her firends too sometimes. You could also possibly bring along one of your friends. good luck! I hope this helped.
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Talk to her girl. That's all i can say. good luck!
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Sit her down and talk to her about it. Its true that people have other friends they want to hang out with, but that doesnt mean she should ditch you. Just talk to her about and see if things improve.
JyNxiE
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before inviting your friend tell her you want to spend 1 on 1 time it should work.
luv Britt
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First of all you need to tell her. Your getting mad at her about how she is with your friend, but yet she doesnt know its making you mad? So, is it truly her fault? or is it yours at the moment? Second, you have to remember everyone has more then one friend, and they like to hang out with others more often then some friends, its a thing of like. Third, Im not saying she should go off and ditch you, cause its happend to me, granted im a guy i dont really mind, cause we are just weird like that, but i know alot of friendship stuff effects girls aswell. So, the main thing you need to do is to ust tlak to her and tell her how you feel, but dont be saying that she needs to hang out with you mroe then others. That is the quickest way to lose a friend. So just sit down talk to her how you think you guys are not hanging out together alone like you used to as often as you would like. Hope it helps
Sincerly
Supaman
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