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What can i do?
I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks now, and things have been going pretty good. We dont go to the same school, but we do see each other almost every weekend. Well last weekend he asked me what i was doing because he wanted to do somthin saturday night. Well on Friday night i imed him and asked what he wanted to do, and he said that he couldnt do anything because he had to go to some wedding. I was kinda madd because i didnt know if he would have even told me about the wedding if i didnt ask him what he wanted to do. A couple of days pass and it seems like were getting more and more distant. Im goin to the movies soon with some friends and i want him to go so we can see each other. What all can i do so our relationship keeps going and doesnt just lose interest?!?!?!
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Well tell him how you feel . Tell him you want him to talk more ( because you do ) and just tell him you really want to hang out with him more than you already am
he will understnad :)
- Ashley
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when relationships first start out, often the first couple of weeks/months even are a little difficult, especially if you don't go to the same school. i would suggest maybe calling him and trying to talk to him on the phone rather than online, and ask him to go to the movies with u and your friends. if he says he can't, then ask him if he wants to do something the next day. if he still says he can't and doesnt give a good reason, then you'll have to talk to him about it. just let him know that it seems like he's avoiding you, and you don't understand why. tell him that if there's something going on that's making him not able to see you, that you'd like to know about it. chances are he's just getting used to the idea of having a girlfriend, as often times, especially for guys, it takes some adjusting to. my bf and i had a lot of trouble for the first 2 months or so, but that was two years ago and we're still together, and we even live 1800 miles apart. i hope this helped, and just stick in there and hopefully things will get better soon. good luck
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Long distance relationships don't work out more than they do. Just seeing each other on weekends may not be enough to hold you two together. But then again you've only been with him for a couple of weeks and that is not enough time to say anything about the relationship. The first few weeks always go good because two people are still trying to impress the other. The true test with the relationship comes when you're been together longer. If it's not meant to be, you cant really do much more to keep it going and not loose interest. A couple needs to see each other a certain amount of time for things to work out.
JyNxiE
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well try doing sumthing just you and him maybe he wants to spend time with ytou not your friends
luv Britt
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If he is still your boyfriend he will still show intrest in you. Just keep getting closer to him until you guys are starting to spend every weekend together again.
Happy Holidays!
Abby
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