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kissed and confused
hello. i am a girl and 14 years old. i have a boyfriend. he is the sweetest most wonderful person you can ever meet. there is this other boy in school and he told me he liked me. yesterday, i was in school and i said "im bored, i want to makeout" my cousin went over to the boy and told him to go to the restroom when i went. i went to the restroom and he was there. i like him too. so then we kissed. i feel bad about this. i kissed another boy when im going out with another one. i feel so guilty and i dont think it meant anything to him. But i feel like i did something really really bad. i dont know what do to. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend in any way. what should i do?
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well ask yourself who do you like more. if you dont want to hurt your boyfriends feelings stop seeing that one guy. tell him that your have a great boyfriend and he should but out.
hope it works out
Luv Britt
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Don't tell your bf about this. You have to think about this. Who do you like more? Whoever you're more comfortable with is your answer. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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you know ... that's tough. I am the kind of person that wouldn't tell my boyfriend cuz I would be afraid that he would get too mad. How many people know though? Cuz if you think he'll fidn out or someone will spill the beans it'd be best if you told him first. Then he couldn't hold it against you just act REALLLLYY sad and everything.
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Well, I've been in a situtaion like that, and this is what I've done. If it was a one-time thing and (I know, it sounds kindof wrong) you don't mind not telling your boyfriend, just don't tell him. If he finds out somehow, explain to him that it was a one-time, spur-of-the-moment thing.
Good luck!
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OMGOSH! I so DID that once and it was a thing that didnt mean to happen! But my Boyfriend found out and dumped me! Tell your boyfriend what happened and tell him that it didnt mean ne thing to u or him so if he could please forgive u and maybe he will understand!
Hope I Helpd!
RaTe Me!
Love Kayla Ann
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Well, put it this way - what would you want your boyfriend to do if the situation were reversed? I assume you'd want to know the truth, as nobody really wants to be decieved by people who they think care for them.<p>
Your boyfriend is unlikely to be happy that you kissed another guy, especially given that all it took to drive you to it was 'boredom'. If he chooses to end his relationship with you, take it gracefully and learn from the mistake. To be honest, your kissing another guy is probably evidence that all is not right in the relationship to begin with, as if things were hunky-dory then you wouldn't have done what you did. If your boyfriend is willing to work on things, then all is good, but if he's not willing, or can't trust you again then let things go - it's better to be single than to be in a relationship with somebody who doesn't really want to be with you. Make the experience constructive by working out why you did what you did and how you can avoid making similar mistakes again, but other than that, you just have to be honest with your boyfriend and leave the rest to him. Good luck.
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well if you like ur boyfriend the most then you dont tell him what happened!just go along like nothing happened. and when you amke out with ur real boyfriend again you wont even think about the other guy
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You've probally heard this a million times but you should tell him. its gonna hurt him to hear it from someone else espically if the boy you kissed told him. Tell him exactly what happened and that it meant nothing and your really sorry!! Think about what your gonna say soo you don't say the wrong thing!! But don't write it down on paper! lol hope i helped
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Definently tell your boyfriend! Better he finds out from you, then from one of his friends! Hopefully he wont be to mad! <3 Good Luck
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Yup, I have to agree with all of the other people who've answered this question: Tell your boyfriend. Because he's going to find out eventually, and it's going to be a lot less painful if he finds out from you.
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I know it's not what you want to hear, but you have to tell your boyfriend. I can almost guarentee you the guy will tell people, and it will find some way to get to your boyfriend (and when it does, you'll be even MORE screwed than if you'd have told him yourself). There's no guarentee to how your boyfriend will react, but honesty is the best policy. If you value your relationship...or your boyfriend's feelings...you'll talk to him. And, since you DID make out with this other guy, maybe it's time to reevaluate your relationship with your boyfriend? Good luck =/
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EHHH.. thats a bad situation you got yourself into. heres what i would do. i would tell my boyfriend right away! it would be best if he heard the news from you instead of someone else. maybe you and your boyfriend should take a break and date other people. because if your liking other people then it really isn't fair to your boyfriend. just go talk 2 your boyfriend right away, and i hope things go well!
Alexandra x3
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you really have to tell your bf to at least clear your head of that one b/c if you dont its going to drive you nuts until you do! Then you can take the time to figure out what you want, maybe tell your bf that you want to take a break and if he says okay then he respects your decision...if he gets mad and doesn't want to do that then he doesn't respect you and you should leave him and go after the other guy!
Hope I helped!
- Zero
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Hey! You need to really think about this before you talk to your boyfriend! Do you want to tell him and hurt him, or keep it a secret and tell the other boy you made a mistake? You ovb. have a great boyfriend that likes you alot, and then .. you have this other boy who just said he liked you, I mean do you really like him enough to give up your wonderful boyfriend? I think you need to really think about this hard and to learn how to not get caught up in the moment with this other guy when you know you have a bf whose only wanting to kiss you and no other girl.
- Hope I helped
xoxo Kalie Noelle
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