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My boyfriends said all of his friends say im miserable and they dont like me and not one of them has even talked to me in lunch i dont sit next to anyone besides him so i dont talk and he barely talks to me and at night when he calls me we dont even stay on the phone fore more than 3 mins usually..i want to know why he has such a big problem with me wantin his friends to like me and maybe talk to me, Help what should i tell him to make him understand i dont want to never sit with him at lunch because now i sit with my friends and dont even sit with him at luch..
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I think communication is really important in a relationship. If he's treating you like that, I would let him go, no matter how hard it is. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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well tell him that you wanna sit with your friends and if he wants to sit with you then tell him to sit with you and your friends!
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If he's gonna treat you like that then you should talk to him!! If his friends don't like you they don't like you! but if hes gonna not like you because they don't then he shouldn't be your bf! During the 3 minute phone call bring it up and talk to him about it! I think he wants his friends to like you soo they can see why he likes you!
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Boys can be like that. They like to keep friends and girlfriends separate. During one of your three-minute phone conversations, have you asked him about this problem? You've got to tell him that if this relationship is going to stay alive, you guys have to spend some time together, whether it's on the weekends or at school. And also you need to ask him about the whole friend situation and find out exactly what his deal is. Hope I helped a little!
~Berri~
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if he dont sit by you at lunch anymore hes not worth it i no its bros before hoes but yeah thats stupid dump him ur way to good for him
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Alright, you're in high school I'm guessing, considering you're talking about sitting with him at lunch. Trust me, guys are not worth it at your age. Get an education, be true to yourself. If he's so worried about his friends liking you, then he may not care. I'm not saying he doesn't, he just might not. What does he want you to do? Conform to what his friends want you to be?? I say just give him space, and maybe leave him alone. He may come running to you, and if not, then he isn't worth your time.
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well you should not worry about his friends as long as you give him personal space with him and them if not and your always with him and if you keep harping on him his freinds will hate you and it will start rubbing off on him then he will hate you just vist him for a little bit at lunch or whatever but dont freakin cling on him oh and ask him if he likes you for you no matter what his freinds say and if he cares more about his image then your guys relationship then its a good idea to move on and find someone better
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hey i know where your coming from because im ALWAYS hanging out with my boyfriend and all of his friends....i even call them when im bored!! theyre like my really good friends too now....well next time your sitting with them at lunch...TALK! just say wats up or something...make conversation...be funny...outgoing...they might call you miserable because you just sit there....it makes them unconfrotable having you just sitting there starring, looking miserable...so next time just talk!! and maybe you shuld try calling your boyfriend..maybe since you dont call he feels like you dont wanna talk when he does call...so call him up and just make conversation...talk about tv, movies coming out, christmas rpesents, plans for winter break...ANYTHING!! what u did that day, etc....and if he still wont talk to you for very long, maybe hes not a fone person...my bf and me did the SAME thing....but it wasl ike less than two minutes!! eventually, we became closer and now we talk for HOURS...so just open up, be urself around him and hell WANT to talk to you....bring ur friends over and sit by him and ull feel more comfortable maybe having your gurlfriends with you....
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umm maybe you should break up with him because he obviously thinks your ugly and embarasing!
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