Member Since: November 22, 2004
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Last Update: December 18, 2004
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My boyfriends said all of his friends say im miserable and they dont like me and not one of them has even talked to me in lunch i dont sit next to anyone besides him so i dont talk and he barely talks to me and at night when he calls me we dont even stay on the phone fore more than 3 mins usually..i want to know why he has such a big problem with me wantin his friends to like me and maybe talk to me, Help what should i tell him to make him understand i dont want to never sit with him at lunch because now i sit with my friends and dont even sit with him at luch.. (link)
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well you should not worry about his friends as long as you give him personal space with him and them if not and your always with him and if you keep harping on him his freinds will hate you and it will start rubbing off on him then he will hate you just vist him for a little bit at lunch or whatever but dont freakin cling on him oh and ask him if he likes you for you no matter what his freinds say and if he cares more about his image then your guys relationship then its a good idea to move on and find someone better
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in lunch i sit with my friends b/c my boyfriend basically never talked to me in lunch which is the only time i see him in school besides like 1 min. between classes where were walking and hes talkin to his friends usually, i ask him if in the last 5 mins of lunch if he'd come over and sit with me but he wont b/c he doesn tlike the ppls i sit with, which his friends and him talked and made fun of them b/c they are kinda punk rock and such. but i dont get it even when i ask him to go to the movise with me and my friends guys and girsl hes always like no lets not or sumthin. i tried to do things he likes like go to races and go snowmobiling but he wont even go to a small band concert in our town b/c he doesnt like the music he wont do ne thing for me why?? he says he still loves me and all that but i dont understand how i do all this for him but its so hard to get him to do sumthin i like for once..? (link)
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ask him point blank if he likes me for me no matter what his image is. and if he worrys to much on how his apperance is then you DUMP HIM LIKE BAD HABBIT because you are better then just following in his foot steps
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okay, so i've been in love with guy for like 3 years now i think!? and we went out last year but it ended up not working out.. and sometimes people are like do you still like him!? but i deny it cause i'm scared to admit it or something idk!? but i really want to get it off my chest and out of the way so i can quit worrying about it. i really want to tell him but im afraid of getting hurt and having a broken heart again.. should i tell him and just accept whatever he says!? if so- what do i say!? and when and where!? ahh i need help as soon as possible cause i leave to go out of town tomorrow! thankkss!! (link)
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yes i would in my own opinion would need to hear if the person still has feelings for me and if he is going out with someone right now it will most likely be on the negative side, however you will find out and know then rather ponder your life away with what if, i would ask the person in a quite place where they would know that i am serious face to face and then i would a definte answer
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