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my boyfriend
kay..i have had a crush on john for a couple of months. then on monday, he asked me out!! i was so happy!! everyone was talking about it!! i know that he smokes weed and pot,( he told me b/4 we were going out) but i still like him..... and when he gets drug tested for his athletics, if he fails it, everyone will think i am desperate. but i really like him.
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hey im glad u got asked out by the guy u like...and i wouldn't be too worried about what people say...people just want something juicy to spread around you just need to tell them straight up but if i were you i wouldnt care so much what the people think i would care about john doing drugs i mean if he gets caught that could be BAD!
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Hey babe. I'm really happy for you :-). I love when things like that happen. I wouldn't worry about what people think at all. If you really like him stay with him because you never know, you have liked him for a while...this could be the only chance you get. If it really starts to bother you if people talk about you just be upfront and honest and make sure John knows that you are honest about it. Hope I helped and good luck with John. <3 Ryah
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O.k. this is your opinion but i think you can do better than a druggy. If he does drugs he is liable to start pressuring you to do the same. When he fails his drugh test because your his gf people will associate you with his bad rep. You deserve better
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Smoking up is a very common thing. Chances are...if he really wants to be on his athletic team..he'll sober up for the test. If you really like him, don't worry about what people say. You know you like him, he knows he likes you..so obviously you're not desperate for much! If him smoking really bothers you..talk to him about it, and tell him how much you dislike it.
♥,
heather
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Just try to help him with his "drug" problem and you shouldn't care what other people with think of you, just be yourself
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tell him that if he really likes you he will get help and quit smoking pot and weed. you dont want to apper desperate, and he might hurt you - not even meaning to - if you are around him and hes high on illegal drugs. its not ok that he does this, especially if hes getting high that often that hes failing athletic tests. it will be hard b/c you like him, but you need to tell him before he ends up somewhere bad like juvinaile delenquency! then jail if nothing goes good!
-FunnyCide
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First off...pot and weed are the exact same thing.No difference.A lot of the time you know who the "druggies" of the school are.Either they always have the distinctive smell of pot on them, they talk about it constantly, or carry it around and announce they have it *cough cough* Samantha .That's not always the case though.Some people are in the closet about it.Which seems to me that your boyfriend is.If he does fail his drug test I highly doubt people will view you as desperate.You might be associated as other things,but desperate will not be one you have to worry about.Give him your views on his drug habits.Let him know you don't like what he does.It's quite obvious you and him don't agree on it.People act really dumb when they are stoned.At least make sure he has the decency not to do it around you.And if he does...make a clear exit for the door,to show him you dont like him when he is stoned.
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You shouldnt worry about what other people think.I'd talk to him about trying to quit smoking.But if your ok w/ it just stick w/ him!
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talk to him about it, like if you dont like it, i mean if he is a good guy, but i wouldnt go out with someone who does drugs, its to dangerous, like when he is on them, and he may get you into them, and then make u do stuff that you dont wanna do!
dump him! and tell him why
even if he says that he wont make u do aything he cant control himself when he is on them!
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