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the step below
What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?
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Kaleigh
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There isn't a step below going out. Most of the time going out isn't even anything. It's just basically recognizing that you both like each other and that I guess you both have "dibs" on each other.
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I am in the same situation you are in.My best friend Dee and I are really good friends.We both like eachother a lot and we kiss and mess around but we are not dating.If you are below going out but you are more then friends, its like your really close and not friends with benefits but you almost bf/gf.
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Well, I'd think it's friends w/ benefits, but since you say it isn't... Then maybe just close friends, or best friends. Going to movies together except not holding hands and not kissing or any of that, just walking together and going out to eat together and going to movies together, stuff like that would be the level below going out. Hope I've helped!!
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Talking. Everybody talks before they go out.
~Steph~
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A lot of people think that "dating" and "going out" are two different things. They say that dating is where you..well, go on dates, but you can also date other people. I guess it's more for people who don't want the commitment. And then "going out" is where you only with each other, and going on a date with someone else would be cheating. So I guess dating would be the step under.
But then you said he's not into the holding hands thing. I guess you could just go on dates and not touch each other...I think that's more like just being friends, though.
Sorry if my answer was confusing. That's a tricky one. Just thought I'd offer what I could.
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Well he sounds kinda clueless lol there is no "step" below going out. but if you dont like what im gettin at then ask him
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The step below going out is "friends with benefits" This means that he wants to do things that a normal couple would do like hold hands, kiss, make out, have oral sex, etc.! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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friends with benefits....you make out//oral//sex//hold hands// you do everything you wuld do wen ur goin out only you guys arnt goin out!
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I think it's just seeing eachother once in a while and maybe kissing and stuff but not actually goin out as in not calling eachother boyfriend and girlfriend. Could he mean a sort of open realtionship where its ok to kiss other girls? Or maybe he wants to get to know you better before you make the decision?
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dating.
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hey well mabe he got hurt in another relationship and dosent want to get hurt again! talk to him. Mabe he just wants to get to kow you more> you never know! hope i helped!
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i think he means friends with benefits.. i think this guy is afraid of committment! well i hope that helps :o)
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dating, flirting.. *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*
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he means that he doesnt want to be boyfriend and girlfriend but he wants to date. you can be seeing someone but not actually be their girlfriend. like you hang out do things like hold hands, cuddle, and maybe even kiss. but your not actually taken. you are still considered single.- its something that as you get older you tend to do. its a "adult" relationship.
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well it sounds like you guys are what all of me and my friends call 'talking' as in you guys really like each other and it's a mutual feeling. and you couldd go out if you wanted to, but instead you guys are talking as more than just friends. so if i had to say sumthin below 'goin out' but 'more then friends' id say you 2 were talking. ;). hope i helped. and good luck w/ur boy, hunny!! <3 Brittany >Merry x*mas<
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I'm havin the same issues girl so this is what he told me he wants to be friends til he's not so busy in the future and I'm handlin it so just wait a while and he'll ask you out believe me he just called today!!!!!Happy Holidays!!!!!!!:)
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Well from what it sounds like you're "together" with him or "seeing eachother" and you don't have an exclusive relationship. An exclusive relationship is basically when you refer to the other person as your boyfriend/girlfriend. Hope this helped.
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the step below would be like.. "unofficially" going out.. like.. yll act like you are.. you just dont tell everyone that ur b/f and g/f.. !!
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