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Tongue Tyed
My friend and I have always had trouble talking to guys and we don't why. We just start getting all shy and our mind's go blank and just don't act like ourselves. We both like a boy and desperatly want to talk to them. If any of y'all have advice we would GREATLY appreciate it!!!
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haha, been there, done that. im just like that. but the thing me and my friends do, is, well, kinda stupid but we pretend we know someone, our friend (make up a name) *megan* and go up to the guy and be like you're (name), right? and he'll be like yeah? you are ...? then introduce yourself and say your friend (made up name) told you about him, and stuff, just dont worry about it. go with the flow! it willl come to you naturally! if you need more help or idea's write back. sorry im not much help! good luck~! have FuN!!*xox-angie*
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I'm the exact same way. I can't talk to guys because I'm extremely afraid of them. It's like guys are a whole different species! I think that you should just work up your courage and talk to the guy like you just want to be friends. That way, the guy will feel comfortable around you. Friends first is always the best way! Besides, if you don't do it, you're going to regret not saying something later on. Regret is worse than fear. Good luck!! :-)
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hey well you got to say to yourself that you only live once! So u have to say that you need to open up and hit everything that comes to you. I rember i used to be shy. but that was just a stage. now I grew out of it! mabe the both of you will to. But my advice is to go for it. Go up to him and be like " hey whats up" i really hope I helped!
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The problem with TRYING to talk to someone is that's when your mind always goes blank. You need a situation where you can make conversation naturally without being on the spot. Try doing something together that you both enjoy- go to a party or invite him out someplace. He might appreciate the gesture, and then you can talk to him without having to be in the spotlight.
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its no big deal, they probably are just as nerveous as you are. be yourself and be cool about it and you have nothing to worry about. be flirty and act cute and they'll probably like you.
hope this helped
~stef~
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just go for it!! start a regular conversation.. maybe about homework and what not.. and flirt! just go for it.. do what u gotta do. if he doesn't go with it, then let him go. there's a million other guys out there anyway! good luck!
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Lol, that's totally normal when you start dating. It gets easier with experience. Just remember that guys are still people! I won't say to treat them as you would a girl friend, because most guys won't want to hear about how fat you look in those pants or how you're getting your period next week...but you know what I mean ;) If you want to feel more comfortable with it, just practice talking to your guy friends. Sorry I couldn't be of more help, and good luck!
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if u like a boy approach him as a friend (you don't wanna make him feel nervous do you?)then take time to get to know himand you might just fall in love.
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