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Last year when i was with my boyfriend a kid kept wanting to get with me and liking me. I had feelings for him but i never did anything cause i loved my boyfriend a lot. I ended up breaking up with my boyfriend and the last few weeks ive been hanging out with the guy that liked me. All we do is make out and have sex and then i leave cause i have shit to do, is this bad or slutty looking to have some fun? I dont think ill get pregnant or nething because im on birth control and all. What would you do in my situation? (link)
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I'm sorry to say, but it does look like you're just out to have fun. And other girls would probably classify you in the slut category for doing things like that. You either need to satrt dating this guy, or just break it off. It does look slutty, and you wouldn't want a reputation like that! But do whatever you feel is right, it is your life ..
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im 14 and my sister is 17. she has a boyfriend that shes really close with and a just got a car. shes supposed to come every other weekend but since she got her car she never comes. shes always at her boyfriends and if she does come she just leaves anyways. i really love spending time with her and i miss her a lot cause i never see her anymore. i know that shes older and doesnt want to spend time with her family, but i still do. what should i do? i dont know if i could really talk to her. (link)
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You need to talk to her! If this is bothering you, then maybe write her a letter or an e-mail if you don't want to talk to her face-to-face. I have had problems like this but it was with a friend, and we just wrote letters back and forth because we were both afraid to really just come face-to-face and talk. And besides, writing usually lets you get out what you need to say and more. I'm sure your sister would understand! So take time some night and write her a letter telling her exactly how you feel. No exagerating and don't lie either. It truly won't help anything! Hope this response can help you!
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Recently I started likeing my best guy friend, (we've only been really good friends for about 8 months) And before we became good friends, we went out for a lil over a month. Now I like him, and he knows and he says he does too. Im really comfortable around him, but Im scared it will ruin our friendship.Because I think I will chicken out, because Im so use to being his friend, I dont know how to be his girlfriend..What do I do ? (link)
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I have been in your situation for about the past three years. I have a guy friend that is my best friend, too. We have dated on and off, but that has never really ruined our friendship. I like him more than a friend right now, but I just don't know if he likes me back. He says he does sometimes, but I don't know when to believe him. If you do end up dating this guy, then don't be afraid. Just don't let anything come between your friendship! Make sure you are really comfortable with your decision too. I don't think that you guys would ever stop being friends because of this, but do want you really feel you should!
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ok... i am a little overweight and I like this guy who is really cute. and my parents own a pizza joint so everytime we get in a fight (which is like everyday), he says that i get loaded from my parents shitty pizza... and i get really offended and i still really like him... should i still be his friend? should i block him from my screen name? help please
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You need to get over this guy. If he's saying stuff like that, then he's just being mean! If he liked you then I don't think that he would say things like that. So if I were you, I would just give up because you shouldn't spend your time on someone thats going to be mean.
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Hi i am 17 and female and really quite shy, i would like some advice on how i can tell this guy that i really really love how i feel about him, i already know him and kinda friendly but not as close as i would like it.Help somebody! (link)
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Don't get worked up about telling him that now. You said that you are already friendly with him, just not as close as you want yet. Keep working on that as of now. Try to get closer to him. Talk to him more and try to get to know him better. THEN, once you do that you can go on to tell him that you like the way he makes you feel and you might possibly want to be with him. Don't tell him that this early though because guys are tricky and it may end up making him mad or turn him away from you or something. He might think you are obsessed, even though we all know you arent, and that can be a turn off! So just work on getting to know him now, and later on tell him how you feel. Good luck!
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ok my best friend has this secret admirer but i know who it is its a girl but she really wants to know who it is but if i tell her it might hurt the other gurl thats "bysexual" and i'd feel really bad so what should i do helpppp!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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I think that you should tell your friend. You won't know how she'll react until she finds out. I know that it might hurt the other girl, but if she likes your friend then shouldn't she just tell her? If she won't then maybe you should. I think it would be better if your friend knew rather than to keep her guessing. But if you really think that it would be better off not saying anything to her, then don't. Just do whatever you feel would be right for the both of them.
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Okay well im a 16*f.. well okay the other day i went to my sisters house.. well my ex boyfriend tony lives wit her and like well since he's got out of jail he's been tryin to get wit me..and like a month ago he grabbed me off the side walk and yelled at me and called me an ignorant bitch for not goin wit him.. well yesterday i was sleepin and he got on top of my back and kept askin me out i said no..cause first off i dont care for him the same way and i have a boyfriend.. well he pushed me up against the wall and yelled at me and hit me twice in my back really hard and its bruised.. im like half his weight and like half his height i know its not right and i told my bf and he was so upset.. i went to the doctor and i have a bruised spine.. and i dont know what to do with this guy im scared if i press charges he'll come after me and hurt me when he gets out..please give me advice.. sorry long..~*DEZ*~ (link)
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You need to go to the police right away. Don't let this go! If he is doing it to you, he is bound to do it to other girls also. Tell the police everything that is happening and everything you stated in this. I would also recommend to completely go for pressing charges. Don't let him continue tormenting you like this!! Before you go to the police, you should absolutely go to your sister and tell her what he is doing. Also tell your parents and try to get all the help you can get. Please don't let this go, he'll just do it to other girls and continue doing it to you.
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All of my friends say i'm changing just because im getting new friends....im not changing at all..its jsut something that grows on me more and more as i hangout with them...i tlel them all the time that m no chaning and im kind of worried that they think that i wont hangout with them anymore but they are my gurls! i could never leave them..but i dont think they understand that this guy im hanging out with, i really like but its not like im ganna ditch my friends, i mean i hangout more with my friends them him! Help! i dont know what to do!! (link)
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Problems like this don't usually get fixed unless you talk them out. Be sure to talk to all of your friends and make sure that they know what you are going through. Don't go overboard, and make it clear that you don't want to argue with them during the conversation. Just get your feelings out and be sure that when you guys are done talking everything is fine. Don't stop until everything between you guys are alright! Hope things turn out okay!
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Theres this one guy i was really close to in the summertime i mean we used to hangout alot and it was fun but lately he said i irratate him alot but he has no reason and i relaly like him...i mean really like him and i dont know why he just kind of grew on me form being around him so much..whenever i ask him whats wrong he enver answers me, he wont lookat me or even talk to me anymore....what should i do?
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People say that girls are confusing, but in reality...It's the guys! He may just be going through something. Maybe you should just let him be. Guys usually like the attention they get from girls when they know a girl really likes them. So if you can, just try to ignore him and don't talk to him for a while. He will eventually come around. And when he knows that you aren't talking to him or anything, he'll get upset and come back to you. So as of now just let him go and forget about it. Besides, you never know what could happen in the near future!
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Well, I have this friend, and it seems like every time she gets a boyfriend, she forgets about all of her friends. It drives me crazy b/c we're supposed to be like best friends but everytime she just meets a new guy and like...ditches all of us. And then she wont hang ot with us unless he can come and all she does is like make out in front of us with him. Im getting really annoyed with her but I dont know if i should say something or not... (link)
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You should say something. If it is making you and your friends mad, then say something. It may upset her, but even though she meets a guy that doesn't give her the right to ditch you. That's completely unfair. Talk to all of your friends and then you guys should all go to this girl and tell her how you girls feel. But if you let it slide by, then nothing will change and it will continually be like this. Don't be afraid, if you two are best friends then you should be able to talk about things like this. Talk about it, don't let it go, trust me, that's no way to solve anything!!
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Hi im 14 and my bf keeps on wanting me to give him a blow job im not sure i don't want to go that far yet ive given him a hand job and he was
satisfied with that what should i do? (link)
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Talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. He should understand, and if he doesnt, he isn't for you! You shouldn't be with someone who doesn't respect you and your descisions. And the most important thing is to only do what you feel comfortable with. Don't do something if you aren't ready!
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Ok i have a puppy, i just got the other day and she will be 7 weeks old tomorrow...well my problem is...she wont stop useing the bathroom on my floor in my bedroom and everywhere else in the house...even though i tell her no...thats bad and not to do it again but she keeps on and on whenever i see that shes about to go to the bathroom i pick her up and rush her outside....its annoying and i need advice on how to get her to stop useing the bathroom on my floor...thanks...i'll rate anyone who answers this for me! (link)
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You are going to have to take her outside on a schedule. When we got our dog, we took her outside every hour to see if she had to go. And only wait about 5 minutes, then take her back inside. I also kept the doors in the house shut, and we kept her confined in the kitchen for a while. You could put up baby gates like we did, usually that will teach them. We took our dog to an obedient school and that didn't really help as much as people said, so I would steer away from that! We kept her in the kitchen for about 2 months and when we did let her out she was fine! It is tedious work, but in the end it is worth it! I hope this helps!
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soo ive been friends with my best friend since we both were lil. Something happened over this last year tho, shes like younger then me by a year or something and we both go to different schools. Now that we both are working and doing sports we never have time for each other. The last time i saw her was thanksgiving when we both didnt work at all. She got really heavy into drugs over this last year and a half and she would go around and lie to me all the time when i would ask her questions or make up excuses to things, i just want her to be honest to me and i never want to lose her as a friend. I dont think that we will ever hate each other, but i want back what we had when we were lil ,is there any hope for that? I love this girl to pieces but i feel she doesnt feel the same way , she didnt even get me a birthday gift for my birthday that just passed and now that its almost christmas i hope that we at least talk for christmas, i miss her soo much and i never want to lose her, i guess i just sometimes wish she would tell me more stuff about her life instead of telling this other girl that lives near us everything. It hurts sometimes to know she never tells me nething and lies to me, what should i do.....and if ur like this to someone please make things better because it hurts soo bad inside (link)
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Talk to your friend. Maybe the things that you think she does aren't true. There is always a possibility. You mention that you two have been friends for a long time and you are also older. You both should have your own groups of friends, and you shouldn't always feel like you have to be with each other. The two of you need time for other people but don't let that take away your friendship. You also mention in this that the younger girl has gotten into drugs and such. Talk to her about it and make sure that you are positive she is still doing drugs before assuming it. This other person who she has become close to and tells everything to doesn't seem like someone that you like. Maybe she does this because she knows you are older and she doesn't want you to judge her badly. Just talk to her about it, that may make things better!
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i have been with my guy for more than a year now. recently we been gettin into a lot of fights. and it hurts me every time we do get in a fight. i dont know what to do. one time in a email, he said "i dont know what to do...i wanna think it through before i do anything to hurt you." (meaning breaking up with me). Please Help Me!!!! What should i do?! (link)
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Things like this usually mean that you two need a break. Could you have been seeing too much of each other? You both need to talk this over either on the phone or face to face. Not through emails on online. My advice is for you both to take a break so neither of you are hurting each other. Even though it may seem like a bad idea now, it could help later on down the line. Don't be in a realationship if you are uncomfortable or miserable. Do what is best for you. And by taking a break, that doesn't mean that it has to be forever. For a relationship to be healthy it needs this. Date around and see what type of person would best fit you. And when you are ready, you two can talk about getting back together. But as of right now, a break seems best!
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i have a girl freind,and whenever we try to do anything,i cant seem to get 'it' up.what advise can you give me?thanks a bunch if you can help me. (link)
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Maybe it just isn't the time for you. This problem could mean that you aren't ready for sex. If there are other times that you can get "it" up when you aren't with her, you may not be sexually attracted to her yet. It could take a while, but I guess keep trying if it's what you really want. Or take time away from it for about 2-3 weeks.
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I think certain teachers of mine are grading me unfairly! Other students are getting almost identical grades to mine and I'm almost failing in the class while thier getting good grades. I'm nearly aceing tests and quizes and I've gotten perfects on projects! I think they just don't like me but no one will believe that! Please help! (link)
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Talk to the teachers that you think are grading you unfairly. You could also talk to the other students and compare assignments/tests to see if there is a problem. Maybe they would even let you borrow their paper(s) to show the teacher(s)that you think this is wrong. But you have to be truthful about it!! No lying!! If talking to them doesn't help, then you may want to talk to a parent and have them contact the school.
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hey im having alot of trouble because i am almost positive my best friend has an eating disorder and it is really scaring me because i dont know how i could talk to other people or confront her about it. i think she is bulimic and i cant stop thinking about her doing this to herself and i feel weird around her. It is really worrying me cause i dont know how to help and i dont want her to get hurt or keep doing this. what do u think i should do??? (link)
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If I were you, I would try talking to her. Confront her about the problem and work something out. If she is refusing to talk to you or tell you anything, try going to her parents or an administrator at your school. If you did decide to confront her about it, make sure it is only the two of you talking and no one else. You could call her or talk to her online. Tell her how you are feeling and that this is hurting you. Make sure that she knows that there is a problem and it needs to be fixed. You may need some time and you might not be able to find the words to explain it, but at least try. Don't let this situation get too out of hand, take action now.
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ok, i've been realli sick this past week. i havent gone to school at all and my mom said i cant go tomorrow either. but whatever.. the thing is, i love to drink water and its mainly the only thing i drink. i really havent had water forever cause its making me feel worse. what other drinks might be good for a really upset stomache? (link)
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Drink something with carbon. Carbonated drinks should help your stomach. Drink soda or something like that. Water is good for you, but you might be overdoing it! So lay off that for a while and try soda to see if it helps!
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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance! (link)
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No, it is not bad at all. People can't help who they like and who they don't. Everyone is the same and if you like a person who has darker or lighter skin than you, it isn't a crime. It is perfectly normal.
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wen i have my period im not really aloud to take a pill but my stomach always hurts alot wut can i do?!?! wif school n everything i dont wunna go wif muh stomach hurtin!! (link)
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You could try taking Ibuprofen. That is a pill that is used to reduce fever and to relieve headaches, muscle aches, menstrual pain, aches and pains from the common cold, and backaches. It should help you with your pain, but only take one or two, never more. And only take them when the cramps are kicking in!
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