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older sister
im 14 and my sister is 17. she has a boyfriend that shes really close with and a just got a car. shes supposed to come every other weekend but since she got her car she never comes. shes always at her boyfriends and if she does come she just leaves anyways. i really love spending time with her and i miss her a lot cause i never see her anymore. i know that shes older and doesnt want to spend time with her family, but i still do. what should i do? i dont know if i could really talk to her.
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Aren't your parents upset about this? They should talk to her, let her know that she needs to spend time with her little sister and parents, tell your parents, your sister might not listen, so try your parents first, and then maybe you could say, "hey sis, I really liked it when you came over to see me, I miss spending time with you." And maybe she will say she misses it too, and if she doesn't, shes not very nice, I understand that shes getting her own life, and its good that you get that, but you still deserve time with her! You are still apart of her life. So, I think you need to tell them both how you feel.
-TheTeenGirl
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Talk to your sister! thats the best thing you can do! tell her how much you love her and miss spending time with her and explain that u understand that she is older and wants to be with her boyfriend! be persistent and spill your heart! your her baby sister shell understand! im 17 and my sis is 14 to,,,its the same situation and if she comes to me and says she misses me i make sure i make time for her!
good luck
shianne
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maybe you could write her a letter or call her and tell her how you feel. I;m sure she'll understand. please rate
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you should talk to her and let her know how you are feeling! she's your sister and you should be able to talk to her and spend more time with her. maybe ask her to go to the mall with you or to have a girls night out or something. hope i helped. ~Kerri~
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You need to talk to her! If this is bothering you, then maybe write her a letter or an e-mail if you don't want to talk to her face-to-face. I have had problems like this but it was with a friend, and we just wrote letters back and forth because we were both afraid to really just come face-to-face and talk. And besides, writing usually lets you get out what you need to say and more. I'm sure your sister would understand! So take time some night and write her a letter telling her exactly how you feel. No exagerating and don't lie either. It truly won't help anything! Hope this response can help you!
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Definently talk to her let her no who you feel and even thow she is older you miss her and she is your sister. you love her and just dont want to loose touch with her. IM sure she'll understand and spend time with you
let me no how it goes,
hottopichottie
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write her a letter or im her and tell her you want to spend time with her hey maybe her boyfriend could drive you guys to the mall or maybe just tell her you miss her and plan something fun for the weekend
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ok, so u should like......
ight, call her sumtimes and say hi and say sumthing (not 2 be mean) like that makes her feel bad fer not cumin over @ all. like say"so i've really missed you you like never cum over and there is a lot of stuff i want to talk to you about, you should cum over sum weekends...."stuff like that so she'll want to cum over.hope i help!
=)=)luv ya ! t-28 old1
i have an older sis and she doesnt come around alot, i lik spending time with her. we just call each other and set dates to go shopping and stuff. try and talk to her.
=)=) luv ya! t-28 young 1
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You need to call her and tell her how you feel. You can't just let it go and maybe you could tell your mom and she could have her come over and spend some time with you. I also think that you should go see her some of the times. If you got to be friends with her b/f than maybe they would take you places with them everyonce in a while! Hope i helped XoXo
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I'd tell her how much I miss her ♥
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I know how you feel. The only way to fix it, is to talk to her. She can't read your mind, she can't tell how you feel. You don't even have to talk to her in person. You could try e-mailing her or something. Or maybe you could ask your mom to talk to her for you. Just remember she loves you, a lot of older sisters do the same thing. But sometimes they don't realize they're hurting their younger siblings.
Hope I helped!
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Write her letters telling her about whats happening with the rest of your family! Make plans to go to the mall.
I love you,
TarA
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She probably doesnt realise that you feel like this. I bet if she did know she'd make the effort to see you more. You just need to tell her. If you don't feel like you could talk to her could you write her a letter explaining how you feel? Good luck
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You will need to talk to her thats the only way she can see that your been serious and that you miss be around her, but you think she has a great boyfriend and a life but you wish to be part of it with her, say to her that when we were little i used to tell you everything and id love spending time with you but i cant do this now because your never around.
luv roxie
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You need to talk to her. A little sister loves to spend time with her older sister so its okay. Just call her up and ask if she wants to do something, anything...anytime! Say you really miss her and you feel kinda lonely...just let your feelings all out. She will definatley try to spend more time with you. :) Update me if you can!
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