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i cannot stand my life anymore. i am 13 and NEVER had a boyfriend. my friend is 12 and has had 7 boyfriends and hooked up with 2. i feel like if i stay so lonely then i will seriously die of a broken heart. i watch my friend hook up with her boyfriend and wonder why wont anyone do that to me? why? im pretty, im sweet, im nice, im flirty. why the fuck am i single and prude? i tried to get my so called 'friend' to find me a boyfriend. she told me 'find your own goddamn boyfriend' i cant stand this. she wants a guy, she gets him, why cant she help a poor innocent girl who will die of loneliness find a boyfriend to love and who loves her? please help what can i do to get a boyfriend and not be so lonely and depressed? thanks sooooo much
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Honestly you need to stop freaking out your 13. Your friend is 12 and she had 7 boyfriends? OK I saw the ratings you gave other people for saying she's a tramp and such but come on, that's pushing it really close. And you shouldn't worry about it. Think about it this way: you are really waiting for your first love and not acting like whatever guy in sight is. You are waiting for that speacial one. And keep waiting. Just because your friend had a ton of boyfriends doesn't mean you have to. Besides, you are 13 you should have different worrys right now. And life isn't about boyfriends.
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oh my god.. your thirteen stop whinging you sound so up yourself
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hey chick i totally know how you feel. i was in the same exact thing when i was 13. all mi friends had boyfriends and i didnt see why i didnt have one. i just now had mi first serious relationship and im 15. just go out, and dont be scared to go up to a guy. you have to take chances. go to the mall and if you see a cute guy just go up to him & start talking. guys love when girls are confident. and if you go up to a guy, thats definatly confidence. just think "whats the worst that can happen" but anyways, your time will come. if you go LOOK for a boyfriend, you wont find one. itll just happen. and dont ask your friends to find one for you. you have to do it yourself!! jsut go out and be confident. youll get noticed...good luck :)
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Well I'm 14 and I've only kissed and had a serious relationship with one guy. And it was the same guy! Being "prude" isn't necessarily a bad thing! When you finally meet that guy, then he'll be glad that he won't be getting any leftovers! He'll be happy! So don't stress over it so much. And if you truly feel lonely, then just hang out more with people. And for the depressed part, just talk to someone about it. Or do something that truly makes you happy like music or something that lets you feel like you're escaping from reality.
♥ Always,
Maria
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A little dramatic...
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Your only 13. Guys are not really something you need to flip out over. Neither does your friend at 12. Live life as it is for awhile until you /really/ need to worry about that kind of stuff....
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Hun, your 13.. you shouldn't be interested in guys right now.. keep your priorities straigth and work on school.. in time the rigth guy will come.. Don't hurt yourself over thiss! trust me.. the same thing happened to mee.. and as for your 12 year old friend.. she isn't really a friend if she didn't wanta help you!!! and you say she ahs hooked up w. 2 guys? well call her a slut or a whore or a bitch or all 3 and then drop her ass!!
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I AM WITH YOU! I AM 14 AND HAVE NEVER KISSED A GUY! and then some of my 7th and even 6th grade friends have had more than 5 boyfriends! what is up with this world? everyone is like "omg he's my boyfriend" "oh im going out with him" its a mad house! i can't even get a guy to be a good friend. i sometimes feel alone also! but one day i said please let me meet a guy that is nice likes the same stuff i do and just would like me for the way i am, and in that week i met a guy that is just that. we aren't together or anything, but i think next year will be good!
my advice would just to wait. everyone will get their guy or girl at a different time. you just have to wait until its your time. you'll know when it happens.
hope this helped!
BWLNG FR SP FAN
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