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ok here goes right well me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and next time i see him we would be togthere for 3 months because hes going away on holiday anyway...we have decided that we want to have sex and hes coming to my house soon and that when we are gonna do it!but..im really really scared of pregnancy, we r gonna use a condom but im still scared im 14 and hes 17 and i love him but i cant say anything to my mum for the pill and my periods arent regular so i wouldnt know if i was pregnant so..what do i do i really wanna do it with him i know its right but what can i do about pregnancy and all that stuff help!!!!!!!! ill rate high xxx

I don't mean to be rude but its not right to do this, first becuase its illegal to have sex with someone that much older than you, and also YOu say you in love.....no definateky not in love when you have only been going out for 2 MONTHS!! i know that you will regret this later and yes you still can get pregnet.

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what is the youngest that you, or anyone you know has had sex? im scared my sister in 6th grade is sexual active, and so i was wondering if thats normal? thanks

Actually my friend had sex in 6th grade, but that doesn't make it right! She regrets it now and in health we were talkin about this kind of stuff and you need to let your sister know that if she even isn't on her period she can still get pregnent and STD's are starting to become really common but hey if she doesn't care then let her recieve her own consequences because i don't think its right. Hope i helped XoXO

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ok so the other day i put on a pad from my moms package of em (they were light flow ones) just to see what a pad would feel like when i finally got my period. well omg it was like wearing a diaper, it was huge on my underwear and i couldnt even like move in my pants lol cause it itched and was so big.. why is this what am i going to do when the time comes for a pad!

Use a tampon. I know every11 thinks they hurt but they make life a lot easier once you learn how to use them

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Can anyone give me good brands of Hair Straightners? Doesn't matter if expensive, just the best brands in your perspectives. Thanks.
NaImEE ♥

In My OpinIon i loVe The ChI'S!! Well i hope thats what your looking for they are kinda expensive though, but i am positive you will like it, because thats why they are expensive.

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My cousin wants to tryout for cheerleading in highschool. She's done it before when she was younger, and can do flips and cartwheels. However, she feels that she "MUST HAVE A BACKHAND SPRING" to make the H.S. squad.

♥ Does anyone know if you definitely need a backhand spring to make an average hs squad
♥ Does anyone have any confidence or any other tips for her, she won't listen to just me..thanks alot! I'll rate well to appropriate answers!

No i don't think you need that but they are looking for the best o maybe yuo could help teach her so that she is already in front of everyone else. I know that you have to be able to do a back handspring though for a sophmore year ( atleast for my school) and to teach her you might want to spot her on a trampoline and have her practice that for a while and then move to the floor and spot her she will get used to it, or hire a pro and go to classes but anyway good luck! Hope i helped Xoxo

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im 14 and my sister is 17. she has a boyfriend that shes really close with and a just got a car. shes supposed to come every other weekend but since she got her car she never comes. shes always at her boyfriends and if she does come she just leaves anyways. i really love spending time with her and i miss her a lot cause i never see her anymore. i know that shes older and doesnt want to spend time with her family, but i still do. what should i do? i dont know if i could really talk to her.

You need to call her and tell her how you feel. You can't just let it go and maybe you could tell your mom and she could have her come over and spend some time with you. I also think that you should go see her some of the times. If you got to be friends with her b/f than maybe they would take you places with them everyonce in a while! Hope i helped XoXo

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Recently I started likeing my best guy friend, (we've only been really good friends for about 8 months) And before we became good friends, we went out for a lil over a month. Now I like him, and he knows and he says he does too. Im really comfortable around him, but Im scared it will ruin our friendship.Because I think I will chicken out, because Im so use to being his friend, I dont know how to be his girlfriend..What do I do ?

Ok... i think that you should talk to him and let him know how you feel. I also think that if you guys have a really good friendship then nothing could ruin it. I wouldn't let that get in the way of friendship thought because if you are the kinda girl who wants to do stuff with him then you wilil always remeber that and thats how you will know him . Also me and this guy went out for over a year and we are still great friends but you know a lot of things can turn out differently so think about it yourself and deep down you will know what the right thing to do is. Hope i helped XOXo

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hey guys i didnt know what to put this under but, i want to get a tan this spring break since im not going anywhere. the thing is m, my mom doesnt want me to go in a tanning bed. what are some ways i can convince her to let me go? thanks anyone that replies!

My mom won't let me yet either because she doesn't wanting me getting cancer and i respect that so i wouldn't try to bugg her about it i would just do a different kind of tan. You could always go to the tanning bed place and get a mystic tan. THose work really well and last for a while. You could also do tanning cream, but sometimes it turns your skin like orange. Well i hope i helped XoXo

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well i want to have a great tan before i go to Flordia may 26 but i am so white, is there any kind of tanning stuff that works really good and stays for a really long time or stays forever without going to a tanning bed? Also i am tired of shaving all the time my hair grows back so quick, is there any kind of wax or something that doesnt cost that much money that works great to keep hair gone for a while?

OK a mystic tan works really well and thats located at tanning beds but it doesn't hurt your skin.ALso i would NOTTT recommend wax. It hurts ike hell and it leaves marks sometimes. I would use the foam or something like that.. i used it once but over all the best thing to do is to shave but cream and foam and things works to but you can try but wax kills!! Hope i helped xoxox

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My friends and I are doing a project in science, and they won't listen to anything I have to say! Whenever I have a good idea, they won't listen to it, and if they do, someone always says that for some reason, it won't work. I'm not a control freak or anything, i just wish that they would listen to me! 13/f, if that helps at all.

ok.... i definatly think that you shouold talk to them about it!! I f they still don't listen you need to talk to your teacher and let her know that the group isn't working maybe she could move you into a different group or work something out betweebn you guyz. You could also like try and get more info to convince them that your idea is a good one.. well anyway there are a lot of possibliteis good luck!! Hope i helped XoXO

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Hey! I know, I ask a TUN of questions about tracK!

but, I have a meet on monday! (Im asking this on Saturday Morning) and I have HORRIBLE pains in my knees and ankels when i run, and after i run i have the pains in my ankels. it always feels like my i am going to sprain my ankel!

I have pratice in about an hour!

so, i need some help! what should i do to make myself go faster, despite the pains.

I know how to at the meet because i only have to do it one time, but at pratice wtih the continous working, what should I do??

and any ways to go faster, and im in the 4X1 relay! anyone have sugestions for that either?

Also- I know what the pains are coming from-its the track.

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sorry its so long, but i only have a little over one hour before i have to leave for pratice!

Thanks In Advance!

-*KelC*-

HeY! I think that first thing you should do is let your parens or whoever know.. they might be able to get you s brace for your ankle and knee for support. I would also let yor coach know. Then i would ice it like ALL the time until Monday. You should also take some medicine to reduce the pain. I play select soccer and i always sprain something and istrained my calf muscle just yesterday. When i get hurt i ice it , tell people so they can help me, take medicine, and then when i am in a game (( or for you a meet) and it would start to hurt i would just run faster knowing that the race would be over the faster i ran.. then i the pains wold stop. Also it helps if you strech better... like really hard.. that also reduces pain.. and cold water too. I hope this helped and remember talk to someone nothing bad can come from that.. you will et more help that way. Remember if it starts to hurt while you are running push yourself and be strong! Hope i helped Good Luck Monday!! XoXo kacie

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ok here it goes its kinda long but i really need your help.
i have this friend she is like my best friend thats what she calls us... doesnt mean she is...
well her boyfriend broke up with her a while ago. she still hasnt gotten over him. she still loves him. i've talked to him on the phone and i asked him if he still likes her and he said no. and i was like well who do you like? and he kept saying no one until he said "me" i was like stop playing and he says im not playing i like you. and i kept saying no your joking and he goes no i like you, you dont belive me? and at school he always tells me he loves me, and he gives me hugs, and once he called me his girlfriend. i went to the movies last nite and he was there... he asked me to sit next to him, and i said ya ok. and at the movies he put his arm around me and he kept telling me he loves me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i like him to a lot. but i dunno what is he trying to do, does he like me? i think he does, but im not sure. he askes me if i love him and i say yes sometimes mostly i dont answer and wen i say yes he asks me why? and what should i do about it? he flirts with other girls to. so please help me, and tell me what does this mean?

ok.. well first of all you can't let this out to your friend.. the best idea might be that you tell her that you don't like him and about everything that is going on so that if she sees him hugging you in the hallway or w/e then you and her won't get in a fight. If she really likes this guy then you need to make her get over him and help her find a new guy. If you can't find one then you need to be there for her.. the next best thing to your boy firend is your best friend so be there for her. In the mean time just support her and make her date other guyz so that she can get over the other guy and if it works .. maybe if you like him and she wouldn't care then you could go out with him.. but that would be a while and who knows maybe you could make your friend into a girl who her old boyfriend would want to date so that they could go back out!.... well i hope i helped ! Good Luck!! XoXo

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I am interested in substances that can be smoked to get high/stoned that aren't already known drugs. I have done some research and have read about smoking banana peels and tea but I want to know about other things that can be smoked with good results.

Ok...you might smoke for different reasons.. maybe your depressed or friends got you into it... but you will regret it! Trust me!! My advice is that you stop smoking because its really not good for you and if you want to be sucessful later in your life you can't do drugs! If anone found out about this you would probably get kicked out of school too! So my advice is that you get some help to stop smoking.. and if you smoke for a reason then there are other ways to solve that problem besaides smoking!

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