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ok here goes right well me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and next time i see him we would be togthere for 3 months because hes going away on holiday anyway...we have decided that we want to have sex and hes coming to my house soon and that when we are gonna do it!but..im really really scared of pregnancy, we r gonna use a condom but im still scared im 14 and hes 17 and i love him but i cant say anything to my mum for the pill and my periods arent regular so i wouldnt know if i was pregnant so..what do i do i really wanna do it with him i know its right but what can i do about pregnancy and all that stuff help!!!!!!!! ill rate high xxx
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Hmm. I say, make him put on two comdoms. Haha, i know, it sounds stupid, but its more protection. And i would say use the pill and a condom, but you cant ask your mom, so thats out.
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well i think its better if you wait. i mean if you do get pregnant..if nething happens of course..i mean your 14..your life wouldnt be that normal yah kno? dont risk having sex because you think its right, and throw away your life. just wait and see how it all plays out..maybe in another year or so if you guys plan on it. just keep the relationship with no sex until your positive that your gunna risk your life for something that huge.
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I don't mean to be rude but its not right to do this, first becuase its illegal to have sex with someone that much older than you, and also YOu say you in love.....no definateky not in love when you have only been going out for 2 MONTHS!! i know that you will regret this later and yes you still can get pregnet.
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You do right to use a condom, it will protect you from S,T,D'S and AIDS, and has a vey high chance of proventing pregnancys. If you live in the uk, it is free and confidential to go and be put on the pill, also, if you think that you might be pregnant, you could go and have an abortion on the NHS. Also free and confidential. If you want to be put on the pill however, you could talk to your mother and put it down to period pains.
Anyway, hope that helps
Love Dannii xx
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ok first off you are fourteen years old for two you are not in love for three you couldnt be in love and for four youve only been together for 2 to 3 months thats not long enough to be together to do it if you waited about a year then thats about the time but you are stupid to do that now and you would regret it and i would suggest not doing it and im sure its all pleasureful and if you do i hope your happy that you ruined your life and btw your relationship is illegal
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ok....well first of all, make sure that you wanna have sex because i know for fact that you will regret it sicne you are younger than most teens having sex and if you are gonna do it no matter what people tell you, THEN USE A CONDOM, because some guys will try to convince you not to use one and that it will feel better but trust me it wont. and the best bet it to go to planned parenthood and get put on birth control. request ortho-tricylen lo, it will make your period normal and it works really well from keeping you from getting pregnant, i've been on it for 3 years. also, by going to PP, you dont have to have a parent to get the pill. you could have your boyfriend or a friend or your friends parent take you there if its too far to walk. just becareful about having sex right away and always use protection. hope i helped, good luck :)
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You can go to a plan parent hood to get the pill for free or for a real cheap amount if you say you have no insurance.. ♥ Dez
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ummmm i would say just use a condom or not at all i am 15 and i just found out like 2 weeks ago i am pregent its a very scarey thing i am blessed to have a family and a boyfriend there for me but some people might not be i feel very stongly about teen sex and pregnacy so i think you with choos the right thing and remember you can always talk to you mom about things dont be scared she prob. whent thought the same things when she was your age soo good luck
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i would suggest not doing it with him because their are too many risks. if he loved you he would let you choose. im a guy so i know what its like to be excited like that. me and my g/f have been going out for four months and yesturday was the first time we kissed. im 14 and i'd suggest waiting longer. we wnt to make out but havent had a chance. but its not me to decide how to run your life so you decide. im just here to suggest what i would do if i were in your shoes.
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