Recently I started likeing my best guy friend, (we've only been really good friends for about 8 months) And before we became good friends, we went out for a lil over a month. Now I like him, and he knows and he says he does too. Im really comfortable around him, but Im scared it will ruin our friendship.Because I think I will chicken out, because Im so use to being his friend, I dont know how to be his girlfriend..What do I do ?
xObroKen68x3 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 2:10 pm: I have been in your situation for about the past three years. I have a guy friend that is my best friend, too. We have dated on and off, but that has never really ruined our friendship. I like him more than a friend right now, but I just don't know if he likes me back. He says he does sometimes, but I don't know when to believe him. If you do end up dating this guy, then don't be afraid. Just don't let anything come between your friendship! Make sure you are really comfortable with your decision too. I don't think that you guys would ever stop being friends because of this, but do want you really feel you should! [ xObroKen68x3's advice column | Ask xObroKen68x3 A Question ]
SHoRtLilKaCiE11 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 11:28 am: Ok... i think that you should talk to him and let him know how you feel. I also think that if you guys have a really good friendship then nothing could ruin it. I wouldn't let that get in the way of friendship thought because if you are the kinda girl who wants to do stuff with him then you wilil always remeber that and thats how you will know him . Also me and this guy went out for over a year and we are still great friends but you know a lot of things can turn out differently so think about it yourself and deep down you will know what the right thing to do is. Hope i helped XOXo [ SHoRtLilKaCiE11's advice column | Ask SHoRtLilKaCiE11 A Question ]
jen_rache answered Sunday March 20 2005, 10:31 am: i have a lot of "guy friends" that sometimes i like more than a friend. and it kinda depends on how yoo act around him... are yoo usually flirty? or are yoo like 'one of the guys' around him? im sure yoo guys will be a great couple cuz yoo no so much about eachother.. but if yoo ever think that your friendship is being ruined, then i think yoo should let it go and tell him yoo guys were better off friends!
mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday March 20 2005, 4:43 am: Think to your self do i want to go out with him or just be friends? i think you should go for it he likes you and you like him, but talk to him about your friendship tell him that you dont want your friendship to end up in pieces.
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Sunday March 20 2005, 1:54 am: well since he likes you and your both best friends i say go out with him. usually if you had been best friends for a long time than if you breakup the relationship wont take a big hit. so go out with him. it should all work out. i hope i helped. [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
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