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Help!! Mine and my girlfriend's 1 year anniversary is tomorrow, and we're still searching for something to do in the daytime. We have the whole evening and night planned out, making dinner and all that, but we need ideas for what to do during the day other than our usual movie/mall/stay at home.
We're 17 and 18 and neither of us have our liscense, so we're kinda limited, but her parents are willing to take us if its not too much. (link)
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i think tath it shouldn't matter what you do with her, just as long as your with eachother and having a good time!
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Ok well hey there jen and rachel i have one very serious question. I have this issue its a doctor thing i dont know............but my penis is 13 inches un erected soo all the girls i have been with are very intimidated by this they run, scream, hide, kick my shins, and on occasion call the police.....Once i gave this girl 19 stiches it was an ugly site but at the moment it seemed like she was having a good time.........now im in jail and i cant even get some good lovin from my inmates because they are soo scared........what can i possibly doo too solve my problem
Signed, Large and hairy hard to carry
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well i dont no what yer supposed to do when yer dick is frickin huge- cuz uhh i dont have one! sorry!
haha! JACK I LOVE YOO!
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Dear Rache and Jen,
I really like this kid, I have since like last year and he's very cute! But here's the thing hes like extremely shy and won't make a move on any girl! I really want to be with him but he is so shy. What can I do to be able to be his girlfriend?
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i hate when that happends! i hate when theres a reely hott guy and yoo wanna get with him so bad- but then yoo find out hes reely shy! well you have to do things to make him no that you like him- tell me how that works, and where you get from there! xoxo *rache
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why does everyone hate me . ever since i met keegan wetzel he has either made fun of me or has had to bragg to make me feel bad. I wish i was normal. I wish i never had 3 nipples it is not my fault that i was made this way. Just think of this if i have 3 nipples i can have more sexual contex . Will u tell me if i should cut it off or if i should put tape ova it to cover it up . (link)
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KEEGAN! yoo are so weird but i love yoo anyway!
xoxo *rache
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there's this gurl at my skool and she called me balemic or that thing that makes u throw up and i definitley wont do that and it is annoying and my friend wuz at her house telling her not to do that and my friend told me then someone told me they heard kids at IJHS talk bout this it is annoying ppppeeezzzzeeeee help... thanx a bunch!!! (link)
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thats a hard one! people are mean, they will make up rumors, but if you no yourself that its not true then theres nothing to worry about! i go to IJHS and i never heard anyone talk about someone that is bolemic- so i think yer ok! good luck! xoxo *rache
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Dear Jen and Rachel,
My love life sucks.I'm still a virgin and im 46 years old. I've never had a first kiss or even had a hug from a girl im not related to.But the other thing is that im a lesbian. LESBIAN PRIDE ALL THE WAY!!! Sorry bout that... So yeah what should i do to try to have a love life. Im planning on having a spem injected in my vaginia so my and my "future wife" (if i get one) can be happy with a child. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO TO FIND A GOOD SEXY LADY!!!??
Your new friend,
*Barb* (link)
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sorry, im not really smart in the area of lesbians, so im not sure how to answer your question. i guess you will just have to go out to bars and find someone! *rache
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this is the girl who entered a entry about being flat. i took your advice and its working but the problem is how will i stop them from calling me flat! (link)
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well unfortunatly you can never stop people from calling you names. you just need to ignore them! i hope i helped! xoxo *rache
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Rache and Jen!
ok do you guys have you peirods yet becauseim 14 and it seems like everyone has there periods even some people i know that are 13 do...why do we all get our periods at different times or am i just weird? (link)
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well people get their periods at all different ages... some girls get it when they are 8 and some get it when they are 16. it just depends on the person. usually if you are heavier and/or taller, you usually get it earlier. if you are very active in sports, and you are skinny and/or short, you will get it later. i hope i helped! xoxo* rache
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I recently had an encounter with somebody who wasn't "clean" and then about a week after I had been in another encounter...with a goat. (I am not proud, but c'mon, she wanted me all up in her.) I am beaing arrested for beastyality and I don't know how I will ever be able to break this to my family. I need help, I'm cuttin myself as I type. Seriously babe, I need you. XOXO - PK and JC (link)
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well this is a hard question to answer! i think you should stay away from unclean people and goats? and i think you should be honest with your family because they should love you for who you are anyway! and please don't cut yourself- you will do better without the bleeding! i hope i helped! xoxo *rache
p.s. pk and jc- you guys are so weird lol!
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is it true that chocolate makes you break out??? tell me plz! i dont know if to give up chocolate to look better or not!! -i RaTe HiGh- (link)
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yes it does
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So there is this guy who i kind of like, but the problem is he is more of the hook-up type. I really want to hang out with him and stuff becuase he is really fun to be around. Its just everytime i talk to him he mentions something about wanting me to give him head. I personally don't think i'm just ready to be giving him head because we have only hung out a few times. I really want to keep this friendship, but i want to feel comfortable not hooking up with him. Also, i am scared of what my friends will say. I truely don't want to become a hookup queen. (link)
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This is all about doing what you feel comfortable with. If you don't want to lose a friendship then you should probably just stay friends, but if you want to move on into a more intimate relationship, then there's no problem with that. Also, if you don't feel comfortable with the things he is telling you or asking you to do, tell him and if he gets mad, maybe he's not the greatest friend! Hope I Helped!! x3Jen
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Dear Rache and Jen,
So I have this friend. Yeah she is one of my best friends and i love her to death, but she has this problem of ditching us [ her girl friends ] for the guys she likes. I mean it's ok to hang out with your b/f, but it would be nice if you called us once in awhile because really.. who is gonne be there forever..us..not some stupid guy. Any advice on how to fix this problem.. HELP!
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well i think yoo should confront yer friend and tell her that yoo and yer other friends don't appreciate how she ditches yoo guys for her boyfriends. and if she gets mad at yoo because of it, then i guess shes not a loyal friend! i hope i helped! xoxo *rache
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Thank god i have someone to talk to and i need some advice. Ok, i like this guy, and i dated him 2 times. Im so in love w/ him and i want him to be with me and not this other girl. They have been dating since Feburary. I hate seeing them together, and they both flirt constanly, and im sick of it. I want to like kill myself cause i cant get over him. Can you help me with this, do u know anyone who has gone through this be4?? HELP ME!!
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i no exactly what your going through! i am kind of going through it rite now-- but i try to help my friend who cant get over this one boy.
ok my advice is to get away from this guy starting... NOW! you can still talk to him and stuff but you have to show him that you are no longer interested in him, because if he still thinks you like him, he will tease you about it with the other girl and try to make you more jealous because thats how guys are! and the BIGGEST mistake a girl can make is to kill herself because of a guy! thats crazy hun! there are plenty of fish in the sea- you just have to find your nemo! so the moral of this 'advice' is to stay away from him- go for other guys because im sure you are a beautiful girl and some guy will be very lucky to hold you in his arms someday! i hope i helped! xoxo *rache
if this is who i think it is- you can call me anytime- you no who yoo are! mwah!
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People at school always say I dress like a slut because I wear thongs and low cut tops. I tihnk thongs are comfortable and I want to keep wearing them. What should I say to these people or what should I do about all of this? PLease Help. (link)
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yoo shouldn't care what people think about yoo! but i truely think that it depends on how old you are. if you are 12 or younger, i think you should cover yourself a little more. if you are 13-15 then yoo can show off a little more! after that age its fine! if you feel very uncomfortable about people making fun of yoo, then maybe yoo shouldn't dress so slutty... but if yoo dont mind, then keep wearin it! im sure yoo look great! hope i helped! xoxo *rache
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I Chance am righting back ok its not any girl in particular its just all the popular girls think im ugly which aint kool am i right or am i right (link)
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well chance, you aren't ugly! none of God's creations are ugly. so never doubt yourself- chance... your a funny guy, and even if they do think you are ugly, they should look past your looks and go for your personality! good luck! xoxo *jen n rache*
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Dear Jen and Rachael,
I've been growing up with two dads instead of a mom and a dad. They love each other a lot but I still think it's kinda wierd when they make out in front of me. They often urge me to join in and when i do they get all into it and touch me in my naughty places. Is this wrong? If so what can i do to stop it? (link)
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Yes, this is very wrong. it's a federal defense to touch kids in their "naughty places". especially if it is your son/daughter. we think you should confront your parents and tell them that YOU personally think it is wrong and you dont like when they want you to join in their sexual feelings. i hope we helped! xoxo *jen n rache*
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hello rachael and jen i have been called flat at my school and i have had it i can not stand it anymore. they bother me so much!!!!!!!!!!!
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ok well unfortunately i have been called that too... but i mean its something yoo gotta live with! its not your fault- but just make fun of yourself for it- dont be shy about it cuz yoo no yoo can't do anything about it! good luck! xoxo *rache
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for the talent show me and my boyfriend are doing 2 duets and stuff and i'm extremely nervous
1) im afraid were gonna like get into i fight before the show.
2) im afraid ill get stage fright
3) and im mostly afraid ill mess up
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*First thing is to calm down and dont' worry! You'll do great if you believe you'll do great! Also, just keep things cool wtih your boyfriend, if things start to get a little shakey, talk to him, he'll listen if he knows something is bothering you! And, to help your stage fright, you could do some breathing exercises or do your routine in your head a few times,I've been on stage many times, and if you kno the routine upside down and inside out, you'll be fine, and even if you do make a mistake, improvise, or just pretend like nothing happened, nobody will know! Good Luck at your talent show, you'll do great!
x3Jen
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Hey guys, I've been single for a really long time now and I really want a boyfriend. I'm 14/f, and I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend again. I still feel really bad from my last relationship. I have no guys to talk to or anything. When I go places, I hate seeing people with their boyfriend or girlfriend and having a good time, or even Valentines Day and Sweetest Day. How do i meet guys? I used to always go to the mall and the movies, and I liked people there but I'm really shy. It's hard to just go up to people and say something. How can I get some guy friends atleast, so I have someone to talk to? Thank you so much to anyone who answers! I'm so sorry this was long. (link)
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one word. FLIRT! you have to come out of your shell (dont be shy anymore!) you gotta put yourself out there so guys will notice you! you have to be flirty and look flirty! always laugh at a guy and be "touchy feely" lol (works like a charm) i hope i helped! if you need anymore help IM me at x princess019 x- good luck!
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My best friend is 16 now but she has been getting abused by her dad since she was old enough to walk. I saw him punch her in the face one time and bang her head against a wall. I am really scared for and her sister because I have seen him hit her too. She's asked me not to tell but Im scared that if I keep quiet that one day he might really hurt her. We tryed calling the police on him one time but they wanted to press charges against us and not him. I dont know what I should do and I dont know how I can help her. (link)
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that is terrible! i no a few people that were abused by their fathers and i have helped them for a while now. you reely need to call the police or some kind of help that will arrest him. i no your friend told you not to tell anyone, but what is worse? you losing your friend or your friend being physically hurt? i would rather tell the cops because you might lose your friend for a little while but she will thank you in the future! i hope i helped! xoxo *rache
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