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soo ive been friends with my best friend since we both were lil. Something happened over this last year tho, shes like younger then me by a year or something and we both go to different schools. Now that we both are working and doing sports we never have time for each other. The last time i saw her was thanksgiving when we both didnt work at all. She got really heavy into drugs over this last year and a half and she would go around and lie to me all the time when i would ask her questions or make up excuses to things, i just want her to be honest to me and i never want to lose her as a friend. I dont think that we will ever hate each other, but i want back what we had when we were lil ,is there any hope for that? I love this girl to pieces but i feel she doesnt feel the same way , she didnt even get me a birthday gift for my birthday that just passed and now that its almost christmas i hope that we at least talk for christmas, i miss her soo much and i never want to lose her, i guess i just sometimes wish she would tell me more stuff about her life instead of telling this other girl that lives near us everything. It hurts sometimes to know she never tells me nething and lies to me, what should i do.....and if ur like this to someone please make things better because it hurts soo bad inside
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Talk to your friend. Maybe the things that you think she does aren't true. There is always a possibility. You mention that you two have been friends for a long time and you are also older. You both should have your own groups of friends, and you shouldn't always feel like you have to be with each other. The two of you need time for other people but don't let that take away your friendship. You also mention in this that the younger girl has gotten into drugs and such. Talk to her about it and make sure that you are positive she is still doing drugs before assuming it. This other person who she has become close to and tells everything to doesn't seem like someone that you like. Maybe she does this because she knows you are older and she doesn't want you to judge her badly. Just talk to her about it, that may make things better!
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