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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!
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I am not racist either but i would never go out with a guy who is african american/mixed skin. No offence to thoughs who are I just don't think it is a good idea. I have friends who are black and who are white but I just dont think its a good idea.
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That's all up to you.. but your parents might be against it.
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Of course its not bad!!!!!!!!!!!! Whatever gave you that idea???????
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Yes, yes it is.
UGH, NONONONO it is soooo not wrong. I have this friend Denzel Washington (not the famous one, he's only 14) and I don't have a crush on him, but he's cute and really awesome. If you can be friends with someone of a different race then why can't you date them? Come on, I don't mean to be rude and I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but where in the world would you get an idea like that, and if you weren't racist (not saying you are) then you'd know the answer. I hate to sound rude, and I know that I do, but this is such a stupid question!!!
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It is not wrong..though it is tough as others do have problems with it. but if you and this person are strong enough to with stand any kind of hurtful problems..then enjoy..this person will enrich your life in lots of different ways. hey look at Taye Diggs..he is getting flack for having an interracial wife..but he loves her and so THAT is all that matters!Ps Cuba Gooding Jr is married to a white woman too!
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theres nothing wrong with crushing on a guy who's darker skinned or black
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A lot of people think it's wrong or weird, but really, it doesn't matter. We're all people.
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no, having a crush on a black person when your white is not wrong.
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No, that's not wrong at all. The whole separate race thing has been over with for a long time. Catch up with the times and understand that everyone is the same so you can like whoever you want no matter what race they are. You seem pretty ignorant about the whole thing though. I mean you aren't exactly racist because you aren't saying that it is wrong, but you are pretty close to it.
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no thats not bad, this is a free country you can like who ever you want to like and you should care what other people think of you
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oh GOD NO... absolutly not...
kev
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Im not racist either :) racist people suck! okay anywho its not wrong! some parents dont like it if there child likes or dates another boy or girl thats not their color, but come on can they reallllyy stop you? so yes its PERFECTLY fine!!! if it wasnt we wouldnt have any BEAUTIFUL mixed babys! < they are soo KA*UTE! leave on in my n*bEeox any time! _______x0 kAicEy
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Psh.. gurl (or guy) I've had a crush on Usher for like ever!! My parents would prolly flip but thats just the South for you.
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That's not wrong at all. That shows you like the person for who they are and not the colour of their skin. But the fact you have to ASK if it's okay, puts YOU in the wrong. The guy I'm with is from India and I'm white. Does that make it wrong? No. Him and I love eachother for who we are inside, and that's all that matters. ;)
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No, it is not bad at all. People can't help who they like and who they don't. Everyone is the same and if you like a person who has darker or lighter skin than you, it isn't a crime. It is perfectly normal.
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oh qosh no ! don`t worry about it !
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No you can fancy whoever you want! You can't help fancying somebody and it doesn't matter what colour, shape or size they are!
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* Of course it's not bad!!! =D
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hell no! it's not wrong. and im sure your not racist. my best friend is white and she's dating a black guy. there's nothing wrong with it. if people give you crap about it, then don't listen to them. but there's absolutely nothing wrong w/ people of different color dating.
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nope not at all even tho some people think so.... depends on wut YOU thinK!! i dont think it is...<3
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no no it is not bad at all unless your parents have a problem you dating a black person then it is bad o yeah i am not being racist.
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Nope.
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Why would that be bad? If your parents are racist then you might be getting shit from them. Mixing races is a beautiful thing. You shouldn't care what color or religion a person is. If they're nice to you and treat you with respect and you want to date them, so be it. Race shouldn't matter. I hate racist people. It's pointless, they are all people. The only thing different is the color of their skin. It doesn't matter what's on the outside, just on the inside.
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Times have changed, no one cares what people's skin colors are, unless they are rascist. Don't worry what others think either, skip the people that don't think we're all equal.
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No, it's definately not bad! You can like who you want, no matter what race they are! Like people for their personality, not for their skin color. Hope this helped :)
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yea its perfectly okay.. it doesnt matter the color of thier skin*hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*
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Nope, it's not bad, it's normal! There's nothing bad with being white and having a crush on someone who is a different race than you! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Nooo
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lol no its not bad. sometimes its frowned upon by some ignorant people but otherwise i dont think its bad.
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I dont think so!!
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NO! its totally cool! one of my friends (whos white) is going out with a black kid and hes soooo chill!! I love him and she is in love with him! =) it doesnt matter<3 hope i helped*x0
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NO WAY. Why would it be bad? The only thing different is the skin colour and it takes all colours to make a rainbow. There is totally nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all.
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omg no.. like.. mai ex bf was blak and tha guy im *talking* to now is blak.. so.. its totally not wrong.. and anyone hoo doesnt like that.. then they can shoot themselves.. ;)
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If you are not racist, then you should know the answer.
*Thanks for the one! Well if you are not racist, then you would not worry about the color of peoples skin. Therefore your question should not even occur to you.
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