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I can put a tampon in just fine, it just hurts *really* bad whenever I pull it out, is it maybe because I let it get too full before I changed it? Please help! (link)
If it hurts that bad then just use pads. If you think its too full when you change it then just carry some pads/tampons with you. Try changing it every hour or so and see how it works.
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my room is really lame and i hate having friends in it because its not cool. i have basic furniture, tv, computer, but its so boring to be in. any ideas? help!!! (link)
Get a cute comfritor-or how ever you spell it-lol- that is like hot pink or red or something bright to make your room stand out. Then you could get a blue or purple or plum colored rug to make your floor look less plain. Maybe get a few pictures and a few new pillows and maybe some little cute accesories.
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If I walked on the tredmill for an hour every morning, didn't eat as much and ate healthy, and did crunches and excercises, do you think I would get skinnier within a month? Thanks. (link)
Yea probably. If you cut off the sweets and sugar that might help too. The tredmill, not eating so much, and the excercise is also a great way.
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I like this guy in school but i dont know if he likes me and i dont know what to do about it please help me! rachel









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Dear Rachel, try flirting with the guy you like. If he flirts back then you have something positive going. If that doesnt work then just sart to hang out with him. If he hangs out with you more then most of his friends then he definatly likes you. Or if he breaks apart of his group at sometime to come and talk to you. Sorry its so long!
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do u think i should start 2 babysit? pleaz tell me y or y not (link)
How old are you? I started babysitting at like 11. If you think you can handle it then definatly go for it. Maybe you should babysit one night and see how you like it. If it was fun then try it again but if not then dont do it. My advice:Babysit the rich kids! LOL
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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance! (link)
I am not racist either but i would never go out with a guy who is african american/mixed skin. No offence to thoughs who are I just don't think it is a good idea. I have friends who are black and who are white but I just dont think its a good idea.


I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do? (link)
If you live with family then get someone to sleep with you. Yes it might sound childish but it will help you to get to sleep safely. If you live alone then get a pet and let that pet sleep with you. Or you could just stay up until you get really tired and fall asleep!
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I have a really weirdo stupid dog, lol. She bumped my head and now i have a HUGE bruise. Do you guys know how to get rid of a bruise fast? My parents and my older sister (Who's moving home today, YAY!), are gonna laugh at me and I hate it when they do. I also really don't want to go to school with the stupid bruise. Any help would be appreciated!!
-Caydee- (link)
Caydee, It really madders where the bruise is. If its on your fore head all you do is cover it with your hair or some skintone powder if its somewhere else!
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I have short finger nails and I need to know a way how not to get nail polish every where aroung my nail, and I use dark colors so it's hard. Does anyone out there know how to do this? If so please help!
♥Jess (link)
Dont worry Jess, I have very short nails too. I usaully paint my nails up and down. Never side to side because that will make it run down to your cuticals. So up and down is best with short nails!
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I need to buy somebody a Nintendo DS for Christmas, but I have no idea where. I've called all of the stores in my area, and they are all sold out. I know next to nothing about Ebay, so unless somebody can point me out a few good auctions I have no idea how to use it. Can anybody give me any help as to where to buy one of these? (link)
Well it really depends where you live. If you have a Repleys Game store near you then that would be a good place to look, or if you have an Electronic Boutiqe by you then that is good to. I'm also not a guy so I actually dont know either!
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im going up to New York for christmas and new years eve. Me and my friend want to do something awesome for new years eve because its the first year that were able to actually hang out with friends on new years eve, but then thing is we dont know what we want to do.. or what to do lol. what my question is, is does anyone have any ideas on what i can do for new years eve? thanks (link)
Well of caurse you can always watch the ball drop! Or if you have any friends in New York you can always have a party! There are alot of chariet rides to go on through the city of New York, so can go on one of thoughs. I am honestly as clueless as you! Lol.
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I have this friend and me and her decided to try a new style for christmas and summer.its kinda 80ish.We want to cut pantyhose knee length and wear a cute abercrombie skirt over it.This is for summer by the way. But then we want to wear a colorful tanktop. For shoes we want flipflops or converse. Can anyone tell me if this sounds cute? (link)
I honestly say....no because I like the preppy/punk sort of look, but thats just me. I mean I shop at Abercrombie too but I just don't really like the idea of pantyhose:( Only thats just my opinion. If you like it then you wear it!
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today i woke up with a sore throat, runny nose, watery eyes, and just A BADDDD COLD! its the begining of winter break and im tryin soo hard to get better by atleast monday....is there anything i can do/take to get better? im taking halls cough drops and dimetap so far....is there anything better? (link)
I have had the same thing for awhile. I missed school Wendsday because of it. If you take advil and just rest until Monday (or Tuesday) you will most likley be ok to go out and be with friends and stuff like that. Drink alot of liquids and nose spray! Feel Better!
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I'm a teen girl going through puberty and my private has losened up. I never had sex before so it couldn't have "stretched" that way. Also, around the edges of the viginia it's turning a dark tan color. What is this and is it normal? Also, are there any exercises i can do to tighten it up?

thnx so much, i really need your help! (link)
This is what you go through. It is very normal for this to happen and you dont need to tighten it up. If you have had an Orgasiam it will loosen up and that is normal. If you have had your period it will loosen also. You do not need to exercise to make it tighter. When you do have sex it will feel much better for it to be loose.
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I would assume this would go under mental health, cause I am sure it is all in my head.
Everytime I get extremly upset, I get really nausous feeling. I am in the middle of a pretty bad pending breakup (only time will tell what will happen with that) but everytime something happens that would upset me, or I dwell on something that may have upset me in the past, I actualy do get sick. I dont go one day without throwing up, and recently, I feel nausous all the time, so I cant eat, therefore getting dry heave. What can I do to stop getting sick? (link)
You need to see a doctor about this. If you already have and it didnt work then you need to think happy thoughts. If it only happens when you are sad then you need to talk to your ex (the one you broke up with) maybe that has something to do with it. If you have dreams about your ex then you need to talk to your ex and figure out what is happening. If the sadness just come suddenly then you need to ask your self-why am I crying about this- and then drink some gingeral.
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I have a rat and my brother gave me another one and put them in the same cage and they started fighting and one of them has cuts under his chin so I was wondering if I should just let them heal or do something about it.Thanks (link)
You should definatly do something about it fast! Take it to the vet and put the other rat in a different cadge ASAP! If you don't do something the rat could get poisioned. You need to take it to a vet and get a new cadge!
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I used to be best friends with this girl but we fell out because I spent too much time with a new group of friends and my boyfriend. Now I just hang out with my boyfriend and the new group but my ex friend has started taking over. She's poisoning my friend's minds against, flirts with my boyfriend and is just generally taking my place. There is no way that we can ever be friends again but she's destroying what I have with my other friends too. What should I do? (link)
Maybe you should listen to what your ex friend has to say. If you give her attintion she might not try to take over so much. Let her be apart of your group and maybe try to be her friend again. If that doesnt work then maybe you should start hanging out with your new group of friends more than your ex does. Or ignore your ex friend and just have fun.
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