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she's taking over
I used to be best friends with this girl but we fell out because I spent too much time with a new group of friends and my boyfriend. Now I just hang out with my boyfriend and the new group but my ex friend has started taking over. She's poisoning my friend's minds against, flirts with my boyfriend and is just generally taking my place. There is no way that we can ever be friends again but she's destroying what I have with my other friends too. What should I do?
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I would talk to her
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That's so weird, because the same exact thing is happening to me! Why did you stop hanging out with her as much as the other group of friends? The reason I left my ex best friend was because she wasn't being honest, she was getting annoying, and she was embarassing me. Maybe you should just try talking to her. See what happens. Hope I helped.
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Ask your friend why she's doing this. She's probably hurt because you left her. Also, tell your new friends that none of the stuff she's saying is true. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Hey! Okay you should really talk to her, weather your friends or not with this girl, because if you feel like she's taking your place, you should do something about it soon! Its your friends and your boyfriend, and you shouldnt feel like she's trying to be you or taking your spot. You should find a way to tell her and explain to her that she should back off, otherwise she's gunna keep on doing it and do you really wanna lose your friends and your boyfriend? Plus If I were you, I would tell them how you feel about her, and they'll understand.
Hope I helped!
Kalie Noelle
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hit her.... thats what i did
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Well first of all tell your friends that your exfriend is being extremly rude to you. When ever she comes into your group "We need to leave...now" and then start walking away and if they don't come i guess they aren't your friends anymore and find some new friends. I know that it is hard to do but I havd to do it once.
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Abby
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Maybe she's feeling left out and is just desperate for you attention. Maybe your friend is trying desperately to get back in with you, but she just isn't going about it in the right way. I think you should try talking to her and finding out why she's trying to turn your new friends against you and steal your boyfriend.
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Maybe you should listen to what your ex friend has to say. If you give her attintion she might not try to take over so much. Let her be apart of your group and maybe try to be her friend again. If that doesnt work then maybe you should start hanging out with your new group of friends more than your ex does. Or ignore your ex friend and just have fun.
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