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Hi people this may seem like a totally weird question but I'm going to a costume party next weekend and I have no clue what to wear! Do any of you fashionable girls out there have any ideas or suggestions? Oh yeah, I'm a girl and I'm fifteen. I RATE 5's!!!

I personally would go as a Swing dancer. They are gorgeous. Get a red dress. Black heels. Red lipstick. And curl your hair. You'll be adorable

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14/female Okay well this is going to be long, so I'm just going to warn you ahead of time, but please help. Well, a friend of mines mother has tumors in her head. Well about a month ago they were removed and there was this tube thing that the doctors put in her. Well less than a week ago the tumors came back and she had to go to the hospital for surgeory. I was pretty close w/ my friends mom and it's hard for me and one of my other friends to deal with it, and so were thinking about how our friend who's going through it is feeling. Well the girl who's mother is in the hostpital (Brittany) is being checked for tumors, and we just found out that she has one and will be getting her head shaved. Well a few of us girls (about 5) and a few close guy friends (about 10) were thinking of shaving our heads/cutting our hair really short. If you were the girl Brittany, how would you react to that? Would you think it's kind of mean/too hard to handle, or do you think it's a good gesture? I am so willing to do it because it's such a great friend, but I want some other opinions, the guys are defninitley doing it, and I got her a bunch of x-mas gifts and we've talked a lot. Brittany is very sensative when it come to her mom and her own problems and we think she'll either be sooo happy that she'll shed some tears of joy, or sooo sad that she won't be able to face us 'bald'. I know you guys don't know her, but if it were you, how do you think you'd respond. Again, I apologize for the lenght, I just wanted to add some detail, and sorry if it's confusing I tried to make it not confusing, but it still sounds that way to me. Thanks in advance for any help.

I think it's a great idea. When I was going through Chemo, a few of my close friends said if I lost my hair, they would shave their heads so I wouldn't feel so different.

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I love you. And we can't let Chris know about our affair together. :O What do I do? [lmaolmaomaoaoao]

Eat me, then we'll figure it out. ;)

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ok. There's a girl in my school named Shay. I don't hate anyone, but she's as close as it gets. I mean it. I can't stand her. she sits next to me in one of my classes, and i can't beilieve i've gone this long without yelling at her, much less punching her! I'm normally very calm about things, but she makes me so mad, i can't concentrate on ANYTHING. She always makes really embarassing comments about... i don't really want to say it. Today I finally told her she's a pain in the butt and it's amazing that she thinks she has friends. She cussed me out. then she made another embarrassing comment! I'm so sick of this. I can't think about anything but how much i dislike her. please help me!! thanks!

Go up to her and tell her to stop acting like a child. Tell her to grow up. It'll show maturity on your side, let her make her immature little comments, and just take them. If she sees that saying embarrasing things about you, DOESN'T embarass you, then she'll stop.

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I've already asked this question sorda but i wanted to change it a tad. I have no idea what to get my dad for christmas! He loves tennis, the entire family plays *me too!*, so we have way to many tennis balls and all the basic stuff. So i was wondering if anyone knows of any like gadgets or something for tennis. i have like 25 dollars for the present. Or I was thinking of making a picture frame. I don't want to go out and buy one bc i like the idea of making it, but I don't want it to look to homemade. any suggestions? ThAnkS!
Lyds*

Make a frame out of tennis balls, and put a family picture, or a picture of you in it. He'll love it. ;)

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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!

That's not wrong at all. That shows you like the person for who they are and not the colour of their skin. But the fact you have to ASK if it's okay, puts YOU in the wrong. The guy I'm with is from India and I'm white. Does that make it wrong? No. Him and I love eachother for who we are inside, and that's all that matters. ;)

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hi, next month i have my first appointment for the gnyo, becuase im 15 and have had my period irregular since i starting getting it 4 years ago,so my mom made me an appt...so anyway my concern is that, a couple months ago my boyfirend and I of 9 months decided to take are relationship a little farther and he fingered me, quite intensly and has done it a couple times..(but I have never had sex, and dont plan on it anytime soon)I am worried that the gyno will tell my mom,(becuase i know the gyno will be able to tell,becuase i am quite stretched out from it) and i really dont think that my mom wants to hear "oh by the way your daughter has been fingered" and she will be quite dissapointed in me. If i ask should the gyno keep my information confidential?

If you don't want the Gynocologist to tell your mother, then tell her just that. They will ask you if you want your mom or whomever in the room, then they will ask you those type of questions. Just say you don't want your mother or whomever in the room. ;). They will keep it confidencial.

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