Question Posted Saturday December 18 2004, 11:12 pm
Ok, well ther's this guy who asked me out and I said yes. The onlyproblem is that I'm not allowed to date. But, I am allowed to go out with friends, even a coed group. My question is, what should I do? Should I try talking to myparents about it, or jsut tell them we're going as friends and other ones are going to? I really need advice, none of my friends are helping me!!
If it helps any im 13, hes 14.
Blade answered Sunday December 19 2004, 1:32 am: wow you sound like me at your age. try talking to your parents about dating and how old you have to be before they let you actually "date". i personally think your a little young to go out on 1 on 1 dates right now but deffinately go for the group outings it can be more fun but it doesnt mean you and your guy cant be by yourselves. let your parent know your dating because i can assure you the less you hide from your parents the farther youll go, cuz theyll trust you more and give you a longer "leash" sorta speak. but make sure not to push to hard when talking with your parents because something is always better than nothing.
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jamziix16 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 12:35 am: i think you should just go out with him. tell your parents when the time is right. when i started dating my boyfriend, i was afraid to tell them because i barely knew him at the time and he was two years older than me.. but u just gotta do it when the time is right. in order to see him, hang out with friends.. say your hanging out w/ a bunch of friends and go to his house ! i know lyings bad but u gotta take a risk ! good luck :o) [ jamziix16's advice column | Ask jamziix16 A Question ]
goodadvice4teens answered Sunday December 19 2004, 12:33 am: tell your mom your pregnant and then she will get scared and u can say that u have a boyfriend and she wont be as mad.......then you can do him and then really get pregnant and she will think your kidding....ps i know this is you julie [ goodadvice4teens's advice column | Ask goodadvice4teens A Question ]
lildesidevil143 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 12:05 am: ok you should tell your parents because who knows what will happen if you get caught. If they don't like it that you have a bf then tell them to atleast meet him and see if he's ok. Then if that doesn't work go as friends and probably go to the movies.
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IDoNoNuTtIn answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:42 pm: well..i belive that you should talk to your parents about it..and the boy too...mayb compramize and tell you parents he can meet him first...if that doesn't work..try to dubble date..then it will look more like a "group thing" [ IDoNoNuTtIn's advice column | Ask IDoNoNuTtIn A Question ]
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